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Straight Male, 51
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As somone else who's fairly grey (about 50-60% now 
) I have to say in the past I have coloured my hair.....usually resulting in the colour looking rather unnatural. :shock:
So I haven't bothered for the last 5 years.
Only problem I have with it is that it isn't apread evenly across my hair - I have a large "white stripe" in the right hand side of my head (no Pepe le peu jokes....
)
) I have to say in the past I have coloured my hair.....usually resulting in the colour looking rather unnatural. :shock:So I haven't bothered for the last 5 years.
Only problem I have with it is that it isn't apread evenly across my hair - I have a large "white stripe" in the right hand side of my head (no Pepe le peu jokes....
) Quote by Bazza64
I can remember my first time sucking a guy very well. I'd been out around the town centre, and got chatting to a guy in one of the local "gay" pubs. He offered me a lift home and whilst driving started to rub his hand up and down my leg. I suggested we go back to his home where we spent the evening enjoying each others bodies.
I had no hesitation in taking his cock into my mouth, no nerves, no apprehension, and no guilt or bad feelings about it afterwards. I'd had girlfriends before but had always felt that being with a guy was just another variation of my sexuality. Beating myself up or feelings of guilt never happened because it was a natural thing for me to do.
Now with Vicky, we enjoy my bi side together. She gets massive pleasure out of watching me and another fella playing and is eager to join in too. For me, the joy of being able to share this side of my sexuality with her is just awesome.
I would say that if you want to try something sexually, then go for it. Its the only way to know if something is for you or not. It could open up a whole new way of life for you.
Wasn't it Woody Allen who said that being bi doubles your chances of a date on a Saturday night?
It hasn't for me.....yet
But as many have said - always do things only if you feel comfortable with it. Never rush into something that you don't feel 100% sure about - a case in point for any situation let alone a situation like this
Even I as a single male get uninvited PM's, although I tend to ignore them.
Rule of thumb is never accept any behaviour you wouldnt accept out there in real life!
And as many have said - make a note of the room/server and the approximate time to report it to aN Op or admin who will sort it out for you.
Rule of thumb is never accept any behaviour you wouldnt accept out there in real life!
And as many have said - make a note of the room/server and the approximate time to report it to aN Op or admin who will sort it out for you.
I've been fortunate to have traveled to a fair few places in the last few years, Zante, Mallorca, Prague, New York, but my favourite is (unsurprised to those that know me ) is Japan.
I went over to be able to Celebrate my 25th Birthday. I stayed for five days in Ginza (an upmarket are a bit like London's Mayfair I suppose) It was August and hot. Very hot. It was on Average 32 degrees at 9 am in the morning! :shock: Partly due to the Smog and due to the fact that Japan is in the Pacific Rim and is always hot that time of year.
It's a wonderful mixture of Old and new. They are obsessed with technology, but still hold onto values that their Samurai ancestors held but with a twist. I wish I could find some of the pics I took of the place, but I went through one area of Tokyo and in between two huge skyscrapers was a tiny little wooden building (I think it was a sushi bar). To a western ey like mine it was so weird to see such a thing, but the locals never batted an eye lid.
I visited a Shinto temple which was over shadowed by Tokyo Tower (which is and exact copy of the the Eiffel tower and is littered with satellite dishes and Telcom devices to save space), which was designed to look like those temples found in India. I greeted the monks inside and was welcomed in, allowed to have my pic taken in front of the shrine. I'm not religious but it was one of the most calm and tranquil places I've ever seen. The noise and Bustle of "New Tokyo" seemed to be muted as I couldn't hear anything a hundred yards away.
As I previously said Japan is obsessed with Technology and I'm a card carrying geek myself
So a trip to The Sony Building is essential. When I went the PS2 was THE thing and had a whole floor dedicated to showcasing it. Along a long wall was 12 PS2's with an up to date Sony Vega TV hooked up to it. It was free to have a go and the usual hordes of Games fans crowed round each to see how the players were doing. Of course being a Gaijin (literal translation - Alien or foreigner) and a 6ft2" one at that I stuck out somewhat and was pleaded with by many to have a go against them. I suppose the novelty of "Beating the Foreigner" was too much to resist - although I held my own
Further down the street was an older district where the wooden building collected, and had fish markets and other such things. I wandered round as I wanted to get my mum a Kimono and as much associated gear as I could. A decent silk Kimono (even a second hand one) would cost Thousands so I went into a shop and asked how much a cotton one would cost. After getting those things I asked if they knew where the nearest Sports shop was (well, after I manged to get the pronunciation right and pointed to certain words in my Dictionary that had been typed In Kanji or their language) My brother collects National football team shirts, so obviously the Japanese National shirt would be ideal for him. The shop owner managed to get across that he didn't know so to my astonishment left the shop - with the old brass cash register open! I waited for abuot 10 minutes and he came back with another old man and between the two of them managed to help me find it.
Once I found the shop, back in the modern part, I realised that nearly every company in Tokyo used "Meeters" I.e. smart and polite staff who would literally greet everyone that came in with a GENUINE smile and "Ohiyo gozimasu!" (Hello and welcome - mainly used to people you meet for the first time) Attention to detail, immaculate shop floor and customer service that would make if the most syccphantic Shop assistant cry with jealousy meant that it wasn't just done to improve custom, but because they really meant it. I bought the shirt for my brother and I got some "OST's" or orignal soundtrack cd's from a few Japanese tv series that I like, but even such mundane items were wrapped up with such care that not only did they look fantastic, but you didn't want to open them!
I've just read back what I've typed and I've rambled! :shock: I could mention seeing the masses of mobile phones that were available, or the Geisha in the streets, or the hundreds of Radio stations (including the 24 hour a day "Happy Birthday" station that transmitted in English the song! :shock: ) Or the Yakuza in the streets of Shinjuku. The business districts of Asakusa and Akasaka. The bullet Train terminal that I only found when I was due to go home (and was flat broke anyway ) The Imperial Palace.......
But I don't know if the SH Server could take it all :shock: so I won't.....unless someone says they want to hear it
) is Japan.I went over to be able to Celebrate my 25th Birthday. I stayed for five days in Ginza (an upmarket are a bit like London's Mayfair I suppose) It was August and hot. Very hot. It was on Average 32 degrees at 9 am in the morning! :shock: Partly due to the Smog and due to the fact that Japan is in the Pacific Rim and is always hot that time of year.
It's a wonderful mixture of Old and new. They are obsessed with technology, but still hold onto values that their Samurai ancestors held but with a twist. I wish I could find some of the pics I took of the place, but I went through one area of Tokyo and in between two huge skyscrapers was a tiny little wooden building (I think it was a sushi bar). To a western ey like mine it was so weird to see such a thing, but the locals never batted an eye lid.
I visited a Shinto temple which was over shadowed by Tokyo Tower (which is and exact copy of the the Eiffel tower and is littered with satellite dishes and Telcom devices to save space), which was designed to look like those temples found in India. I greeted the monks inside and was welcomed in, allowed to have my pic taken in front of the shrine. I'm not religious but it was one of the most calm and tranquil places I've ever seen. The noise and Bustle of "New Tokyo" seemed to be muted as I couldn't hear anything a hundred yards away.
As I previously said Japan is obsessed with Technology and I'm a card carrying geek myself
So a trip to The Sony Building is essential. When I went the PS2 was THE thing and had a whole floor dedicated to showcasing it. Along a long wall was 12 PS2's with an up to date Sony Vega TV hooked up to it. It was free to have a go and the usual hordes of Games fans crowed round each to see how the players were doing. Of course being a Gaijin (literal translation - Alien or foreigner) and a 6ft2" one at that I stuck out somewhat and was pleaded with by many to have a go against them. I suppose the novelty of "Beating the Foreigner" was too much to resist - although I held my own Further down the street was an older district where the wooden building collected, and had fish markets and other such things. I wandered round as I wanted to get my mum a Kimono and as much associated gear as I could. A decent silk Kimono (even a second hand one) would cost Thousands so I went into a shop and asked how much a cotton one would cost. After getting those things I asked if they knew where the nearest Sports shop was (well, after I manged to get the pronunciation right and pointed to certain words in my Dictionary that had been typed In Kanji or their language) My brother collects National football team shirts, so obviously the Japanese National shirt would be ideal for him. The shop owner managed to get across that he didn't know so to my astonishment left the shop - with the old brass cash register open! I waited for abuot 10 minutes and he came back with another old man and between the two of them managed to help me find it.
Once I found the shop, back in the modern part, I realised that nearly every company in Tokyo used "Meeters" I.e. smart and polite staff who would literally greet everyone that came in with a GENUINE smile and "Ohiyo gozimasu!" (Hello and welcome - mainly used to people you meet for the first time) Attention to detail, immaculate shop floor and customer service that would make if the most syccphantic Shop assistant cry with jealousy meant that it wasn't just done to improve custom, but because they really meant it. I bought the shirt for my brother and I got some "OST's" or orignal soundtrack cd's from a few Japanese tv series that I like, but even such mundane items were wrapped up with such care that not only did they look fantastic, but you didn't want to open them!
I've just read back what I've typed and
I've rambled! :shock: I could mention seeing the masses of mobile phones that were available, or the Geisha in the streets, or the hundreds of Radio stations (including the 24 hour a day "Happy Birthday" station that transmitted in English the song! :shock: ) Or the Yakuza in the streets of Shinjuku. The business districts of Asakusa and Akasaka. The bullet Train terminal that I only found when I was due to go home (and was flat broke anyway ) The Imperial Palace.......But I don't know if the SH Server could take it all :shock: so I won't.....unless someone says they want to hear it
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- work has thrown me body clockout a bit 
)Quote by HJ47
Paris is out -- She served just 4 nights of the "reduced for good behaviour" 23 days she should have served (she was originally sentenced to 45 days but got half price for turning up at the compulsory hearing).
Apparently the reason for her release was that she was near a nervous breakdown - she moaned about having to wear Orange coveralls, the beds weren't comfy, the food wasn't nice......Blah, Blah, Blah.
Just goes to show how spoilt she is
Quote by Kiss
never had sex with a female (yet :rascal: )
Well you can think of me as a kind of half-way-house if you like?
:lol2:Quote by Dawnie
Do I have stupid written on my forehead
You scare me enough from a distance Sassy :lol2:
Be afraid.... be very afraid of the PP!!! I'm surprised I got out alive!
*Tut* Another reason why the LAPP exist
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You scare me enough from a distance Sassy :lol2:
:cry:
I'm not scary honest
No, you aren't
Quote by Kiss
I used to 'collect' car number plates that I saw and write them all in an exercise book, and I kept a record of how many times I ever saw that particular plate.
I also used to run around our living room in my socks and dragging my feet. Switch the lights off and go over to the metal fire surround and touch it - thus giving myself a massive static shock.
I used to love messing around with electronics kits. I was told that the family video player was knackered and we were getting a new one, and that I could rip the old fecker for bits. I linked up the step down transformer (a component that reduced the 240 volts to a voltage that the machine could use) to a 9 volt rectangular battery (it see how low the voltage would be), but wired it up the wrong way round. Touched the wires, and five minutes later was berated and given a lecture as to why certain words are frowned on in polite company.....
I've never driven abroad
I've never had sex on my Birthday :cry:
I never met either of my Grandmothers
I've never broken a bone in my body :shock: (although I have been stabbled , hit countless times around the head with various object including baseball bats , Chep Pallets :shock: etc)
I've never owned a porn movie :shock: (And that is true....I've watched a few, but I don't actually own one )
I've never had sex on my Birthday :cry:
I never met either of my Grandmothers
I've never broken a bone in my body :shock: (although I have been stabbled
, hit countless times around the head with various object including baseball bats , Chep Pallets :shock: etc)I've never owned a porn movie :shock: (And that is true....I've watched a few, but I don't actually own one
) 
Quote by Alex_NorthEast
As I've said to her in the chat room - She won't be able to get anywhere near the mids. I'm blocking the M1, the A42/M42....in fact every last damn road in and out of the mids.
:twisted:
I have been in Notts since Saturday and the roads were clear
Ha!!! :kick: That pissed on your bonfire :smug:
Alex xx
Maybe - but you haven't moved down here permanent - yet :twisted:
Wrong Bonfire I think
