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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
Straight Female, 65
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Quote by Lost
I think the idea of refuse collections every two weeks has nothing to do with environment and more to do with cost cutting for councils.
I'm all for recycling, but I do think the council play the "it's for the environment" card to justify cost cutting way too often.
We had the bi-weekly collections (with the green grass & twig bin for the other week) introduced in January when we had severe snow and ice.
Now I can be a bit cynical, but who the fook does gardening when it's -4 c and there's a foot of snow in the garden
I can honestly say it's only in the last month that I have seen any of the neighbours usuing the "grass bin"
So in my mind, the council have had a week off for the first 3 months of this year and not really done anything for the environment in that time
Quote by sexkittenhfx
well i said the same thing earlier on in the thread and i wasnt shot down so i dont see why you should be :thumbup: i completely agree with you!
As the default rooms such as the beach are the first place someone will end up if they're new to the chatrooms, I think it's understandable if people get used to it being the norm to direct and then they obviously move on the the hosted rooms in the same mindset.
Yes I know they should read the rules, but I can understand how new users could just get into a habit of directing.
As Polo has already said, I'm not exactly sure why the rules were changed to "directing allowed unless stated otherwise" and as I've been watching this thread it seems noone else does either
Quote by Kiss
Who am I to say but to me HLB it sounds like role-play and not Domination/submission (D/s).
A sub would state boundaires that they would not wish to be crossed. A soft boundary is something that could be pushed a little and a hard boundary is a line that isn't to be crossed under any circumstances.
It would them be up to the Dom or Domme to guide and control the play within in the agreed rules and boundaries.
To me it sounds like you are also directing the scene and what should happen, so to me that's role-play.
It made sense to me!
:thumbup:
Makes perfect sense to me too - thanks kiss
Quote by PoloLady
and are you saying you are submissive, or just passing over control and trust?
Erm I think I'm saying I have no idea
Or rather than wanting to be a sub - is it a means to be passive and just take?
Do the ropes represent submission or are they the perfect excuse to be greedy and receive whilst having to do nothing but enjoy?
Not necessarily. I gave the ropes as an example, but I also enjoy being directed/instructed.
However again I'm in control as I've predetermined what will be directed.
Does that make sense
Quote by PoloLady
Why is his life considered greater than the life of another soldier...
It's not (well not by me anyway) but I don't see why every other poor sod out there should be put in greater danger of getting their legs blown off. Every extremist mentalist from that and surrounding countries will be rushing out to buy/make their preferred brand of explosive stuffing and have a pop at claiming a prize propaganda turkey – with feck knows how many mistaken identities along the way.
I agree
IMO it's not just because he's a prince. I wouldn't want anyone going who was going to be a specific target - either to kill or to be held captive.
I'd be thinking the same way if it was Richard Branson or George Micheal
I've always thought of myself as quite submissive sexually.
If I'm watching reading porn I'm generally more turned on by seeing the female dominated slightly.
But in reality although I enjoy beng tied up/controlled I think this is more of a role play as I have to be in total control of the situation - i.e. the other person/people involved have to be playing the roles the way I wish.
So would you class this as just submissive role play or is this just a case of a sub having boundaries?
Am I really the dominant party as I'm the one that's decided how it's going to be? :dunno:
Or am I just a typical Libran who can't make up her mind?
If I'm watching reading porn I'm generally more turned on by seeing the female dominated slightly.
But in reality although I enjoy beng tied up/controlled I think this is more of a role play as I have to be in total control of the situation - i.e. the other person/people involved have to be playing the roles the way I wish.
So would you class this as just submissive role play or is this just a case of a sub having boundaries?
Am I really the dominant party as I'm the one that's decided how it's going to be? :dunno:
Or am I just a typical Libran who can't make up her mind?
Quote by sword-stileto
A soldiers life is full of risk & danger & as a soldier Harry seems ready to accept that :thumbup: which in my view is good for him.
But can we ignore the possible propergander victory for the terrorists if they manage to murder/maime the 3rd in line to the throne .
As an officer Harry has a duty to his men to look after there welfare where ever possible but just by the fact of him going there his men are under more threat/risk of attack & death.
The terrorists are not stupid they know the sort of regiment he belongs to & the sort of vehicles they use so they will target these all the more therefor putting the welfare of Harry's troop at greater risk.
My own view
:thumbup:
Well said. I think it's admiral that Prince Harry wants to go, but in terms of the regiment/army as a whole, it puts the whole country at risk for the sake of 1 man.
He shouldn't go, but I also don't think this should have been discussed in the media - Terrorists also watch tv and read newspapers
Welcome to the forumsI don't think you've done anything particularly wrong, but as Mallock says, couples (and in particular females) get a lot of pms.
Sometimes it's not possible to reply to everyone and I know a lot of people who used to send a polite message back saying "no thanks" and it has had repercussions e.g.
"Well I didn't like you anyway you slag"
"Why? what's wrong with me?"
"Oh you're just timewasters then?"
I'm not saying you're someone who would do that, but it does make some people weary of sending replies.
Now the next thing is how you find people who dowant to meet you.
I don't think you're doing anything wrong, but you don't particularly stand out either.
You don't have any profile text
You ads don't say a great deal about you (although the jacuzzi sounds interesting) :thumbup:
You're pics are hidden so I can't comment of those
What you've got to consider is if a couple or fem get 200 responses to their ad from single guys, what can you put that'll make you stand out so they're saying "this guy sounds great"
Have a browse of some of the other single guy ads & profiles and then think about how you can adapt those ideas to show your own personality and what you have to offer.
Hope that helps. Happy hunting
I agree
It's nice to see a bit of life in the forum midweek.
Well done that man :thumbup:
Although in terms of record attempts for posting, I think The Davej McDick Challenge would take some beating :giggle:
It's nice to see a bit of life in the forum midweek.
Well done that man :thumbup:
Although in terms of record attempts for posting, I think The Davej McDick Challenge would take some beating :giggle:
Quote by Darkfire
I did once consider doing a "Blond Date" from here where we get the contestants.
A lovely lady asks the questions and 3 guys post their answers under masquerade logins then you make your choice and go out for a nice cyber date.
:scared:
wash your mouth out with soap young lady
actually, I think that'd be a crackin' idea
:giggle: - til its my turn to ask the questions and the thread goes dead 
"And here we have contestant No.2 a scary rottweiler from the Midlands" :rotflmao:
Quote by earthchild
I did once consider doing a "Blond Date" from here where we get the contestants.
A lovely lady asks the questions and 3 guys post their answers under masquerade logins then you make your choice and go out for a nice cyber date.
Maybe I should give it a try :giggle:
but i'm brunette :shock:
:doh:
I won't give up me day job
