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GregLondon
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 50
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About 6 months ago promised it would increase all accounts to 250Mb... sounds great, no? Except they seem to be doing it very slowly. My first account, which I set up 4 years ago but hardly use, now has 250 Mb. My other account, which is use constantly but set up 3 years ago, is still stuck at 2Mb.
I have been here about a week. So far I have not seen any cliques or in-crowds.
Obviously, people are going to joke and have fun with people they know. This is NOT the same as excluding other people. New people are always welcome... but you do need to make an effort to get to know people and chat. It's the same as any social situation, if you don't make the effort to chat, then you won't make friends.
I think a lot of people have chronic fear of social situations and hope that messageboards will solve their problems. But messageboards are basically social tools... and if you can't chat/open up/laugh at yourself, then you're fucked. And not in a good way.
Obviously, people are going to joke and have fun with people they know. This is NOT the same as excluding other people. New people are always welcome... but you do need to make an effort to get to know people and chat. It's the same as any social situation, if you don't make the effort to chat, then you won't make friends.
I think a lot of people have chronic fear of social situations and hope that messageboards will solve their problems. But messageboards are basically social tools... and if you can't chat/open up/laugh at yourself, then you're fucked. And not in a good way.
I wouldn't worry too much about cock size.
The point of Swinging Heaven (and swinging in general) is that it allows people to fulfil fantasies, rather than facing the reality of life (average looks, boring relationships, vanilla sex) and people's fantasies are not politically correct. Men fantasize about gorgeous women with big tits who are insatiable nymphos, and women fantasize about fit blokes with huge cocks who can fuck all night.
Fantasy and reality are very different... everyone learns eventually that 99% of fantasies are rubbish in reality because personality/compatibility is much more important than tit size or cock size or any of that rubbish.
But I think it's quite healthy that women want guys with big cocks. Think about it... for years and years guys have moaned about women not having big enough tits... think about the kind of moron who walks into the pub and straight away homes in on the woman with the biggest tits. It doesn't matter if she's a moose or has the personality of Eva Braun, he will try to score with her. So I think it's only fair that women get their revenge and go for guys with big cocks.
The point of Swinging Heaven (and swinging in general) is that it allows people to fulfil fantasies, rather than facing the reality of life (average looks, boring relationships, vanilla sex) and people's fantasies are not politically correct. Men fantasize about gorgeous women with big tits who are insatiable nymphos, and women fantasize about fit blokes with huge cocks who can fuck all night.
Fantasy and reality are very different... everyone learns eventually that 99% of fantasies are rubbish in reality because personality/compatibility is much more important than tit size or cock size or any of that rubbish.
But I think it's quite healthy that women want guys with big cocks. Think about it... for years and years guys have moaned about women not having big enough tits... think about the kind of moron who walks into the pub and straight away homes in on the woman with the biggest tits. It doesn't matter if she's a moose or has the personality of Eva Braun, he will try to score with her. So I think it's only fair that women get their revenge and go for guys with big cocks.
Ok. The main problem that most SH users have is that they have pics on their hard drive, but no way of getting them onto the web.
With Photobucket, you can upload your pics onto the web and they host it for you. It's what I used to put my Vix pics on the web. And it's what you could use to host your wet tshirt pics.
I suspect that they don't allow adult pics, but mine have been on the site for a week or so without any problems.
With Photobucket, you can upload your pics onto the web and they host it for you. It's what I used to put my Vix pics on the web. And it's what you could use to host your wet tshirt pics.
I suspect that they don't allow adult pics, but mine have been on the site for a week or so without any problems.
I would recommend all SH users get an account from Photobucket. They offer free hosting for pics and it's a very easy interface to use.
- you sometimes have to wait to sign up, but it's well worth it... means you can host loads of photos and it even shows you exactly what URL you need to type to make the pictures appear in places like this.
- you sometimes have to wait to sign up, but it's well worth it... means you can host loads of photos and it even shows you exactly what URL you need to type to make the pictures appear in places like this.
I might win that, judging by my photo. I was looking at that pic and thinking "what the fuck is that between my legs?" (It's a thought I have quite often). And then I realised it was my bollocks.
I assumed that my pic would start an avalanche of men posting pics of their body parts... but it seems the men are shyer than I expected.
I assumed that my pic would start an avalanche of men posting pics of their body parts... but it seems the men are shyer than I expected.
I went to a much (for BDSM people) in London. I was amazed... nearly all the men were bald and in their forties (and BIG Lord of the Rings fans) and most of the women were very overweight. I had a nice time and I am not so superficial that the age/obesity worried me, but I was amazed to find that I was one of the more attractive people in the pub.
So don't worry.
So don't worry.
Ok, from personal experience... yes, do it.
I did it, and even though I now feel very straight, I don't regret it. I went onto gaydar, chatted a while and had quite a few "episodes" with gay men and some transexuals. Was interesting, to say the least.
But a word of warning... sexuality is a Pandora's Box. Once you've opened it, you can't just shut it off and ignore it. It will rear it's head when you least expect it.
I did it, and even though I now feel very straight, I don't regret it. I went onto gaydar, chatted a while and had quite a few "episodes" with gay men and some transexuals. Was interesting, to say the least.
But a word of warning... sexuality is a Pandora's Box. Once you've opened it, you can't just shut it off and ignore it. It will rear it's head when you least expect it.
