Hi, I’ve just joined SH and I post to introduce myself to you all.
I'm 45 years old divorced male and being a workaholic, relationships just don't work out for me yet I have a high sex drive and find rampant sexual activities the most pleasurable of pastimes I have ever found and to fill that void in my life I’ve joined SH to look for a lady, or ladies, perhaps in a similar situation, wanting to enjoy an active and varied sex life without the complications of a full on relationship, which begs the question, is there any common personality trait or traits amongst swingers other than a love of sex? What is it that makes swingers swing?
I only ask as I thought long and hard before jumping in and registering on SH, (after looking at many similar sites, SH came out top), and one of the conclusions I’ve reached from my pondering is that with my lifestyle being as it is, work always coming first, swinging is a far healthier choice, from a mental health point of view for me and any partners I may have in that it’s dishonest to enter into full on relationships, as I have in the past, when my personality does not allow me to give the commitment such a relationship deserves, with the stress of this dishonesty being damaging all round and mutually destructive, so for me, from now on it’s the swinging scene.
So Hello SH.
Any others out there worked out why swinging suits them?
Phil
