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FredFlintstone
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
Bisexual Female, 58
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Quote by Jags
Just wanted to take this thread BACK to it's roots and say hello, again!
Sorry Miss!
*runs into playground rubbing his backside muttering to himself about why it is other people hijack threads and don't get told off. Think she don't like me.... Hurummppphhhhhh!*
Better say hello again!
HELLO!
Hey guys!
Take a deep breath wkdCPL - what you describe is a rollercoaster of emotions that many go through. I can remember the first experiences we had, some disasters that left Wilma feeling less "mumsie" than she wanted, "blips" which left us shaking and we had to call a halt to things etc.
But what we always did was talk it to death, and really discover what it was we liked and enjoyed and we are now completely confident with where we are, what we enjoy and who we enjoy it with.
We have even changed our minds about what it is we like and dislike as we have slowly explored the boundaries of our swinging. It changed every time we had a swing - good or bad! Our first experience was a complete nightmare - a party that was so OTT we left at 2:30 am thinking we had crossed into another dimension.
However, some of the friends we made early on in our swinging have fallen by the wayside and given it up because they failed to be able to do what they thought they could do. By that I mean they thought it through and said it would work but when bump came to grind all sorts of mental issues jumped up and stopped them. We still see them regularly and are great friends. They are jealous of where we are at times but are happier with their own relationship.
Take stock, take your time and if it don't feel right - it ain't right. There is o shame in saying "We tried it - but it is not for us" The only problem is - who apart from us can you tell!!!!!!
Good luck - we hope you find whatever it is you really want and that the blips and tears are not permanent. No relationship is worth damaging for a bit of fun.
All our Love and best wishes
Fred & Wilma
XXXXXXXXXX
Take a deep breath wkdCPL - what you describe is a rollercoaster of emotions that many go through. I can remember the first experiences we had, some disasters that left Wilma feeling less "mumsie" than she wanted, "blips" which left us shaking and we had to call a halt to things etc.
But what we always did was talk it to death, and really discover what it was we liked and enjoyed and we are now completely confident with where we are, what we enjoy and who we enjoy it with.
We have even changed our minds about what it is we like and dislike as we have slowly explored the boundaries of our swinging. It changed every time we had a swing - good or bad! Our first experience was a complete nightmare - a party that was so OTT we left at 2:30 am thinking we had crossed into another dimension.
However, some of the friends we made early on in our swinging have fallen by the wayside and given it up because they failed to be able to do what they thought they could do. By that I mean they thought it through and said it would work but when bump came to grind all sorts of mental issues jumped up and stopped them. We still see them regularly and are great friends. They are jealous of where we are at times but are happier with their own relationship.
Take stock, take your time and if it don't feel right - it ain't right. There is o shame in saying "We tried it - but it is not for us" The only problem is - who apart from us can you tell!!!!!!
Good luck - we hope you find whatever it is you really want and that the blips and tears are not permanent. No relationship is worth damaging for a bit of fun.
All our Love and best wishes
Fred & Wilma
XXXXXXXXXX
Only You - Yazoo
*Sigh!*
There is some poor lass in Wallsend who broke her heart to that when the ship I was on left Wallsend Drydock having spent 3 weeks being persued by yours truly! I finally caught her and then dumped her when we left.....
I still can't listen to it without feeling guilty! ops:
If you are on this site - I suppose a swing is out of the question?
:roll:
*Sigh!*
There is some poor lass in Wallsend who broke her heart to that when the ship I was on left Wallsend Drydock having spent 3 weeks being persued by yours truly! I finally caught her and then dumped her when we left.....
I still can't listen to it without feeling guilty!
ops: If you are on this site - I suppose a swing is out of the question?
:roll: Quote by brumlad
... those images of cheryl baker will haunt me for ever
*shivers uncontrollably*
Don't start me off again Brumlad! - last time I mentioned her Wilma had to rub me down with a wet copy of the Racing Post for an hour to stop the trembling in my knees.
ops: Phew - that was close!
Fred
Quote by Sappho
Wilma, I'm amazed you overlooked 'Billy Don't Be A Hero' by Paper Lace!
Why
: :?: :?: :?: That was far too tasteful for her! Stonking track from my hero's of the time..... 8)
However - She does have "Two little Boys" - Rolf Harris...
:lol: :lol: *wanders off singing "Wahey we're the Monkees, people say we monkey around, but we're too busy SWINGING, to put anybody down.........." *
THAT HAS TO BE THE SIGNATURE TUNE FOR THE ALBUM!
For me:
There is nothing remotely attractive about the penis - mine or anyone elses....
There is nothing remotely sexual about the naked male form.....
Pussies are only a thing of beauty to me if the woman attached to it is a thing of beauty in my eyes.....
The naked female form has less allure than one clad in fabulous underwear and the hint of what lies beneath is there......
Fred
XXX
There is nothing remotely attractive about the penis - mine or anyone elses....
There is nothing remotely sexual about the naked male form.....
Pussies are only a thing of beauty to me if the woman attached to it is a thing of beauty in my eyes.....
The naked female form has less allure than one clad in fabulous underwear and the hint of what lies beneath is there......
Fred
XXX
I KNOW she ain't joking! 
:x
I have all her vinyl in the loft to prove it! :cry:
You forgot a few honey......
Timmy Mallet - Yellow Polka Dot Bikini
and everything ever done by Boney M!
Now you lot know what I have to put up with! :shock: :shock:
Is it any wonder I went off my trolley? Worst thing I ever did was bite that piece of wedding cake!
:x I have all her vinyl in the loft to prove it! :cry:
You forgot a few honey......
Timmy Mallet - Yellow Polka Dot Bikini
and everything ever done by Boney M!
Now you lot know what I have to put up with! :shock: :shock:
Is it any wonder I went off my trolley? Worst thing I ever did was bite that piece of wedding cake!
