Quote by MikeC
well for once i am organsied, train tickets purchased, my outfit as well
hotel sorted (thanks room budie)
omg what is going on
Mike
Mike are you feeling alright? :shock:
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Quote by nottm_pandk
i understand that
therefore i will not be saying anything else on the matter
other than to appologise for my stupid comments in this thread
my gob is firmly shut
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Right, now that's done
How many days to go?
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The Nottingham munch is not cancelled, but others have been because of people giving away information that it wasn't there business to do so and then selfish tossers using that information to ruin it just because they didn't get on the list in time.
That is why we often rotate munch venues - because we can't rely on people doing what they should i.e. keeping their gob's shut
That is why we often rotate munch venues - because we can't rely on people doing what they should i.e. keeping their gob's shut
Quote by woodengnome
I am a married man on this site and will not bore anyone with the reasons why - I would just like to sy dont sit in judgement on us because there are also people out there who sit in judgement of anyone who is in the swinging world shall we say and it would be just as wrong for them to as you say "out" them because everyone has family and children etc that they would not wish to know about their bedroom activities
I do have to say one thing in agreement though - guys be honest and let people know if your married that way the other people can make an informed decision wether to get involved or not
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Yep
They'll be plenty of swingers in Nottingham that weekend - about 250 I think
Nottingham Munch 13th January
They'll be plenty of swingers in Nottingham that weekend - about 250 I think
Nottingham Munch 13th January
Quote by PoloLady
However, I do feel I have a right to judge people who tell me a pile of bollox and impede my choice as to what situation I get myself into.
Quote by PoloLady
I do however than a problem with:
A – the ones who lie about their status to people they are arranging to meet.
B – the ones who do the ‘sympathy shag begging’ type post … that they are so hard done to at home, blar, blar, blar; and expect to be able to justify their situation to the masses in one short statement and assume everyone should be fine and dandy about it. (I don’t think I have explained that bit very well – but I know what I mean)
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I think you explained it very well - much better than I could
Like I said before, if someones playing away, that's their life and their business, but I do like to have a choice and if someone lied to me and was about to lie to someone on here I know, my conscience tells me I'd want to warn them.
Dawnie mentioned about the risk of someone's partner finding out and contacting you. Whilst this isn't very likely if you've had an anonymous shag in a club one night, it could happen if you've arranged a private meet and been texting and emailing.
I know a lovely lady from here who's been on the receiving end and had the wife (of a man who claimed to be single) ringing her and calling her all sorts of names because she'd been with her husband.
I wouldn't wish that on anybody.
Thought that would get you thinking
Dawnie
Get off there and finish you assignment or I'll ask Jags to give you a 24 hour ban 
Apologies to the original thread starter if they view this as a hijack, but I thought it my be interesting to widen the discussion and look at this from a different angle
Dawnie
Get off there and finish you assignment or I'll ask Jags to give you a 24 hour ban Apologies to the original thread starter if they view this as a hijack, but I thought it my be interesting to widen the discussion and look at this from a different angle
Hmm
Not sure about this. The post could be read in 2 ways.
I agree that someones personal life is just that - personal.
Now I have no business inteferring in other people's relationships, but I like to be able to choose who I swing with.
I choose not to swing with people who are here without their partners knowledge - other people prefer to swing with single married guys as they feel they will be more discreet.
So whilst I wouldn't want to "out" them to their families and friends I started thinking:
What if I we had met a guy from here who swore he was single and then I got a bit cheesed off because I found out he'd lied to us? OK I'd be annoyed, but I'd just but it down to experience and leave it at that.
But, if someone I knew off this site was planning on playing with them and I knew that they didn't want to play with married men. Should I tell them what I know?
That's my dilemma
Not sure about this. The post could be read in 2 ways.
I agree that someones personal life is just that - personal.
Now I have no business inteferring in other people's relationships, but I like to be able to choose who I swing with.
I choose not to swing with people who are here without their partners knowledge - other people prefer to swing with single married guys as they feel they will be more discreet.
So whilst I wouldn't want to "out" them to their families and friends I started thinking:
What if I we had met a guy from here who swore he was single and then I got a bit cheesed off because I found out he'd lied to us? OK I'd be annoyed, but I'd just but it down to experience and leave it at that.
But, if someone I knew off this site was planning on playing with them and I knew that they didn't want to play with married men. Should I tell them what I know?
That's my dilemma
Quote by LondonPlaything
maybe the poor fella is ashamed of HIS family, and not his partner...
...perhaps he has issues with his background...
or simply feels that his family and his partner wont get on?/// maybe?
Maybe fears interferance from family?
I had issues in the past with my family...or so I thought...though as is often the case with this sort of thing, the *issue* was within me, not with family or partner.
errmmm
lp
I'm not buying that
IMO there are 2 separate issues here:
1) She hasn't met his family in 5 years
2) He decided to go to this party on NYE and just left her hanging :kick:
Why did he even go to the party? Why didn't he want to spend NYE with her :kick:
I agree with Dawnie & Shireen.
I think he's married
I've always enjoyed it.
My friends and I have a tradition. We arrange to have a buffet at one persons house and all go round for a few drinks and something to eat before we all get changed into our fancy dress outfits.
We then go to our local, where we get the upstairs room to ourselves and enjoy a few more drinks with some more people we've invited along as there's more room.
We then go round to a couple of other pubs, see the new year in then back to the house for the annual twister tournament
My friends and I have a tradition. We arrange to have a buffet at one persons house and all go round for a few drinks and something to eat before we all get changed into our fancy dress outfits.
We then go to our local, where we get the upstairs room to ourselves and enjoy a few more drinks with some more people we've invited along as there's more room.
We then go round to a couple of other pubs, see the new year in then back to the house for the annual twister tournament
Sorry to bring this in here, but with everything that's happened tonight I thought everyone could do with a bit of a laugh.
So have a read of this.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/94102.html
I haven't laughed this hard in ages and I wouldn't want anyone to miss out :giggle:
So have a read of this.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/94102.html
I haven't laughed this hard in ages and I wouldn't want anyone to miss out :giggle:
Quote by blonde
HLB ................ the first tea towel is for the glasses ....................... the second tea towel is for the cutlery ................. the third tea towel is for the plates ................ and the shopping trolley goes over there>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
did I help?
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
SamI still keep getting it wrong though
I keep thinking
The tea towel for the glasses - is the nearest one I can reach :giggle:
How you doing with the cardboard boxes?
