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I've not noticed it, but I'll go and have a look :thumbup:
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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
Straight Female, 66
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I've had a think about this and to be honest I think it depends on the attitude of the person in question.
My best friend (female) knows about the meets I had with a particular couple before joining this site and she thought it sounded really horny.
nother of my female friends finds the idea of thresomes or a female kissing another female "disgusting" - hence I never told her.
Thinking of previous male partners, I had a fb who I think would've found it quite a turn on, but when I think about 2 previous long term partners, I don't think they would've been happy about it, but I think that's because they were the jealous/possesive type.
My best friend (female) knows about the meets I had with a particular couple before joining this site and she thought it sounded really horny.
nother of my female friends finds the idea of thresomes or a female kissing another female "disgusting" - hence I never told her.
Thinking of previous male partners, I had a fb who I think would've found it quite a turn on, but when I think about 2 previous long term partners, I don't think they would've been happy about it, but I think that's because they were the jealous/possesive type.
Quote by Kiss
Does ticklish include that time after orgasm when you just can't bear anyone to touch anywhere in the general vicinity of your sensitive bits?
I'm not ticklish then - I just tend to react like I've had a rather large electric shock!
I'm soooo glad you two posted that - I thought it was just me that reacted like that
Everybody has there own personal preferences and quite frankly if a 21 year old couple don't want to have sex with a 60 year old man - I wouldn't think it's fair to accuse them of being ageist.
Personally I don't have a set age limit - like has already been said it's more about who I click with. There are some very sexy older men and there are also some not so sexy ones.
Again as has been mentioned, I'm not sure whether you have been told it's because of your age or whether you are just assuming that, but need need to have a think about the dymanics of this site - specifically:
There are more single males on this site than there are couples or fems looking for single men.
Because of this they have a lot to choose from.
In order for people to choose you, what do you have that other single blokes don't (other than a wife that is?)
A lot of people won't swing with someone who's cheating on their partner.
You're profile doesn't really stand out
Your pic is not very nice - (I know I'm not a fan of cock shots, but even for a cock shot it's not very nice).
If I were you I'd have a look at some of the other single guy's ads and profiles to get some ideas and check out the competition and get some better pics.
Also have a look at some of the profiles of people who are actually looking to meet more mature males.
Personally I don't have a set age limit - like has already been said it's more about who I click with. There are some very sexy older men and there are also some not so sexy ones.
Again as has been mentioned, I'm not sure whether you have been told it's because of your age or whether you are just assuming that, but need need to have a think about the dymanics of this site - specifically:
There are more single males on this site than there are couples or fems looking for single men.
Because of this they have a lot to choose from.
In order for people to choose you, what do you have that other single blokes don't (other than a wife that is?)
A lot of people won't swing with someone who's cheating on their partner.
You're profile doesn't really stand out
Your pic is not very nice - (I know I'm not a fan of cock shots, but even for a cock shot it's not very nice).
If I were you I'd have a look at some of the other single guy's ads and profiles to get some ideas and check out the competition and get some better pics.
Also have a look at some of the profiles of people who are actually looking to meet more mature males.
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I've just realised. She's about to lose her "youngster" status. Next month she'll be well into her thirties :shock:
Mmmm - maybe I should re-think the giving of blanket 5 year licences
1 Petite Blonde (rather Horny) Early30's
Licence almost expired
Good Cook
Good Head
*db sneaks in, on a sneaky beaky sas-skwatch mission to do a quick edit - (below)
Apply within :twisted:
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NWC hun, can I have the hotel list please?
if any of the lades want to let me know in pm which hotel you're at, I feel a room 405 re-run coming on :twisted:
Is madammie allowed to come too? :giggle:
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thanks muchly for the vote of confidence. Being a native of bonnie scotland i`ve worn a kilt on many occassions and think it`s not only very smart but very comfy too and if it turns a few females on along the way?? well i`m all for it. By the way.....a woman in a kilt is very hot too!!
I'm not sure if I believe you're actually Scotttish. I think we need to see you in a kilt just to be sure
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HLB,
Could you clarify, when you say play at clubs with people you would not otherwise wish to. Is that based on looks or because you have not "got to know them"?
It's more how a person's criteria changes in a club situation than what your criteria actually is.
For me it's a mixture of looks & the confidence I see in them and how we "click", but as an example, if you're already playing and someone wanted to join in, would you maybe be happy to go ahead because the situation's got you horny even though the person may not be in your "Zone"? (Like sassy said I'm knicking that phrase)
OK Folks I thought we'd start the weekend early with a little movie challenge.
A famous Movie Scene, stylishly (take that to mean cheaply) recreated for your pleasure.
I have a few here (with a little help from my friends
), but feel free to join in by guessing the movie or posting your own scene.
OK Here's No.1
A famous Movie Scene, stylishly (take that to mean cheaply) recreated for your pleasure.
I have a few here (with a little help from my friends
), but feel free to join in by guessing the movie or posting your own scene.OK Here's No.1
I know we all have different criteria for what we look for in swinging playmates, but I'm interested to know how a person's own criteria changes in different environments, i.e.
Private meets
Clubs
Specifically does the experience of being "horned up" in a club mean you'll participate in some group action with people that you wouldn't necessarily consider a private meet with?
I know myself and dammie have discussed this on a few occassions and had differing views.
I know I have left myself go in "horned up" situations and find myself playing with people I wouldn't actively look for a meet with. I've also enjoyed it and never regretted a minute :twisted:
However, although my criteria may change, there are still situations and people I wouldn't engage in play with - I would be very cheesed off if someone who knew I wasn't interested in playing with, tried it on in a club - to me I would see this as "them trying to take advantage of the situation" (and me).
There are also the practical and safety issues to consider - You may be more selective in those people you would invite to your own home as opposed to meeting at a hotel or in a club
Does your criteria in these situations differ?
Do you and your partner view it differently?
Discuss
Private meets
Clubs
Specifically does the experience of being "horned up" in a club mean you'll participate in some group action with people that you wouldn't necessarily consider a private meet with?
I know myself and dammie have discussed this on a few occassions and had differing views.
I know I have left myself go in "horned up" situations and find myself playing with people I wouldn't actively look for a meet with. I've also enjoyed it and never regretted a minute :twisted:
However, although my criteria may change, there are still situations and people I wouldn't engage in play with - I would be very cheesed off if someone who knew I wasn't interested in playing with, tried it on in a club - to me I would see this as "them trying to take advantage of the situation" (and me).
There are also the practical and safety issues to consider - You may be more selective in those people you would invite to your own home as opposed to meeting at a hotel or in a club
Does your criteria in these situations differ?
Do you and your partner view it differently?
Discuss
Hmmm I might just have to give this a try.
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The 3 threads must consist of:
1 x funny/humorous subject, - I'm sure dammie will feel the need to dress up as something ridiculous before the week's out
1 x serious issue worthy of debate - Yep there's been a topic I've wanted to discuss for a few week's. Just been figuring out how to phrase it. :confused:
1x raunchy/flirtatious subject - A perv thread. I'm sure I can come up with something.
