Sorry Alex, hope you didn't think I was having a go at you...but can't see the face argument re ladies...if guys were to do it...they will still get panned... my argument is consistency...not a personal attack against anyone.
My view is feel free to post what you are comfortable with...its the double standards that pervade that annoy me.
Love Stu of the "Fran and..variety"
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Hmmmm...bit of a prob here for me...I agree cock pics aren't either nice, acceptable, or I believe even legal (should they be erect) in the god forsaken legal world of this country. Yet we are happy to accept tits out no problem.
Ok, so it's not illegal and I ain't gonna complain if some lady wants to display her wares (lol), but it seems more than hypocritical that the guys get panned for it (legality wise or not) yet the ladies are openly encourgaed by the users of the forum.
I said it before in kit-Kats thread re: "freedom"...where's the consistency? I know for definite that complaints of cock shot won't stop cos a guy posts a flaccid member, so lets have an all or nothing policy re the avatars and stop having a go at guys who want to display their wares...
(As to the legality side re an erect cock..mods go trawl the ads and remove every one that has a pic of an erect penis....hmmm..not enough hours in the day me feels....or is that fact that no-one reports them an indication that they are really not that unwanted in the forum either..who knows...but go full on one way or the other..please!! )
Stu of the "Fran and variety"
PS from a leg, not a tit man!!!
Ok, so it's not illegal and I ain't gonna complain if some lady wants to display her wares (lol), but it seems more than hypocritical that the guys get panned for it (legality wise or not) yet the ladies are openly encourgaed by the users of the forum.
I said it before in kit-Kats thread re: "freedom"...where's the consistency? I know for definite that complaints of cock shot won't stop cos a guy posts a flaccid member, so lets have an all or nothing policy re the avatars and stop having a go at guys who want to display their wares...
(As to the legality side re an erect cock..mods go trawl the ads and remove every one that has a pic of an erect penis....hmmm..not enough hours in the day me feels....or is that fact that no-one reports them an indication that they are really not that unwanted in the forum either..who knows...but go full on one way or the other..please!! )
Stu of the "Fran and variety"
PS from a leg, not a tit man!!!
Sure, there are a lot of teachers who suck, and they'd be better suited to making telemarketing calls for Amway. But the vast majority are dedicated educators who have chosen a profession that pays them less than what some of their students earn selling Ecstacy, and for that sacrifice we seek to punish them. I don't know about you, but I want the people who have the direct attention of my child more hours a day than I do treated with tender loving care. Those are my kids they're "preparing" for this world, so why on earth would I want to piss them off?Michael Moore., Stupid White Men
You would think society's attitude would be something like this
Teachers, thank you so much for devoting your life to my child. Is there ANYTHING I can do to help you? Is there ANYTHING you need? I am here for you. Why? Because you are helping my child-my baby- learn and grow. Not only will you be largely responsible for her ability to to make a living, but your influence will greatly affect how she views the world, and how she will feel about herself. I want her to believe she can attempt anything- that no doors are closed and that no dreams are too distant. I am entrusting the most valuable person in my life to you for seven hours each day. You are thus, one of the the most important people in my life! Thank you.
If only....what a generation we could raise!!!
Stu..of the "Fran and variety"
I would say in some instances that may be the case, but in many it is not...come in, take part...your contributions will be welcomed by many and you will soon feel part of a community.
That's the point...it is a community..and like any community the more you are prepared to put in, the more you will "feel" part of it (oohhh eerrr missus!!).
It is a welcoming place, you are not judged on how long you have been here, but on how you conduct and display yourself. Have fun, check out the range of threads, from serious..to bizarre...and above all enjoy.
Its like attending a party and you appear to be the only one who doesn't know anyone else...well, have a drink or two...settle down and say hi, butt in a conversation or two (technically known as hijacking a thread..lol) and you'll soon find an invite upstairs..lol
Fran & Stu
xxx
That's the point...it is a community..and like any community the more you are prepared to put in, the more you will "feel" part of it (oohhh eerrr missus!!).
It is a welcoming place, you are not judged on how long you have been here, but on how you conduct and display yourself. Have fun, check out the range of threads, from serious..to bizarre...and above all enjoy.
Its like attending a party and you appear to be the only one who doesn't know anyone else...well, have a drink or two...settle down and say hi, butt in a conversation or two (technically known as hijacking a thread..lol) and you'll soon find an invite upstairs..lol
Fran & Stu
xxx
Remember our conversation OOTD...whether its on here, at a station, in shops, cinemas or wherever, you are gonna find rude people, people who would rather hurt and offend you or try to score points at your expense.
Don't lose sleep over them, they are the losers in any walk of life, to rise to their inhumanity demeans you. Remember live and let live, be you, say what you think (as long as you don't intend to/or hurt anyone with it) and enjoy the great company that can be found in all walks of life..even swinging!!! lol!!
It is clear you have enough friends on here not to have sleepless nights over the "few"...but know where you are coming from, understand your post...just doubt it will make the blind bit of difference to the ones you refer to.
Stay sane!!
Fran & Stu
xxxx
Don't lose sleep over them, they are the losers in any walk of life, to rise to their inhumanity demeans you. Remember live and let live, be you, say what you think (as long as you don't intend to/or hurt anyone with it) and enjoy the great company that can be found in all walks of life..even swinging!!! lol!!
It is clear you have enough friends on here not to have sleepless nights over the "few"...but know where you are coming from, understand your post...just doubt it will make the blind bit of difference to the ones you refer to.
Stay sane!!
Fran & Stu
xxxx
Wowee!!!
Marilyn Manson, Meatloaf, Radiohead....you are my kind of people lol
I dont think I could pick a favourite song...there are just too damn many!! But these lyrics are very special to me, Stu wrote them down for me in some very dark days and they really pulled me through.... Luv ya hun thank you.
The song is Girl with the grey eyes by Big Country
You make me smile
with all the feeling
that you deal in
like a gambler
it makes me feel
that I'm a winner
or a sinner
and I'm branded
I feel your skin
so warm beside me
and I can hide me
in your dreaming
you hold me so near
inside your fear
and I can feel
the blood thats running
I only see those sad grey eyes
I only hear you singing
I am the ticket
you the prize
when begins the winning
Just like Josephine
it will not be tonight
still I have the dream
still I have the sight
Will you and I always be like this
will you and I always have this
Its all we have
the time between us
and no-ones been us
for a moment
you talk to me
just like no other
like the brother
that I never had
I look at you
and you will turn and smile
for a little while
be happy
I want you
with all that loving brings
like a church bell rings for the morning
Oh be my woman
and I will be your man
like I know I can
If you let me
just fill my heart
and I will fill your soul
Alexandra
will never sound the same
not a roman's game
just a feeling
and I will know
the time I heard that name
will never be the same
only better
Love
Fran
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Marilyn Manson, Meatloaf, Radiohead....you are my kind of people lol
I dont think I could pick a favourite song...there are just too damn many!! But these lyrics are very special to me, Stu wrote them down for me in some very dark days and they really pulled me through.... Luv ya hun thank you.
The song is Girl with the grey eyes by Big Country
You make me smile
with all the feeling
that you deal in
like a gambler
it makes me feel
that I'm a winner
or a sinner
and I'm branded
I feel your skin
so warm beside me
and I can hide me
in your dreaming
you hold me so near
inside your fear
and I can feel
the blood thats running
I only see those sad grey eyes
I only hear you singing
I am the ticket
you the prize
when begins the winning
Just like Josephine
it will not be tonight
still I have the dream
still I have the sight
Will you and I always be like this
will you and I always have this
Its all we have
the time between us
and no-ones been us
for a moment
you talk to me
just like no other
like the brother
that I never had
I look at you
and you will turn and smile
for a little while
be happy
I want you
with all that loving brings
like a church bell rings for the morning
Oh be my woman
and I will be your man
like I know I can
If you let me
just fill my heart
and I will fill your soul
Alexandra
will never sound the same
not a roman's game
just a feeling
and I will know
the time I heard that name
will never be the same
only better
Love
Fran
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Artificer..nicely summarised!
And who'd thought such a small protest could have challenged and changed K-Mart policy in such a major way! Way to go Michael Moore!
Slim, it is a documentary where Michael Moore sets out to find why the US loves its gun culture and the death and destruction it brings. It will make you laugh, cry, feel desperation, make you angry and sad, but also give you a bit of hope too. Bloody hell sounds impossible, but it ain't. First documentary film to be acepted at Cannes film festival in 46 years and won Oscar for Best Documentary feature 2003.
Also will ensure you will never watch another Charlton Heston movie again!
Fran
xxx
And who'd thought such a small protest could have challenged and changed K-Mart policy in such a major way! Way to go Michael Moore!
Slim, it is a documentary where Michael Moore sets out to find why the US loves its gun culture and the death and destruction it brings. It will make you laugh, cry, feel desperation, make you angry and sad, but also give you a bit of hope too. Bloody hell sounds impossible, but it ain't. First documentary film to be acepted at Cannes film festival in 46 years and won Oscar for Best Documentary feature 2003.
Also will ensure you will never watch another Charlton Heston movie again!
Fran
xxx
Bassdude..
"Another thing, your signature has had me confused for, hmmm 5 minutes. I thought "I know that lyric" - East Of Eden by Big Country? Bloody hope so or I'm going to look really stupid next time I'm chatting to Bruce Watson (Ha, name dropper)!! "
Stu will be so impressed when he sees you knew the lyric. He has to be be the biggest BC nut...followed them since day 1. Looks like we are off to Dublin in April to see the Casbah Club, I'll tell him to say hi to Brucey for ya.
As to the band...my drum kit is set up and the bed has clean sheets!! lol
Love fran
xxxx
"Another thing, your signature has had me confused for, hmmm 5 minutes. I thought "I know that lyric" - East Of Eden by Big Country? Bloody hope so or I'm going to look really stupid next time I'm chatting to Bruce Watson (Ha, name dropper)!! "
Stu will be so impressed when he sees you knew the lyric. He has to be be the biggest BC nut...followed them since day 1. Looks like we are off to Dublin in April to see the Casbah Club, I'll tell him to say hi to Brucey for ya.
As to the band...my drum kit is set up and the bed has clean sheets!! lol
Love fran
xxxx
Oh Bassdude......you tease,
You know I would love to take the position as drummer, would love to get back behind my kit....but you are just too damned far away!
Bugger, bugger, bugger!!! (no, thats not an invite!!!!)
Best of luck and let me know how you get on recruiting!
Love from
Fran
xxxxxxx
Ps. Stu says im not allowed to join a band anyway cos last time I did I shagged the lot of them and had to leave lol!!!!!!!
You know I would love to take the position as drummer, would love to get back behind my kit....but you are just too damned far away!
Bugger, bugger, bugger!!! (no, thats not an invite!!!!)
Best of luck and let me know how you get on recruiting!
Love from
Fran
xxxxxxx
Ps. Stu says im not allowed to join a band anyway cos last time I did I shagged the lot of them and had to leave lol!!!!!!!
Third Option: be somewhere where if one or both of you change your minds you can either get home or somewhere safe, especially if you don't live in the same area. Having to be stuck in a hotel in a mutually agreed place where neither of you hail from could turn into an nightmare if things don't work out.
Just re-watched Bowling for Columbine again... tears of Laughter?(or is it just tears of desperation at US incompetence) and tears of Sadness at the heartbreak shown, but also tears of Joy at a small but not insignificant victory!
If you have never seen it...see it..its a rollercoaster of emotion and we just voted it top of our top ten. ( see mood does alter the list ..lol)
This is one movie that it is easy to miss off a list, but so hard to forget!
Fran & Stu
If you have never seen it...see it..its a rollercoaster of emotion and we just voted it top of our top ten. ( see mood does alter the list ..lol)
This is one movie that it is easy to miss off a list, but so hard to forget!
Fran & Stu
Ok, this is a hard one ....... but this is our top ten for the mood we are in at the moment lol
1. Star Wars
2. Raiders of the lost ark
Reine Margot
private Ryan
never dies
of the state
and times of David Gayle
9. Dead poets society
10. Bowling for columbine
Lots of good movies already mentioned, and lots still missed im sure!
Love
Fran & Stu
xxxxxxx
1. Star Wars
2. Raiders of the lost ark
Reine Margot
private Ryan
never dies
of the state
and times of David Gayle
9. Dead poets society
10. Bowling for columbine
Lots of good movies already mentioned, and lots still missed im sure!
Love
Fran & Stu
xxxxxxx
Ok, I promised myself and someone else on here, that I wouldn't post on this thread as I felt it had all been said rather eloquently and the issues put forward raised a super response.
However, one thing I feel has to be said regarding the moderators is consistency. As long as all sing from the same hymn sheet and act on the same things in the same way...there can be no issues...however, there are times when "rules", written or unwritten are breeched and no-one acts. That I understand is down to personal opinion of the Mods, however many has been the time that personal opinion and expression of members has been criticised etc and like Wilma points out above
As long as posts do not breach any laws or offend anyone surely people can express themselves in their own way. If someone wants to post "I have a fat eight inch cock and big titted wife..come and shag us " in the let's meet forum, then that is their choice/personality, its no ones business whether they get responses or not, it certainly isn't anyone business to offer advice where it's not asked for. Isn't that the point of having sticky threads for newbies etc. If they want the advice, they can go look for it.
We are who and what we are, as long as we break no law, hurt, offend or abuse anyone then surely we can post our opinions in the free environment of the forum. If we are to "fit" into a category that is defined by someone other than us, then you remove our freedom to be us, and make a mockery of the term forum.
There I put in my two penneth, have loads more, but I would only be repeating what many posters have already said!
Stu of the "Fran and variety"
However, one thing I feel has to be said regarding the moderators is consistency. As long as all sing from the same hymn sheet and act on the same things in the same way...there can be no issues...however, there are times when "rules", written or unwritten are breeched and no-one acts. That I understand is down to personal opinion of the Mods, however many has been the time that personal opinion and expression of members has been criticised etc and like Wilma points out above
I truly believe that we all have a right to speak our minds but we must not confuse this with basic manners.
You can write what you like in the forum but if it is considered offensive by those who moderate then you run the risk of the thread being locked or your post deleted. Is this fair? Is this a democracy? We all have our own views on the answer to those questions.
As long as posts do not breach any laws or offend anyone surely people can express themselves in their own way. If someone wants to post "I have a fat eight inch cock and big titted wife..come and shag us " in the let's meet forum, then that is their choice/personality, its no ones business whether they get responses or not, it certainly isn't anyone business to offer advice where it's not asked for. Isn't that the point of having sticky threads for newbies etc. If they want the advice, they can go look for it.
We are who and what we are, as long as we break no law, hurt, offend or abuse anyone then surely we can post our opinions in the free environment of the forum. If we are to "fit" into a category that is defined by someone other than us, then you remove our freedom to be us, and make a mockery of the term forum.
There I put in my two penneth, have loads more, but I would only be repeating what many posters have already said!
Stu of the "Fran and variety"
Stick in there Roger...you will find the forum a warm and welcoming place (mainly)...have fun, get to know the folks here and you will get lucky, at least on the friendship front if nothing else!
Wilma, your new signature...it fills me with anticipation!!! See you soon hun'
Stu of the "fran and variety"
Wilma, your new signature...it fills me with anticipation!!! See you soon hun'
Stu of the "fran and variety"
..gotta try harder there Fred...now back to that rather interesting calendar pic of yours!!!????gmanxxx, are you suggesting I am Fred's other woman????
Ok well its only half the truth...cos I'm Wilma's too... :inlove:
As to the bearded variety...tried...sorry didn't tickle me at all...but you should have seen the bloody rash!!!!! (note to oneself... mental block still functioning perfectly :!: )
Love Fran
xxxxx
Ok well its only half the truth...cos I'm Wilma's too... :inlove:
As to the bearded variety...tried...sorry didn't tickle me at all...but you should have seen the bloody rash!!!!! (note to oneself... mental block still functioning perfectly :!: )
Love Fran
xxxxx
Fred and Pain
Pain and Fred
Naaaaaah - they just don't quite go together!!!!
Not so sure Wilma, remember we do have photographic evidence of Fred, spread eagled, on my bed, and me using that cat o' nine tails on him!!!
One for the calendar maybe???? Hmmmmm???
Fran
getting ever so naughty these days!
(I blame Fred Flintstone -Stu)
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As to movies for the mood...
Love..."Wings of a Dove"
Sex..."Betty Blue" (just switch off half way through unless you want...)
Depression..."Betty Blue" (from about half way through!)
Happiness/Feel Good...so many to choose from but all time fave has to be "Miracle on 42nd Street"
Tear Jerker..."Brief Encounter"
Angry..."Bowling for Columbine"
Comic...joint 1st ....Austin Powers/Bowling for Columbine.
Action....The Matrix/Tomorrow Never Dies/Pulp Fiction (no order intended)
Technical...Jurassaic Park/ Terminator 2/ Jaws (if you saw it back in '76 you know how good that shark was)
Best ArtHouse...THX1138
Best Horror...Exorcist (dated now, but based on true events...v. scary..William Friedkin spent a long time researching)/ The Entity...saw it as a teenager...based on another true story, not seen it on DVD yet??
Ok, there are thousands of other categories you could cum up with, this is just a few of my faves...opinion...nothing more..if I am allowed to pass one...hope all are spelt right!
Stu of the "Fran and variety"
Love..."Wings of a Dove"
Sex..."Betty Blue" (just switch off half way through unless you want...)
Depression..."Betty Blue" (from about half way through!)
Happiness/Feel Good...so many to choose from but all time fave has to be "Miracle on 42nd Street"
Tear Jerker..."Brief Encounter"
Angry..."Bowling for Columbine"
Comic...joint 1st ....Austin Powers/Bowling for Columbine.
Action....The Matrix/Tomorrow Never Dies/Pulp Fiction (no order intended)
Technical...Jurassaic Park/ Terminator 2/ Jaws (if you saw it back in '76 you know how good that shark was)
Best ArtHouse...THX1138
Best Horror...Exorcist (dated now, but based on true events...v. scary..William Friedkin spent a long time researching)/ The Entity...saw it as a teenager...based on another true story, not seen it on DVD yet??
Ok, there are thousands of other categories you could cum up with, this is just a few of my faves...opinion...nothing more..if I am allowed to pass one...hope all are spelt right!
Stu of the "Fran and variety"
:rotflmao: 
You know I luv ya really