Strange there are no replies in this thread from the organisers. Is this club still going ?

We are at Cap from this Sat if you wanted to meet up for a drink of an evening.

When we meet a single guy at a club we have no idea if he's married or not. Unless he brings the subject up why should we.

It's probable you will appeal to some couples / single females and not at all appeal to some couples and single females because of your status.

Going back a lot of years SH meets and munches etc were excellent. Unfortunately the "critical mass" of the active members has dissipated and faded to nothing. We still get, very rarely a meet from here.

Our problem is that we only meet new people at clubs. So many people might contact us, then we say OK, meet you at xyz club and play there....................................then.....................................tumbleweed.

So many "single" men are scared to go to a club it seems.

Xtasia has hotel rooms and is a great club. Each hotel room has a sex swing or similar in there.

Why not go to a swingers club, it will certainly happen there for you.

Get her to take off her knickers in a bar, under the table, not stand up to do it obviously.

Who on SH could prevent you having a party if you want to do so ?

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Hi all
It’s been on my bucket list for an awful long time to go to a nudist beach.
Is there any advice for a single lady? I’m getting impatient looking for someone (maybe a guy friend) to go with, it’s not a necessity. Or a friend/s

 We met up with a single lady at Vritomartis, Crete last year. As a hotel it’s fine for singles to book and she quickly made friends. It’s a classy place and the staff are excellent, with organised group activities if you want them. 

Just looked at their website, looks a great place, it's now on our to do list.

J&S

If you want your first time to be excellent rather than hit and miss then plan a weekend in the West Midlands.  Stay at Xtasia, they have their own hotel rooms, have a night there, then go to Chameleons the next day, they also have their own hotel rooms.

Check them out in the club reviews on here.

Compared to a NE club those two are like going to Vegas rather than going to Blackpool. 

IN the NE you have ClubF and Shhhh.

We prefer to travel to Xtasia in West Bromwich (best club in the UK in our opinion)

We'd suggest going to clubs (when they re-open).  We find it's easier to meet the right people at a club and none of the hassle of booking hotels or having people at your house or you going to theirs.

Shel will go knickerless as often as possible

We love watching it so that we can shout at the telly "Get rid of the one in the red (or whatever), he / she is nasty".   And also predicting who the winner will be. usually 90% correct.

We are often over in the NW at clubs, let us know if you want to meet.

Is your wife not interested in playing then ?    We presume you have asked her to play or visit a club with you ?

Here is a strange thing, in the above posting you say you don't know what to write when contacting a couple, yet in your profile (copied below) you say "The wife is prompting me in what to write and who to contact" so which is it ?

Or is it just a "look at me post"

I am a 28 and a bit ( 19 years is a bit ) year old male, muscular and not yet run to seed with shoulder length blond hair and a generally happy disposition to life. I am married and still after 18yrs madly in love with my wife whom I do not want to hurt in any way. We also have 3 kids who are the light (and frustration) of our lives and so I will not do anything to cause them pain ( The wife is prompting me in what to write and who to contact and enjoys reading your profiles. The kids ( I Hope ) know nothing about this ). I have a huge sense of humour, a moderate intellect, a love of life, wide ranging interests, an adoration of books, admire those who can draw or take great photographs (not in my skillset) , enjoy outdoor pursuits and hate going to the gym.

I would love to be able to chat and flirt with a lady and stimulate the most important erogenous zone of all (the mind in case anyone didn't know).

If we click and get on on line I would love to meet up and see where we get to.

I love the idea of seduction. The first image that I want in my mind is alluring, enticing and intriguing as anything more graphic is for later.

Physically I like sensual, I love massage - a skill that I am still learning, I love to touch and stroke. I love to kiss and taste and tease.

Mutual respect is important to me. I don't do bondage or domination.

Have I lost you yet? No? oh read on then.

If you are a couple I would need to meet both of you and would have to be comfortable with you and have you comfortable with me.

I am not interested in just rocking up somewhere , going hey you sexy thing and jumping straight into bed – I am afraid that it is just not me. Nor am I likely to send you cock pictures as 1, I am rubbish at taking pictures and 2, willies out of context are just funny.

An interesting articulate person with intelligence, amazing smile and the ability to tease and entice would be fantastic to meet. A healthy body a bonus. Lets be honest the right smile can be sexier than a supermodel wearing the most amazing lingerie.

Send me a message and I will reply. Want to send me a message but can't then either comment on my photo or send me a wink or a like and I will message you back.

I am happy to chat with anyone - even if we don't ever meet. 

Also I would love to have the most alluring and interesting profile ever in the world so feel free to tell me what I could do to improve this.

So some house rules as it were.

No cheats. Cheating without your partners permission / consent is a total no no for me. Its a betrayal of trust that I can not be party to. I am happy to chat but not to cheat. ( update - If you have, do or will cheat it is as it were your affair. I do not and will not judge you on this. It just can't be with me )

If we meet with consent then it is not cheating.

Single ladies. - if you are from Sheffield then I cannot meet you – no matter how prefect a match we are. This is one of the promises that I have made my wife.

Couples from Sheffield she has less of a problem with as those who play together are usually going to stay together.

No single men – not my bag. I am not Bi nor Bi curious.

No Dick Pics – they are just wrong

If you have read to this point then I thank you. If you are interested at all then drop me a message or if you only have limited messages send me a wink or a like and I will to get back to you. I can send messages and will reply to all.

I would like facial images but until we start the journey down the rabbit hole I can cope.

In bed the other night after a little bit of playing Shel said to me "If you put the bedside light on and really lube me up I'll let you stick it in my bum"   So I followed her instructions and she let out one HELL of a scream as it went in !!!!!!

OK it was my fault, I should have let the bulb cool down first !!!!

Xtasia often runs "Ibiza" style DJ events. Most noteably called "Depraved" events.  The club is an old nightclub so is geared exactly for clubbing meets swinging. Have a look at it's website.

Cap D'agde has everything you'd need !

We are there Fiesta Week in Nov, usually a good few swingers there then.  Anyone want to meet up ?

In Cap from 22nd June to 6th July.  Like to meet couples, single females or possibly a clean, respectful guy.

It's a good club, but like any club there are no guarantees of how busy or not it will be on the day you go.  Main thing is TALK to people, don't just wait around for people esp. couples and females to come to you.

I would advise booking a hotel asap, there are a few Premier Inns in Newcastle town centr. 

And you also !!

We can make this.

It's great !!   

We'd be interested in this idea.  Depends on the date of course.

Obviously the earlier you go in Sept the busier Cap will be.  By the second week of Sept the lingerie shops have their sales on and the supermarkets are not restocking some of the stock.  The bars and clubs are still going tho.  After mid-Sept, some of the pubs will be winding down. Late Sept and your seeing the last of the season and it will be a bit quiet.

We going last Week of Aug and first week  of Sept.   We often go these dates and have great fun.

                                                   J & S

Closed a couple of years ago.