Dave I've so missed seeing posts of your's and Alex's outings.
I think it should be compulsory for you two to attend all munches so we can all have a laugh on the Sunday whilst we're hungover.
Seriously - don't ever change you two :thumbup:
OK own up. Who did it?
It appears a dambuster2006 joined the site in June 2006.
Is it you Sheddy?
:doh:
I think tramper's still on a bit of a high after attending his first munch last night :shock:
I think it was Blue who described swinging as "An Attitude".
It was getting involved with a couple and letting my bi side out that got me curious about this site and evertually join it.
Like you have said it's not that difficult to find a bloke and shag him, what I wanted to do was experience something different.
I do agree with you point De Sade, but I think it was Blue who said swinging is "an attitude".
What I mean is there may be straight single women who are looking to experience new things and accept the swinging lifestyle - yet happen to be single at this moment in their lives. All though this may not be the definition of swinging in some people's eyes, they have "the attitude" never the less.
I've never had a problem in this area because the meets I've had are mostly with people I've already met socially so they obviously no who I am and what I look like.
However when the site was first took over and we suffered the 1 liner pm plague, 1 of the most common pms I got was
"Hi hornylittleblonde. Is that really your arse?"
I ignored most of them, but I think to a couple when I was really pissed off I answered
"No it's my boyfriends"
In hindsight - I should've been suspicious when I found a packet of fruit pastilles waiting for me when I got home :giggle:
I have to admit I am over cautious - I was worse when I was on here as a single fem.
Having been stalked in the past, I know the dangers & bloody hastle on letting the wrong person into your life. So if there's even the slightest doubt in my mind then it's a no go.
I do admit that I find it difficult to judge people on line and I've often said that I prefer meeting people at socials as opposed to on here, because of this.
I think that's also why I find people who come across as desperate a complete turn off - my intuition tells me there's probably something more sinister lurking beneath the desperation :shock: