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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
Straight Female, 66
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Quote by Mal
Only if we hit our designated targets. Unfortunately I can't go into too much detail about these as we are restricted by the Official Secrets Act.
I had every confidence in you at this point. And then I read......
Quote by Mal
They are in line with Government targets, though,
:shock:
Quote by neilinleeds
Light purple or lilac shirt with a darker purple tie :smug:
you beat me too it dawn! soften the bold male lines of your suit with a shirt and tie combo that suggests a softer, more feminine side? the girlies love that so they do!
you could go the whole hog, and opt for something pink! :shock:Yes classic :thumbup:
Go for a pale shirt and a bold tie or
Bold shirt & pale tie.
Just don't go for a bold shirt and a bold tie - that's just nasty
btw Neil could you delete the rest of you post before he sees it? :giggle:
Quote by Mal
Since you first noticed the 'banned members', we have been moved to the same commission base as traffic wardens. Obviously, like them,who only ticket people who have parked incorrectly, we only ban people who richly deserve it, however, our christmas party is affected by our 'banned' count.
Hope that helps!
Mal
PMSL
Does it affect your Christmas bonus as well then?
Quote by PoloLady
Ah - you are coming round now.
Appearing confident online (to others - through their perception) and being a confident person are two utterly different things.
But I still question appearing confident in cyber-space - is it confidence or something else.
Well that would depend on the definition of confidence. I'm not sure what else you would or would call it, but I do see differences in "confidence" levels in different environments.
I'm not just talking about on lin and in person. I also see differences in people when they are in a work or social environment.
Some people can be confident socially in small groups but not so in large groups or with people they are unfamiliar with.
Quote by PoloLady
Nail on the head - my point exactly!
And these were no doubt people you had even spent time in one-to-one communication with.
Yep. It did make me rethink how and who I arranged meets with.
I still believe that you can see people who are confident on line, but I certainly don't take that to mean they are confident in person.
Although I still can't imagine you being the wallflower type :shock:
Quote by PoloLady
However, there is also a difference I think in levels of confidence in different circumstances. For instance some people may feel confident on line whilst are lacking in confidence when meeting in person.
Ah - cyberspace, the introvert's playground
Tell me about it.
As I've always been attracted to confident, outgoing people I've been bitterly disappointed on more than one occasion after arranging a meet :confused:
Although it is possible to mask your true emotions, we all have a certain posting style and as Neil said it would be difficult to mask this indefinitely.
As I said previously if someone who has the courage of their convictions when posting, I usually percieve them as confident.
However, there is also a difference I think in levels of confidence in different circumstances. For instance some people may feel confident on line whilst are lacking in confidence when meeting in person.
As I said previously if someone who has the courage of their convictions when posting, I usually percieve them as confident.
However, there is also a difference I think in levels of confidence in different circumstances. For instance some people may feel confident on line whilst are lacking in confidence when meeting in person.
Quote by PoloLady
I think that your quantity of posts and the time youve been a member is mistaken for confidence.
But they could have been 4240 entries in a word game or pointless 'blar' - how is that mistaken for confidence
I don't think quantity of posts has anything to do with it - as you stated, it's easy for someone to make 4000 posts of pure bollox in one of the bump threads.
Although you mentioned about just keying the words and hitting submit - I'd have to disagree.
There's a thought process behind the words you choose to hit. We can all spot if someones angry, sad, hurt or happy by what they post. I think it's equally true that we can see the intellect & confidence behind an individual's posts.
At this point I think it's only fair to point out that Andy's initial post was of good intention.
OK the comment about Jag's profile wasn't the best strategic mood, but we all make mistakes.
Now I think you should kiss & make up and be all lovely (I'm in one of those moods today)
Can you feel the love in this post? Can you?
OK the comment about Jag's profile wasn't the best strategic mood, but we all make mistakes.
Now I think you should kiss & make up and be all lovely (I'm in one of those moods today)
Can you feel the love in this post? Can you?
BrendaWelcome to the forum.
When I read your posts I have to say you reminded me a bit of myself when I joined SH.
I have a busy job and used to travel a lot. Although I have a lot of single and coupled up friends I go out with they're all very very straight.
I'd had a few experiences with another couple and it got me wanting more.
When I first joined SH I didn't even know what an Internet forum was and I didn't have any pics on my profile until a kindly gentleman from here invited me to his house to take some for me
I soon got to know people from chatting on here, having a great SH mentor and going to the SH social events.
I can honestly say I've never regretted a minute.
Have fun sweetie and if you have any questions just go ahead and ask :thumbup:
Above all enjoy it
