When the winks were first introduced, a lot of people (particularly females) did receive ludicrous amounts of them. This was because some members were just "spamming" e.g. searching for females and then sending a wink, without even having a look at their profile.
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I agree with Scandal, people who say “we get so many we can’t reply to all” are most likely just lazy. I always reply to ads people have taken time to write, even a short thanks but no thanks. It is common courtesy. OK we don’t have loads of replies and certainly don’t always have a full PM box each time we refresh our ad, but perhaps that is because we are specific in our ad - we don’t want to waste our time or others time.
I agree with this to a point. I do reply to all pm's if I feel they've at least read our profiles/ads and fit the criteria, but if they haven't then I don't bother replying.
For instance, we state that we're smokers and only play together, yet someone sends me a copy & paste pm stating they're looking for a non-smoking single bi fem
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