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My wife wants me with her when other men fuck her and likes me to join them in fucking her. She also likes me to cum last to prove to her that I still love her after seeing what she’s willing to do for other men. Anyone else in this type of relationship with their partner?

Yep that's what we do.

Except she always wants two rounds of a threesome. First round we both play with her and shag her, then the other guy comes on her tits. After he has recovered round two starts but I come up inside her fairly quickly, obviously no condom, which means there is plenty of lube up her so the other guy can mount her doggy and really go at her ! He would be wearing a condom whenever he is inside her. On the second round he gets to come inside her in the condom.

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My ex enjoyed being taken by a guest at our wedding reception in her wedding dress. She told me what was happening so I could peak through the door she left open. Nice seconds

So some other guy was first down the aisle with her ?

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A previous girlfriend used to like me to fuck her in the car prior to going into a pub/bar/restaurant. She wouldn't wear any knickers and used to like the feeling of a very wet cunt. Strangely enough so did I!

Would it not run down her leg and be noticible ?

Don't know if we are unique in this but we have had a few single females watch us play. Usually in a hotel room, nothing more, they just enjoyed watching.

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I must admit I was not interested in other guys .. but found he liked me being admired.. liked me sharing photos .. online , that got more fun . He knows I love sex , he also know I like to tease , but he knows once I get past a certain point of turn on , it’s very hard for me to stop .. especially after a few drinks , so he has to keep me safe .. he also got me to go out without bra ( tiny tits so was no support needed lol ) that was easy ., he then wanted me shoping and going out without panties , that I found harder but now enjoy ..

We have done all of that. But we would draw the line at Shel being alone with a single guy. However, the greatest turn on is when we are at a swingers club and she fancies a guy and she goes to chat him up.

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The man lies on his back the lady stradels her man and grinds herself back and forth along his erect penis having one lip of her either side of the his shaft.

Even better when the woman puts lube on her fanny so it feels so so slippery going up and down the cock.

I (John) thought it was ok, Shel loved it. We met up with a couple from Sunderland who we thought might be up for fun, but it didn't happen.

Shel would like to shag a nice black guy, especially if he has a thick (not too long) cock. Trouble is finding the right guy.

We are looking for holiday ideas for New Year 2026 / 2027 ie one year from now.

We have been to PDI once before about 12 years ago, it was OK but not as good as Cap D'agde for swinging we thought.

However as it's is the middle of winter we want to go somewhere warm / hot. One possibility is GC. Anyone give advice about going there over a NYE ? Is it massively crowded ? Is there much swinging going on ?

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I think the what if is the festival. I’d love to know. Great writing by the way, got me very horny

Lets see if any others comment before I give out the answer.

We have three stories on here, two are based on fact and the third is a bit of a "what if" ? Be interesting to see it anyone can spot the "what if".

Maybe you should try a kilt ? It's easy for us women !

We have found that most men are pretty bad at trying to seduce Shel. Even at a swingers club, we might have been chatting to some guy for an hour or so, and still he doesn't understand that a some verbal foreplay will, if she fancies him, get Shel to invite him to join us in a room.

Yet, with some guys, it's a couple of minutes chat, he makes her laugh, gives her compliments, then next thing he knows, his face is between her legs !

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We are looking to book on to the René Oltra campsite in July/August 2026 as our usual apartment is fully booked. Has anyone experienced of staying on the campsite?

Do you mean in a tent, a caravan / motorhome or one of the chalets ?

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Having been members here since the original owners were running things over 20 years ago, reading through the recently bumped "What Has Made You Smile Today" thread brought back many wonderful memories. So many names from the past, some of whom we met socially or for fun and many more we didn't but chatted, laughed and even argued with here. Real people with real jobs, real lives and all that goes with that - happiness, love, sadness, stress, grief, despair...

We attended a number of wonderful socials, were regular contributors to the forums and met some great people socially and for fun at a time when social media wasn't a thing and MMS was like something out of Star Trek lol. We're now just wondering where all that time has gone and where all those we used to be in regular forum contact with here are now. It felt like a real 'community' and was a very special part of our lives. It's probably far too late to expect much of a response to this post as the forums are so sparsely frequented now in comparison to those days when they were buzzing, but if anyone out there would care who recalls those times would care to post here to add to this and even fill in some of the gaps, it'd be great. Even names from the past would be interesting to see because even trawling through ancient forum threads we contributed to doesn't reveal members who closed their accounts.

Time has moved on, the world has transformed on and the fact that this site has changed so much isn't a surprise, it's inevitable. What's probably more surprising though is that it's still here at all and for that we thank the current and past owners who have facilitated that. Thanks for enabling us to meet and share some amazing fun and intimate times with people we'd otherwise never have met.

We have been members since 2003. SH was our first swingers site on the internet. As you say it was THE place to be, the parties and club meet ups were centred around Manchester so it involved us making a lot of trips over there. But once having got involved with the "critical mass" of the social / swinging members we never looked back !

Brilliant times with amazing people. We even met you both one Sunday for lunch, but alas nothing more came of that, possibly because we were softswingers back at that time ?

I think part of the attraction back then was that the whole scene was still mostly "underground" and we were doing something naughty. Today, the clubs openly advertise and people are much more open about having threesomes or foursomes.

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Well I'm single guy and to be honest I have no luck on this website.

Don't think it's any easier for couples. We do get lots of offers, but so many are from single guys who are living a fantasy and never have any intention of meeting, despite promises about how genuine they are. To solve this problem 99% of the time we will only meet new single guys at swingers clubs, in that way when they don't turn up or are totally different to their pictures we have the option to find other playmates in the club. Have you tried swingers clubs ? J & S

Mrs Geordiecpl sometimes wants a MFM which I try to arrange for her, but finding the right guy who will actually turn up to a club is quite a challenge !

So we were thinking that the next time she wants a threesome we should invite at least two, maybe three guys to meet us at a swingers club. We'd chat to each of them beforehand via email, but inform them that if there is no spark on the day they will not get to play with her. But not mention that there were other candidates so to speak.

On the day then there might (if they all turn up) be three guys who stand a chance of shagging her. She'd have to pick one out of the three.

But, she said, what if I like them all ? I've always said I won't do a gang-bang. She does not regard taking me then one other guy as a gang-bang.

So the question is, if she took me, then two other guys, is that a gang-bang ? What if she took me then three other guys, is that gang-bang ?

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I assume me... she stopped the taxi early on the way home so ww could fuck on the golf course (which I've since learnt is a bit of a rites of passage for youngsters there)

So presumably you got a hole in one ?

We are.

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I don’t dare her anything any more as she has a better imagination than mine and will take my dares to the next level or much further up the scale. Exposure beautifully indecent of course is the easiest dare for those who wear skirts dresses or even kilts and my challenge dare to her to flash a mate while he was giving his best man’s speech at another friends wedding reception proved effective as he delivered his speech without referencing his speech memory prompt cards at all as he had simply stared at her. What happened subsequently is more complicated and I’ll write of it in Stories with my wife’s name Sophie in the title heading so as not to hijack this thread.

Looking forwards to that story !

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Dare her to take her knickers off at table in restsurant, and/or wank you under table or sat at bar.

Shel once took off her knickers in an empty bar, apart from the barman who was watching her.

Another time in Amsterdam we were in a hotel bar, sitting with a floor to ceiling window in front of us, Shel took off her knickers and opened her legs slightly, meaning anyone passing got a good look up her skirt.

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She loved the extra cock and cum, and I liked the way it lubed her ready to take me.

She was always tighter after being fucked too, even if his cock was bigger than mine.

Miss those days…

Tell you what Shel (and I) like is when we are at a swingers club and she has decided that she now wants sex, she takes both me and the other guy by the hand and loves to be watched by any other people around, females especially, leading us two men into a private room. She is effectively flaunting that she is desired by two men and will soon have two guys almost in competition to shag her.

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I’ve always thought that about cuckold.

I was never cuckolded, it was always a joint decision, with joint pleasures.

Sometimes I’d feel a bit guilty, we were using other guys, to enhance our sexual relationship

Exactly !!!! The other guy, while he was always treated with respect and he could be become a friend of ours, at the end of the day was only there to provide an extra cock for Shel.

We have signed up for next Jan at Skegness tributes weekend

We went to Cap about 20 times between 2003 and 2023. We were usually part of a group which also had single guys who we knew involved, so they did OK. But watching single guys who were on their own was a bit painful ! They had to be either young and fit, really rich or really gifted with the patter to get any action.

We were in a bar one evening, a couple of single lads, about early 30s came in. They spotted a couple of good looking women and offered to buy them a drink. The girls asked for and got quite fine champagne, cost E110. They drank it off kissed the lads goodnight and were off to find other rich men.

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I can’t get enough of hearing about my wife’s past sex life. Losing her virginity, fingering, getting fucked at uni, in the pub where she used to work it makes me throb. She had some old vids of her fucking from before me and I love to watch them

I know exactly what you mean ! Tho Shel is really shy about opening up and telling me stories of her past, which is odd as she will quite happily shag another guy right in front of me !

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. Men's cum is the best lube ever, too!

Totally agree on that. When Shel invites another man to join us, at the end of the session when she wants the men to come she likes it hard and fast doggy style. I come up her unprotected (obviously) and fill her up with spunk, the other guy then enters her (with a condom on) and can really go at her well lubricated cunt.

She really loves that, especially if she has a suspender belt on which the men grab and use as leverage to pound her.

We've done loads of what we call fantasies, (like LittleMissCali all restrained by the imperative of safe sex) but places can also be the fantasy rather than the sex act.

For instance, we'd love to have sex in one of those old fashioned railway carriages, the ones with the individual compartments which hold say 8 people. It would either be a FMF or MFM scenario, time limited to the longest time between the stations on that line. If a MFM, just us three people in the compartment, it would be Shel just lifting her skirt, knickers off, get shagged by me, I come up her and the other guy (we know him) then gets sloppy seconds with him in a condom, finishing just as the train comes into the station. Cocks back in pants, Shel pulls her skirt down just as someone enters the compartment. Then notices the knickers lying on the floor......oops.

Anyone got a private railway ? You can watch.

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Not surprisingly on the beach, in the cinema and the clubs at Cap D'agde.

We have also done the above, plus having sex over a barrel in Melrose !

Which weekend were you thinking of ? There are lots of different themed weekends.