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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
Straight Female, 65
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Quote by Jags
Thanks HLB... oh, and I don't know! Sorry, but it's better than not replying at all!

And thanks for replying.
But I would genuinely like to know the answer to both questions. I realise the admin aren't around at the moment so hopefully they can shed some light on this.
Well I feel quite comfortable giving my opinion here and debating in here soo
At the risk of sounding like Jeremy Paxman...
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Well now a few more mods are on line I would like to ask a simple question
Are SHM employees who have an SH login considered by the site admin & moderators to be "members"?

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Important announcement
I just wanted you all to know about two guests who will be attending the Wigan Munch. These are the two people who will be working on the publication of the Swinging Heaven Magazine.

Who was the 2nd mystery guest dunno
Quote by Jags
I am still curious as to who the guest with no name was confused
Were they a member?

Have you not read the Wigan Munch thread YET??? Page 26 I believe is where Annie is mentioned...
:P
I read page 26 and there were apparently 2 guests - 1 of which was Annie.
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Important announcement
I just wanted you all to know about two guests who will be attending the Wigan Munch. These are the two people who will be working on the publication of the Swinging Heaven Magazine.

We do not yet know who the other person was/is - or at least I don't
Quote by Mal

No journalists attending, no PMs necessary.
Only SH members attending.
Hope that helps!!
Mal
wink

Ah but . . . . . . .
A rose by any other name dunno
When is a door not a door ? When it's ajar!
Although the SHM editor is now not attending, it still leaves the question in my head about "members"
:dunno:
And what would that question be? :shock:
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Well now a few more mods are on line I would like to ask a simple question
Are SHM employees who have an SH login considered by the site admin & moderators to be "members"?

kiss
Well now a few more mods are on line I would like to ask a simple question
Are SHM employees who have an SH login considered by the site admin & moderators to be "members"?
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
If I have offended anyone, then I do apologise, however, I would also say, that unless I had been 100% satisfied that I was not putting people in any danger by allowing Annie to come to the munch, then there is no way I would have allowed her to come. That doesnt seem to have been taken into account,

I most definitely took that into account.
As I have said before, I think you're a great person and I wholeheartedly believe that you would never knowlingly do anything to upset anyone on this site, but surely you can appreciate that different members will have different levels are what they are comfortable with kiss
I'm genuinely sorry that your thread got dragged into it, but I do think the issue of SHM employees attending munches is a serious topic worthy of discussion and members' opinions.
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
can I also say that even though Annie may be the editor of the magazine, she is also a member of this site.

Unless Annie was a member of this site before she was employed as the editor I totally disagree with this statement.
She (and the other guest) are not members interested in the lifestyle, they are here because they are paid to be here - there's a huge difference.
As far as I am aware, (from what I read this morning in the Wigan Munch thread), NWC has decided not to have the journalists at this event after all so no one should be concerned about that particular event.
Although it was that thread that raised the issue, this is (at this moment in time) now a hypothetical debate for site members to give their views
Quote by fabio
the one person i feel upset for is NWC,...that her judgement on this matter was questioned, or rather than actually ask her about it people were pulling out.........

Sorry Fabio, but I think you're completely wrong on this point.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not so stupid that I don't assume any swinging event is risk free, but I reserve the right to pull out of an event if I personally am not happy with a change in circumstances.
Nobody else knows mypersonal life circumstances in full and noone apart from me can decide what I personallyconsider to be too risky.
I made the decision that I was not happy to attend so withdrew. I didn't make a song & dance in the thread and I have pm'd NWC (who I think is lovely) to explain my reasons why in full.
And regardless of that, it was against the site's own guidelines for munches. Guidelines that were only updated 2 weeks ago (see st3v3's sticky in LMU).
If the mods and admin are going to ignore the guidelines, how the fluck can they expect other organisers to abide by them? dunno
A Munch is open to all - couples, singles, Gay, Bi, CDs, etc., there are no limits. The exception to this is the brand new newbie, i.e. those who have just joined the site or have not been an active participant on Swinging Heaven. This is only to prevent gawpers, journalists and those who are just TOO curious.

Or is it just me that missed the smallprint that states "With the exception of SHM journalists"? :dunno:
Quote by Kitty-licker
Hi, I joined the site a few months ago and have been having a pretty good time. Although I don't tend to check the forum area very often i keep forgetting that it is there. If there is going to be a munch, would it be possible for me to attend and maybe somebody give me a prod? As no doubt i will forget to check again.
Thank you
K

wave Kitty Licker
It's worth keeping a check in "Let's Meet Up".
There is a thread currently running for a social meet in Sheffield and there have been regular munches in Doncaster, Wakefield & Huddersfield as well so keep your eyes peeled :thumbup:
Quote by PoloLady
And the thing I don’t know is...
the contractual terms of the editor or this ‘undisclosed’ guest in terms of what they can and cannot do with any information about swingers/members they pick up here (both whilst they are working here or after they stop working here!)

:thumbup:
Hence why I will always decide for myself what I determine to be risk and so should every other member of this site
And in terms of rules for future "Munches" - in my mind there is a clear distinction between a site member and a paid employee who has a login
With regard to the threat level being the same for everyone, I don't think that's true:
Some members are happy for everyone and anyone to know they are swingers, I for one am not. I value my privacy.
-I do not know who Annie is or the other "guest" dunno
-I do not know if they are genuinely interested in swinging :dunno:
or
-If they think we're a bunch of filthy perverts and they only took the job because they needed to pay the mortgage. :dunno:
I don't know where abouts they live. Could they be my next door neighbour/friend/relative? :dunno:
What I do know is that the rules were put in place and the mods have done a lot of things to make sure they are upheld - to the extent of asking organisers to remove the names of "non-active" members or unsticky and relabel the events as socials and declare "non-active members/vanilla friends" are attending. confused
With regards to Pololady's post, I think this is a valid point.
If the magazine is aimed at "all swingers".
-Some people on this site love munches
-Some people on this site hate munches
-A lot of swingers don't use websites and wouldn't even entertain the idea of a munch.
If the magazine is only aimed at site members, I don't see the point :?
As a proactive note, if the editor does still want to go ahead with this, I think his&hers had the right idea. :thumbup:
A social (calling it a munch would be breaking site rules) could be organised and members could choose for themselves if they are satisfied their is no threat to theirpersonal circumstances and choose if theyare comfortable attending
Quote by blueandpink
while Polo and Drew see who wins the battle fo the wills contest

I thought she just wanted some crisps :shock:
She can't have all the "Wills" on the site that's just plain greedy confused
Quote by Mal
I could always delete some of his older posts so he doesn't reach 10,000!!!
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
bolt

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Now that's just evil lol
Quote by Drewxcore
There was an abuse bilko thread...looks like this one had become it... evil

I was trying to post in it when it disappeared. kiss
I did think Bilko had stolen it, but it's ok now it was only dawnie :giggle:
Now who can we morph him with? lol
That should keep him distracted while I go and nick his blue ink :twisted:
Quote by Dawnie
I have the answer :smug:
Flounce :giggle:
Go on, fLuck off flipa
I can say what I like because you have no posts left to reply to me :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon:

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Good idea Dawnie kiss
We should have an "Abuse Bilko" thread while he can't post :giggle:
Quote by Stormwalker
Hiya you two
Difficult to answer without knowing which club you're going to, but it might be worth just giving them a call and asking the club directly.
One thing I will say is even if they do say it's ok to wear a dressing gown, would your lady feel more self concious if everyone else was in underwear & towels? dunno
I know when we've been to chams they do 2 sizes of towels and the large ones are full size ones that cover you up you don't mind naming the club you're planning on visiting you might be able to get some advice from people who've already visited it :thumbup:

They could Cover you up with a stamp, blink but are the towels big enough to cover me, thats the question?
redface
Yes they're plenty big enough - I stick with the small towels though - If I had a large one I'd be tripping over it because it would be down to the floor :giggle:
Quote by hisandhers
Could you take mine and HLB's name off the list please.

:upset: sorry you both aren't going now
take care kiss
:kiss:
Hiya you two
Difficult to answer without knowing which club you're going to, but it might be worth just giving them a call and asking the club directly.
One thing I will say is even if they do say it's ok to wear a dressing gown, would your lady feel more self concious if everyone else was in underwear & towels? dunno
I know when we've been to chams they do 2 sizes of towels and the large ones are full size ones that cover you up well.
If you don't mind naming the club you're planning on visiting you might be able to get some advice from people who've already visited it :thumbup:
Quote by Versace Vase
Id honk a hottie,

Or you could do it dammie style...
Perv
Honk
Flash your lights
Wave then
Hold one of these up at the window.
Quote by Bigpaul45
Being as i posted the original joke ( I regretted it as soon as I hit the submit button)I could well understand how it would be yawned at but,as some have mentioned a sticky room or whatever would be a good idea for people who have heard a "good 'un" to share it with though, a good gag should be told rather then read as at best it gets a smirk rather than belly laugh.....although my jokes don't get either !! sad

:thumbup:
Like others have said, the joke threads are locked because you can't really add anything or discuss it.
And Usually by the time they get posted here, I've already received them 10 times by email/text message.
I think it's important to have humour and fun threads in the forum, but as Bigpaul says jokes don't tranlate as well.
Big Thanks to Marya and Alex for organising last night's social kiss
It was good to see some people I haven't seen for a long while as well as the usual suspects lol
Thanks to Earthy for being the hostess with the mostess passionkiss
Quote by VelvetTigers
would you like milk with your coffee?

Oooh sod the coffee - Glass of milk for me please :smitten:
Quote by willxx69
Thank God for that - I wondered where the bloody GFZ had gone! rolleyes
Ahhhh, this brings back memories. When the world (and SH) were young I seem to remember serving in here as a naked barman on a Friday and Saturday night....
Will removes all clothing - apart from his barman's apron, which just about protects his modesty - but leaves his arse exposed redface
Now then, let me see if I can remember how this goes....
A case of Shiraz ready - with two bottles opened to breathe.
Ditto for the Merlot (for those who prefer soft and velvety to warm and spicy). Oi - I am talking wine here, you dirty lot! :roll:
Fridge needs to be stocked with mexican beer, white Zinfandel (in case someone fancies a rosé on a pleasant evening), some Sancerre* and some New Zealand Sauvignon Blanc. Oh, and Gin - G&Ts are always better when served with cold gin - Gordon's and Bombay Sapphire should do it.
How's that for starters?
* Although I am normally a red wine drinker, when I am in a white wine mood Sancerre is a particular favourite of mine. Varca, we need to talk!! :twisted: :twisted:
Now then, does anyone need any service? :twisted:
Will

worship
Now someone chain this man to the bar - we need to keep him :twisted:
Quote by Gothic-punk
I would join in behind the bar but I live in Salford and therefore only know how to serve blue wkd.

I don't believe you.
I've spent loads of time in that neck of the woods and they serve all wkd colours :giggle:
drags Gothic punk in before he can escape
Quote by Freckledbird
Ahem - before the topic goes completely off the subject of pictures, I'd just like to make Lukes aware of a little-known rule:
If/when you decide to create a private gallery, the mods have to approve it first but then your mentor has to have the first look to make sure it's OK to release for consumption by the rest of the membership :smug: innocent
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Well, a girl's gotta try!
bolt

You do realise we all hate you right now don't you? :giggle:
You should give up teaching and work in marketing lol
Quote by Ukwineman
coming up
oh does the bar man get any special tips confused:

Yep
Get here sooner in future :giggle:
Just kidding hun kiss