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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
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Fabulous thread Pololady.
If we really must see cock shot after cock shot a bit of graphical enhancement may make them slightly less dull.
I propose the admin consider making this part of the extras package. It already has a feature to crop and blur the pics so maybe add an option to hand a bauble from the end of the cock biggrin
Well we had a power cut Saturday night.
After I'd done the usual running round finding candles just to be prepared if it didn't come back on before it got dark, I turn to dammie and say
"Can I get you a drink?"
dammie "I'll have a cup of tea".
Cue him rolling around laughing as I'm flicking the button on the kettle wondering why the light isn't coming on redface
Quote by Sarah
2. Meringue, strawberries and cream.
cool

I have Strawberries & cream in the fridge - eaten all the meringes though redface
Reminds me, we must find time for cakey-bun biggrin
Quote by cockslut
a chatroom op stated on this thread in early pages that munch / social rules have remained unchanged during life of s.h. and why should they be tightened or loosened now.

Cockslut that comment was regarding a separate issue. Here's a few quotes from the same op later on
Quote by Shireen_Mids
But . . . . my main concern and reason for the thread is the ambiguity surrounding the threads billing pre-drink fuckfests as socials.

Getting ya now :thumbup: Perhaps then additional guidelines need to be put in place like there is for the munch.... The Mods and Admin team are going to kill me for saying that bolt
There goes case in point. If you refer people to those guidelines the ones that state "members only", how does that help?
So you've explained to them what a munch is that's great, but not if they're asking you the difference between a social and a munch.

As above.... Perhaps additional guidelines need to be set?? dunno
Quote by Darkfire
There's a pub in the town centre of where I live that's thinking about it :shock:
along with regular fetish nights and various other 'events'. I've already been offered exclusive use - but turned it down rolleyes
Bit too 'on the doorstep' for me , and certainly not the best of ideas when it comes to personal safety and acceptance of 'yocals' :scared:

Desperately looking for the "Sigh of relief" emoticon lol
Quote by cockslut
HLB you got me wetting myself now, just read your thread on another forum, i see you've now introduced another event ." A LARGE SOCIAL" now would that have diferent terminology to say social, mini munch, munch,meet lol. only kidding babe.

:shock:
Has someone been inpersonating me again? dunno
Quote by Bloke2005
:thumbup:
That is definitely not a pile of bollox, I rather like it. biggrin

Seconded :thumbup:
Just to reiterate one point. If the choice is to sticky it then I would also like to see it in the chatroom guidelines so it is clear that it applies to the site and not just the forum.
Cockslut
The comments about putting an add up were based that you'd put it in a category for males and it gave the perception that you were wanting their presence for sexual activities, not to enjoy a pint with them.
Again please don't misintepret my comment. I'm not saying you were, I'm just saying it could be percieved that way hence the confusion.
I certainly would not want to exclude someone from a social event just because they use one area of this site more than others.
Quote by Jas-Tim
How about then
"A Social is a non -sexual, no playing event where the organiser has a discretionary choice over the attendees.
The organiser must not make a profit on any social event they choose to organise through this site
The location of the event should only be revealed to attendees"
Jas
XXX

:thumbup:
Quote by davedixon1
hi all,
today i got up and feelling ruff went to work but ended up at mates pub (dont ask) over a drink he complained about business and other things etc. i jokingly said why dont u have a night just for swingers and lock up....we laughed but i came away and thought not bad idea....................... do u guys know of such places or tried this?

That's very much like the format for a Munch or large social.
Usually the venues are separate rooms e.g. upstairs so we have a separate room and bar, but the recent Yorkshire munch was held in a pub that had been closed to the public for the night.
Usual turnout for a munch is on average about 100 people so yes it definately does happen.
If you're thinking of going ahead with it or want to ask any questions, feel free to ask here or in pm :thumbup:
Quote by cockslut
please dont fall for the old trick, hi im in africa and my family own a diamond mine, my parents have passed away and left me millions but need to put it into a uk bank account give me your details and you will get 10% bolox. cos sooner or later you will get that

Yep I received that one recently on another swinging site so int's definately doing the rounds.
Well the mods have stickied rules in the forum before, but I don't know about site rules.
and to amend the chatroom rules would need the ops buy in as well.
Personally as it's something that affects the whole site, it would be good to have Admin,Mods & Ops all in agreement if any changes are made so we're all singing from the same Hymn sheet.
I'd go with that Jas.
Only thing I'd add is a couple of comments about "No Charging" and "Don't Reveal Exact Locations"
The only other thing I'd suggest is that as there's been a large increase is chatroom meet organising, that it be added to the general site information as well or put in the chatroom guidelines.
I know when the site first changed over and all the females were inundated with crappy one liners a lot changed their profile details and took their photos down.
Then when Spam wink messages were introduced many deleted their details.
To take me out of people's searches I changed my profile to show me as living in the Outer Hebrides. I don't think that means I'm not genuine, it just means I don't like spam.
And I wasn't all that surprised when I did a "miles from me" search earlier today that I'm not the only female hiding out in the Scottish Isles. lol
Quote by cockslut
ok HLB thanks, i'm wondering why no ones picked up and commented on my earlier post re it wouldn't work if diferent sites had diferent rules concerning swinging ettiquette, as we believe no matter where you are in the world swingers ettiquette must mean the same all over?
do you agree or not?

hmm tricky one that cockslut.
I woould agree that people have there own mindset as to what they "think" something is.
Having said that if there was somewhere on this site that listed the definitions of what is a social, what is a party and what is a meet I would know exactly what it was on this site.
Now although I wouldn't expect everyone would read it, at least if someone was organising an event via Let's Meet up or the chatrooms entitled "BBQ 12th Aug", you could refer them to the definitions and ask which is it?
At the moment, if you asked them whether it was a social or a party they might not know the different or still have a different perception
Quote by cockslut
your still reading that advert wrongly guys,

Cockslut I know we've discussed this and I do understand where you're coming from. I just highlighted this to give Da69ve and example of some of the things that confuse people.
The fact that people did initially read it wrong shows that there is confusion.
The flaming lips was mine
So was ABBA, but in my defence I was trying to explain to dammie how it worked so I had to use a group he'd heard of :giggle:
Quote by da69ve

Perhaps a whole new word should be used for such events.....as i believe "Social".....is the wrong wording.

Hence the thread, dave.

I told you i was having a Blonde moment! wink
I have a very nice blonde wig if you'd like to borrow it :giggle:
Da69ve
I think you're thinking of the large socials that are run similar to munches, which is more obvious all though there was this:
Here's the first 2 posts from another "Social" organised in Let's Meet Up:
hiya peeps, we're having our 4th social meet 29th april at 8pm, please mail for venue or catch us online for an invite, please though only apply if your local to the area. singles / couples made very if you can't make it that night please don't fill our mailbox with questions etc, and we have a strict policy if you say your going to cum and don't you won't get another oppurtunity.

As a single guy,I have been to the previous 3 socials,and can vouch that *** and *** are the top gals in have a few beers,a great laugh, and maybe some naughtiness to end the night,should we get an inside are often in the chatroom,and from that you can all see how friendly we are,and horny to would like to say more couples though,pref with a bi-fem cus our gals do get a bit this is your first time at swinging,drop the gals a line,we will all put on the 29th

In addition to the thread there was an ad placed in the "seeking men" photo ads for more guys for this social.
Now think of all the "Socials" that are being arranged in the chatrooms, where there's no constant record of what's been said as there is in the forum.
Now add in if the event is labelled "Social BBQ" at someone's house. What would you view that as?
Oooh thanks for digging this up. It's been a while since I've been in.
Now of the latest searches, can you pinpoint which ones are people from here and who they are? biggrin
Given the amount of people on this site, I can understand if people don't choose to make pictures available to everyone and anyone.
It may be frustrating that you can't look at pics when chatting, but at the end of the day it's their choice.
Quote by da69ve
I'm having a blonde moment here.......but how did this all start..(The Munch Terminology explains it all.)....i've been using this site for nearly two years and have been to a few munches and socials in that time ,in fact there really is no difference in them at all....with no problem to rules so what seems to have changed to drag this all up again......because in my opinion if it can't be sorted....munches and socials could become a thing of the past.
A Munch is purely a social event!.....,thats the first line used in the Munch Terminolgy ,which must mean a Social is also the same!......how difficult is that!

Da69ve
I'm guessing you haven't read the majority of this thread.
Yes there is terminology for a munch, but a social can be more or less anything.
The issue is that people who don't know are confused between when it's a play or no play meet
Quote by markz
As Markz would say
rolleyes
bolt

why would I say "bolt" :shock:
I thought you might want to expand your vocabulary rolleyes
Quote by Jags
Just want to ad that the WHOLE team of Mods are working as hard as each other to keep this site clean and tidy and TTTT free. Not just me.
:inlove:

Ditto
And just so all the lovely ops don't feel left out kiss to you
Quote by Jags
cool

Just a really big thanks to the many many members who have been reporting ads like crazy recently. It's certainly made a big difference to the site.
:inlove: :inlove:

And a big thanks to you for spending so much of your free time editing them. And for everything else you do to make this place what it is.
YouM'lady are the one that makes the big difference kiss
Quote by Sharif
I think the emphasis of explaining as to what type of event and what to expect at that event should lay with the organiser, when they first post advertising the event in LMU. I assume this is what a good events organiser would do anyways. People can then decide if they want to attend based on the facts given. If the event posted goes against the ethos of the site, if the type of event or what to expect at the event is not explained then the powers that be can have a word with them on how to put it right.

You may have missed some of the argument (not surprising considering the twists of this thread)
The reason it was brought up was that it's becoming apparent here and in the chatroom that some events aren't clearly labelled and as there are no guidelines for socials apart from "do what you like apart from inviting banned members", you can't actually insist that the organiser does clarify it as there's nowhere to say they are obliged to.
Also as total “newbie’s” aren’t allowed to attend munch’s till they are a bit more well known they should not be allowed to organise a munch either.
Quote by Sharif
Also from what I can understand the only reason the term social’s started to appear is because people wanted to invite ex SH members who were not banned but who moved onto the splinter sites for what ever reason.

Not really. Social has historically been used for no play events other than a munch e.g. Bowling, BBQ, small group meeting in a pub.
It's just that the situation you mentioned is now in addition to all of the above adding to the confusion.