There are a couple of instances when I have thought about posting experiences I've had and deleted it before posting because it was too specific and I thought anyone who read it who knew me would be able to identify me.
As a general rule I will keep a few details back e.g. "I went to a vanilla birthday party last night" as opposed to "We had a tarts and vicars fancy dress party for my sister's 30th last night".
I'm also careful with the pics of me that are post on here or elsewhere - even being conscious of the clothing & jewelry I may be wearing.
Apart from that I don't really worry too much.
Huxley
Not sure if I slapped you enough times for saying the "C" word so have a :kick: just in case :giggle:
If you think about how munches started on here, I think the individual chatsrooms are evolving in a similar way.
It's natural for a group of people who have been chatting to each other for a while to say "Hey why don't we get together sometime?"
If you're in a room such as "The Devon & Cornwall" room, I can see the practicality of wanting to get to know people from your area - particularly if travelling is difficult.
I know the Derby socials started up from the Derby chatroom, but TBH the organiser has always had "The more the merrier" attitude and although I'm not a big chatter, I'd feel quite comfortable asking for an invite and I know I'd be made to feel welcome.
The organiser of the Derby socials (and regular attendees) also attend other munch & social events so I don't think they're shutting themselves off from the rest of the community, it's just that the majority of the time it's more practical for them to meet locally
There are a lot of straight couples here, but as has already been said just because a person is Bi it doesn't mean they always want to play with people of the same sex.
I have stated on my profile that I'm Bi as I have had bi experiences and do enjoy it, but the reality is I'm much more into men than women and am often more inclined to play straight.
My advice would be if you like a couple, but there profile states that the female is bi, also look at what they're looking for. Some people may only be looking for other couples with a bi female, some state straight couples as well.
I saw this last night, but my mind was a blank. I think it still is.
To Mids
Our thoughts are with you. Words cannot express how sorry I am. You have our deepest sympathys.
To Newt
I have the memory of a smile that could light up a room. That's the image I'll keep of you always.
You will be sorely missed
xx HLB xx
Maybe he's run away into the sunset with our back garden fence. There's been no sign of it since Thursday morning :shock:
last night but couldn't find you - just kept bumping into Dammie 
