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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
Straight Female, 53
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Quote by neilinleeds
Ha! B'dum tish! Proud, upstanding members of the community too one would hope Miserly.
Would I appreciate the finer points of the number of cocks that would be visible? Would I feel proud or ashamed of my organ?

Oh yes,I'm sure you would come to appreciate the subtle distinctions between a nice, pretty cock and those that look like leftover giblets in the Bernard Matthews packing plant. Whether you'd feel proud of your own organ I guess depends whereabouts on that particular spectrum you find yourself, but let's put it this way: after spending more hours than I care to admit trawling for nice looking cocks to play with locally any hang ups I once had about my own very average specimen are looooooooong gone. lol ;)
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
I think I love you!!! :lol:
Quote by sam_przy
Sorry, another one of those dreaded single males here..

Dreaded?? I suppose that depends on who is looking! Each to their own wink
Quote by capricornten
well there's a new one for me. What other societies should be on here and, for some reason, aren't?
And should I join said society? Would I appreciate the finer points of the number of cocks that would be visible? Would I feel proud or ashamed of my organ? See, the more you think about things the more there is to worry about. I used to be indecisive, now I just can't make up my mind.

Hahaha!! As far as I know there is no such society but if there was .....
I was joking in the other thread! I am have a great appreciation of the cock cams on here, of course I have my favourite wankers but I couldn't possibly say who they are! I don't believe that such a society would have many members, the majority of people seem to be irritated by them.
Quote by starlightcouple
I think modern medicine is fantastic.
To be able to save or improve a life is the best gift you could ever give. I would encourage anyone and everyone to join the organ donation register, bone marrow register and give blood if you are able!
I know that this particular transplant didn't save a life but imagine the improvement to the quality of this guys life that this transplant will bring!
I am totally in awe of the families who, at such a horrific time in their lives, agree to their Ioved ones donating.

Yes agree 100% with your comments. Then we have the Liverpool Pathway. Give with one hand and take away with the other.
I agree with the concept of how the Liverpool Care Pathway was initially intended to be used. It was initially introduced in conjunction with Marie Currie to provide a dignified end of life experience for those in palliative care, with the consent of the patient and/or their family. In reality, treatment is being withdrawn without such consent or even a discussion regarding the end of life care plan. It's just wrong!
I believe that an advanced directive is a much better way forward. However, for an advanced directive to be used effectively, specifics regarding withdrawal of treatments need to exactly match the situation and we can't see into the future hey! We all have a personal opinion for how we would like to be treated (or not treated) should we no longer be able to make those decisions for ourselves, I know what I want. Writing an advanced directive is one of those things that I always mean to do but still haven't got around to doing it!
I like spur of the moment. We have arranged a lot of meets and it's so much hassle! Hours of trawling through profiles, eventually finding a mutual attraction, email tennis, and then when you eventually meet, spending ages talking shite when everyone knows what they want but it takes so long to get around to it!!
At the moment, I prefer going to a club, seeing who's there on the night, quick chat then go play ... Simples!!
We do spur of the moment in chat sometimes too. When you get all the "phwarrrr! I'd love to meet you" type messages, it's good to say "come on then". It's amazing how many excuses come out! Fun and exciting when it works though!!
As for the chat rooms, if you sit back and watch then no one will know that you're there! Be loud and proud and show off your personality!! I would never meet someone if i didn't know what they looked like, so going on cam is a good idea. I am the founding member of the cock cam appreciation society lol so I don't look at face cams unless someone intrigues me. I believe that most women would prefer to see a face though.
If you get the chance, go along to some socials (they're rarely entirely social) and can lead on to lots of fun in the future!
As a woman, I personally prefer MMF but then I'm not overly bi (not quite straight but I won't go out of my way to play with other women).
I suppose in an MFF situation, if both women were bi then it must be a win win situation for all involved. Isn't it most guy's fantasy to be with 2 women? And of course, 2 women are great to watch!
I think modern medicine is fantastic.
To be able to save or improve a life is the best gift you could ever give. I would encourage anyone and everyone to join the organ donation register, bone marrow register and give blood if you are able!
I know that this particular transplant didn't save a life but imagine the improvement to the quality of this guys life that this transplant will bring!
I am totally in awe of the families who, at such a horrific time in their lives, agree to their Ioved ones donating.
Hi Dean. This is our weekend with the ikkle man but if you put our names on the list we'll do everything we can to change weekends! (Everything crossed, apart from my legs cos that's just wrong!)
As soon as we know, we'll let you know. Don't want to take up spaces if we can't go.
Fankoooooo xx
Quote by Paddy
Is this a private party or can anyone join in? :rascal:

Funlovers - it's great " craic " - room normally opens around 9pm - drop in lol
I might just do that
Quote by Paul80
I'm sure everyone has their own reasons for leaving just as everyone has their own reasons for staying. I suppose you won't know unless you ask them.
We've all seen lots of people come and go. It could be financial as there are free sites out there, it could be that this site isn't providing what they're looking for anymore. I suppose it depends what they're looking want from a site.
I can't say that the site is anymore overloaded with single guys than it was 3 years ago when we joined. In my opinion anyway.
Who knows??

Elaine/Lee
we've being members for pushing 10 years now and its the 1st time we have had friends not renew their membership, yes would agree with you, lots of people have come and gone in that time but we are talking about friends whom we have met, in one of the cases i'm referring to; I'm sure it is someone you also know from socials or chatrooms (can't name, it may be seen as shaming)
Your point of there being free sites is a very valid one, thats expected I guess, this site was free for all at one time.
It is becoming more noticeable however that it's mostly the male part of the couple that hangs around in the chatrooms now.
I think I know who you're talking about but who it isn't doesn't really matter who it is I suppose for the purposes of this discussion. Anyone leaving could have many reasons why. The site has changed a lot in the short time we've been here (not all good, not all bad) so I'm sure you have seen many changes over the last 10 years. Those changes may suit some people and not others.
We didn't renew for a good few months last year, we weren't using the site at the time as we took a bit of time out from swinging. We didn't leave for good, just didn't see the point in paying for something we weren't using. Like I said, we all have our reasons for not renewing.
I've seen lots of people leave, I've also seen many return.
I haven't really been in chat much over the last few months so I suppose I can't really comment on who is using it.
Elaine xx
I'm sure everyone has their own reasons for leaving just as everyone has their own reasons for staying. I suppose you won't know unless you ask them.
We've all seen lots of people come and go. It could be financial as there are free sites out there, it could be that this site isn't providing what they're looking for anymore. I suppose it depends what they're looking want from a site.
I can't say that the site is anymore overloaded with single guys than it was 3 years ago when we joined. In my opinion anyway.
Who knows??
My man is totally arse phobic sad As far as his arse goes anyway! He ain't got a problem with shoving things in mine!!!
Can I have a slow comfortable screw against the wall please. If you ain't got the ingredients a screaming orgasm will do .... I'm easy! lol
I really should spring clean but I haven't even got the motivation to take the tree down!
Does anyone want to come and spring clean for me? While your at it, the cellar needs a major sort out and there is a winters worth of chicken shit all over the garden that needs removing!!
Payment in kind. (Lee makes a mean cuppa coffee!) bolt
This year was a good year for us but not as far as swinging was concerned.
I'm hoping to rectify that in 2013. We have made a start already. On Saturday, I shagged the first random stranger since February!! WTF happened to us?
Hopefully there will be some socials arranged on dates that we can make this year. I've missed everyone but most of all I've missed my teddy bear snogs!!
passionkiss
Can you add us to the list please. At last a date we can make!
It will be good to catch up with friends and put more faces to names!
If this is the site I think you are talking about then there are a lot of guys like that. Same everywhere really! Probably why people don't go out as much anymore.
The behaviours of some ruin it for everyone. Same in clubs too. Shame hey but such is life"
The one I heard about was regarding a status they had posted saying they'd had a shit day and slagging off their manager. The manager wasn't on Facebook but other colleagues were.
Bit silly to think it wouldn't get back to the manager really!
For the first time ever, I'm working for some of the Christmas period. I finish on 21st and go back on the 27th. I am off again on New Year's Day and then it's back to normality on 2nd.
Since I was promoted, I seem to spend half my life driving, so I have told my manager that he needs to think of something that I can do from home cos I ain't going anywhere! lol
We are having 2 Christmas's this year. Our son has Autism and is in boarding school. He comes home every other weekend and we alternate Christmas. I know that that sounds shit but the other 2 kids deserve a normal Christmas too (without being battered and bruised by the end of it) and we will do the whole Christmas thing, just on a different day. One year my mum bought him a fish tank with goldfish. On Boxing Day, everyone's presents were in the fish tank! He's coming home on 21st, his Christmas will be 22nd and he goes back on 23rd. Just enough time to put the house back together in time for Christmas number 2!
I have heard of people being sacked due to posts made on social media sites.
Personally, I like to keep work and home very separate. I have none of my colleagues on my Facebook and via the privacy controls, all they would be able to see if they searched for me is my profile picture. I'm sure that they see enough of my ugly mug at work! lol
I have Facebook for friends and family. I have some swinging friends on it. Not to discuss or arrange swinging activities, because they are friends.
I did have twitter but I just don't get it!
I'm not trying to be argumentative cos i loves you ... but It isn't 0-4 year olds that get hold of them illegally and play with them in the streets Ben.
I hate fireworks and always remember walking the streets (oooh i just read that back ... i wasn't a hooker honest) with friends as a teenager and having bangers thrown at us by teenage lads who thought it was cool. I'm sure this still happens now. It used to scare the shit out of me! When my dad was young, one of his friends lost an eye from the same thing.
We all love to "oooooooh" and "ahhhhhhh" at an organised event but there should be strict laws regarding the sale and use of them. They should not be available to buy at the local Tesco (or other supermarket) and they should definitely not be available to buy in corner shops!!
Don't believe my profile .... I've got another 16 days before I'm 40!
Thanks SH ... For bringing my crisis forward! banghead
Meeko told us a good website where they do step by step instructions on the rope work. I can't remember what it was called. It was good though and its not as hard as you'd think! (loads of use ain't I).
Taxiiiiii!!! bolt