Some great contributions to this thread.
Of course those who say that you should forget about your age are right, and there are obviously people who do. But I just ask you to consider the ads: it is quite rare to see those looking specifically for oldies. I suspect that for those who do it is a sort of fetish thing: the randy old git has an appeal all of his own for some women - many much younger than the men they want to attract. While I can see there might be some pleasure in this I'd much sooner be taken for what I am: someone with the sexual appetite of a younger bloke in a body that first saw the light of day before the Normandy Landings. I really do not think much about my age; age, like size, colour, marital status, is just no big deal. What really matters is the person under the (even if slightly wrinkled and sagging) skin.
I do respect those who say they want to play just with their own age group. It would be very arrogant of me to expect women who could be my daughter (or, heaven forbid, my granddaughter) to even think about sex with me. But there is no commandment saying 'thou shalt not have sex with people much younger or older than yourself.'
But, eh, this is getting too serious. We've got our new bus passes now. Here's a challenge: how far can anybody get in a day on a bus for free and go and play? You'd have to be back within the day, too.
Any takers? I'm game to try!
Dave.
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Davethedipper
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 81
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No country for old men?
Yes, that seems to be the case. I've never been into clubbing: too noisy for me. But my impression (after just a few weeks, though) is that this whole site is not really bus-pass-holder friendly. That shouldn't be any surprise, however. I suppose it's inevitable that most users are going to be 35+, and under 50. And as for straight men, we all know we're heavily outnumbered by women. We've just got to be patient.
Those of us who've turned sixty know we're far from over the hill, but still have a lot to offer. We know we make caring, sensual lovers, with years of experience. It's just a matter of convincing the ladies to give us a try! I can hardly blame you women in your 40s and 50s for wanting a younger man; it's only natural. Socially and in work I have no trouble relating well to younger women, but sex seems to be another matter. I suppose lots of younger guys want to put on a show all the time. They want to be a porn star every time they have sex. We're past all that, but can provide something rich and wonderful.
I'm sure there are plenty of people out there - couples or single women - who can sing the praises of us older men. Let's hear from you!
Dave.
Yes, that seems to be the case. I've never been into clubbing: too noisy for me. But my impression (after just a few weeks, though) is that this whole site is not really bus-pass-holder friendly. That shouldn't be any surprise, however. I suppose it's inevitable that most users are going to be 35+, and under 50. And as for straight men, we all know we're heavily outnumbered by women. We've just got to be patient.
Those of us who've turned sixty know we're far from over the hill, but still have a lot to offer. We know we make caring, sensual lovers, with years of experience. It's just a matter of convincing the ladies to give us a try! I can hardly blame you women in your 40s and 50s for wanting a younger man; it's only natural. Socially and in work I have no trouble relating well to younger women, but sex seems to be another matter. I suppose lots of younger guys want to put on a show all the time. They want to be a porn star every time they have sex. We're past all that, but can provide something rich and wonderful.
I'm sure there are plenty of people out there - couples or single women - who can sing the praises of us older men. Let's hear from you!
Dave.
Do you fancy an oldie? Are you, like me, a straight and sexually active bus-pass holder with all parts in very good working order? Or are you someone just looking to taste the wonderfully rich mature wine of experience? Do you live in the NW, say, no more than 40-50 miles of Chester? Do you prefer daytime meets (not all that noisy clubbing)? Well why don’t we try and get together? A nice pub lunch, good conversation, and – let’s hope – wonderful sexy play to follow some time later. That can wait a while, though; there’s no rush. If some of the stories on this site are to be believed, then the over 60s have as much fun as anybody. And why not? We’re sensuous and thoughtful lovers. The fire has not gone out; it just needs stoking a bit. Tempted? Surely not ageist! You’re not afraid of an oldie having a heart attack at a moment of climax, are you? If you’re in your 40s you’ll be old one day. You still want to be having sex in your 60s, don’t you? Go on, give it a try! We’re no Sagalouts, but remain buspassionately yours – if not forever at least for a good few years yet. So if this interests you why not get in touch with me? The Swinging Sixties lives on!
