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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
Straight Female, 66
0 miles · Derbyshire
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I take it you haven't met Markz yet.
He is going to be soooo pleased when he sees this.
ok on to the technical stuff.
You may want to consider a "Bedford Social" as opposed to a munch.
A munch is a site sactioned event which is open to all site members (with the exception of total newbies)
For a social event you can limit it to who you want and it's a lot easier to organise than a munch. No need to think about secure segregated venue, DJ, badges etc.
As has been said above, I would read the link posted by Sarah and get yourself familiar with what a munch is before you find yourself organising something you didn't realise you were doing.
He is going to be soooo pleased when he sees this.
ok on to the technical stuff.
You may want to consider a "Bedford Social" as opposed to a munch.
A munch is a site sactioned event which is open to all site members (with the exception of total newbies)
For a social event you can limit it to who you want and it's a lot easier to organise than a munch. No need to think about secure segregated venue, DJ, badges etc.
As has been said above, I would read the link posted by Sarah and get yourself familiar with what a munch is before you find yourself organising something you didn't realise you were doing.
As a single bloke, you will find your completing with 1000s of others.
Take a look at the other single blokes ad to get some ideas and join in on the forums or in the chatroom.
and if you've got a good sense of humour, click on the link in my signature and have a read of the "Idiots guide to swinging".
As well as being highly amusing it's actually quite useful
Hiya hun
I joined this site as a single bi fem a year ago and had very similar worries and got fed up with getting crappy 1 liners.
I went to a munch and had a great time.
For me it was not just a great night out, I got to meet real people in a safe environment.
I also find it much easier to judge people in person than on line so it's worked well for me. I have never had an ad on this site and never needed one.
This isn't the way everyone does it but it works for me.
I would suggest you put your name down for a munch/social event and get chatting to a few people on here and get to know them a bit.
You'll then begin to find an approach to swinging that suits you. :thumbup:
Whatever you decide to do - enjoy it
I joined this site as a single bi fem a year ago and had very similar worries and got fed up with getting crappy 1 liners.
I went to a munch and had a great time.
For me it was not just a great night out, I got to meet real people in a safe environment.
I also find it much easier to judge people in person than on line so it's worked well for me. I have never had an ad on this site and never needed one.
This isn't the way everyone does it but it works for me.
I would suggest you put your name down for a munch/social event and get chatting to a few people on here and get to know them a bit.
You'll then begin to find an approach to swinging that suits you. :thumbup:
Whatever you decide to do - enjoy it
King Dong:welcome: to :swingingchair: heaven
I don't think there's an easy answer to your question - I'm sure you'll get many different views on this.
The good thing about swinging with one couple is it's more personal - but just make sure it's a couple you feel very comfortable with.
A club means there's more people and maybe you'd enjoy having a look round, seeing what goes on and joining in at your own pace. On the down side you may find it all a bit overwhealming.
Personally, I chose my first club experience to be with a group of people I knew from here and went in the afternoon.
Whatever you decide - have fun :thumbup:
It always amuses me when you see an article in the gutter press and it states they were doing something "obsene and not fit to be described in a family newspaper"
If it's not suitable material for the paper, then why the hell are they writing about it?
The answer being "sex sells". People read it because they are interested/curious.
Those that can do and those that can't talk/read about it
If it's not suitable material for the paper, then why the hell are they writing about it?
The answer being "sex sells". People read it because they are interested/curious.
Those that can do and those that can't talk/read about it
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Just watch out for 'Tramper' as no doubt he will be along soon.
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NNOOOOOOOOO !!!!!!! Not Tramper !!!! :shock: :scared:
'morning Girlies
you know yoo luv it :twisted:
:68: :wanker: 
:68: :wanker: How the hell did you get out of the box?
I put a double padlock on it :shock:
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We have noticed that even though this is ,after all, 'The Cafe' for "General discussion and chit-chat. Post anything here that is NOT a Meet Up or about Dogging." , threads which don't 'go with the happy flow' get locked fairly quickly (another negative aspect we've experienced), but for the time that other users are able to reply, we wondered what everyone else feels; positive or negative.
Often after the site goes off line or the chatroom goes down a lot of people decide to post a rant in here and the forum gets filled up with threads about the same things.
The mods usually leave the first one running, but close following ones so that there's one place to post comments and it doesn't clutter the forum.
I fully sympathise with the problem and I must admit to being frustrated.
Fingers crossed it's back to normal now
I feel it's about time to pay homage to another legendary thread 
and suggest a challenge within a challenge :shock:
As there are a few people travelling up to Chesterfield next weekend, I just thought I'd point out how close you'll be to a certain road:
so get you maps out for the girls :rascal:
remember to bring your cameras and I'll look forward to seeing the evidence next week :twisted:
and suggest a challenge within a challenge :shock:
As there are a few people travelling up to Chesterfield next weekend, I just thought I'd point out how close you'll be to a certain road:
so get you maps out for the girls :rascal:
remember to bring your cameras and I'll look forward to seeing the evidence next week :twisted:
OK it's nearly time for the World Cup so here's a thread to get us all the footy fans in the mood and also something football related for the non footy fans to get involved in.
I was thinking today about who I'm going to have in my fantasy football team and it got me thinking about the SH member :twisted:
Here's a few of mine
Goal Keeper - Jags - because nothing gets past her
Defender- Bloke - he'll scare the stright men into running in the wring direction
Midfield- Sarah - she's a great all rounder, organiser and she look terrific in Red, white & blue
Striker- Marmalaid - with legs like that if he can't run and score no one can
Oh and I've have dambuster bring on the oranges at half time well I've got to let him do something :giggle:
So who would you have in your SH fantasy football team and why?
I was thinking today about who I'm going to have in my fantasy football team and it got me thinking about the SH member :twisted:
Here's a few of mine
Goal Keeper - Jags - because nothing gets past her
Defender- Bloke - he'll scare the stright men into running in the wring direction
Midfield- Sarah - she's a great all rounder, organiser and she look terrific in Red, white & blue
Striker- Marmalaid - with legs like that if he can't run and score no one can
Oh and I've have dambuster bring on the oranges at half time well I've got to let him do something :giggle:
So who would you have in your SH fantasy football team and why?
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As a said in a post elswhere the nutters are completly spoiling what otherwise been a good first few months on here. Though i'v not had any meets as yet but that hasnt spoiled anything about my experiance here.
Most of the nutters i suspect joined the site after SH made an apperance in the national newspapers when SH were boasting they had x00,000 members in a feature on swinging in Britain. They also use chat and not any other feature of the site.
The extras package was given to me on a trial period and i never used the wink system as i knew it would be a big issue, as was the stealth cam wich i absolutly hated and got me into a few shouting matches in the chat being called a perv and feeling compelled to let ppl kow i was watching wich i only do when i'm on cam. I was pushing for it to be removed and they finaly relented but kept the winks which i find odd.
Thats my perception anyway.
Goose I have to say it's good to know there are single guys like you still joining the site :thumbup:
IMHO it's what this site needs.
I understand the admin are running a business and are here to make a profit and the "desperado quick shag hunting dross" are the also the types more likely to part with there money so they're always gonna be here.
It's just good to know that they're not putting off the decent people
Sarah for screwing the page up.Quote by Darkfire
wonder what would happen if I said ...Friday (singles) night instead???
edited to say - Probably none at all :shock: , I've just been told in pm that 'although they'd like to, I'm too scary' :shock: :shock:
and all I can say to that is (a) you aint met me and (b) assumption is the mother of all fuck ups.
Darkfire is not scary - she is very pink and fluffy
Silk & Big G :shock:
If I'd have known bumping this would have had you posting on the forum again I'd have done it months ago.
Know what you mean about the politics - Off to go get nostalgic about the good old days when this place used to have me crying with laughter.
Good to see you back :thumbup:
If I'd have known bumping this would have had you posting on the forum again I'd have done it months ago.
Know what you mean about the politics - Off to go get nostalgic about the good old days when this place used to have me crying with laughter.
Good to see you back :thumbup:
