So back to the original post...
Let's help the lovely lady out here.
Anyone in Bedford interested in a social meet with other swingers???
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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
Straight Female, 66
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Quote by neilinleeds
HLB!
unfortunately, i'll have to decline your admittedly very tempting offer of being bound and gagged? partly cos i ain't on here hardly at all
Yes I had noticed - hence the reason you need to be bound, gagged and locked in The Cafe.
Well if your determined to decline that offer, why don't you come and join me, Tune & the laird - I'm sure we could accommodate :twisted:
Quote by neilinleeds
the problem is, i think, that most of us need someone else to bounce off to get the posting going, and hopefully leave openings for others to bounce back.
I've just been reviewing an old thread and commented to dammie about it. It was something that started out of nothing, but ran to 8 pages as you didn't just have a couple of people bouncing off each other there were about 20 people bantering with others throwing the odd post in.
I think I have a solution - it's a bit radical but just might work.....
We need a good mixture of the people but a core group of the comedians all in here at once.
I'm would like some volunteers (preferably trained by the Sarge for the SH security forces) to round up the following members and lock them in The Cafe :shock:
On the Wanted list (alive, but bound & gagged is acceptable)
NeilinLeeds
Davej
Warwick
Pololady
Easy
Well Busty Babe
Dav69e
Dambuster
Bloke2005
Missy
Big G
Staggy
And I've called in a ringer to give us a hand
Less than a week to go now :happy:
We've sent out venue details to everyone who's confirmed - please do not give the details to anyone else.
If you've not received a pm and you think you should've done, please contact myself or dambuster.
All those that have put their name down and not yet confirmed - wake up
We will send the details to anyone on the list (on page 1) that confirms between now and Friday, but anyone who confirms after Tuesday evening will not get a badge.
Looking forward to seeing everyone :bounce:
We've sent out venue details to everyone who's confirmed - please do not give the details to anyone else.
If you've not received a pm and you think you should've done, please contact myself or dambuster.
All those that have put their name down and not yet confirmed - wake up
We will send the details to anyone on the list (on page 1) that confirms between now and Friday, but anyone who confirms after Tuesday evening will not get a badge.
Looking forward to seeing everyone :bounce:
Quote by Kiss_Me
Cheers guys! I have now realised that it seems that a Munch isn't what I'm searching for!I feel a right spanner now but glad I'm on the right road thanks to you kind folk! I prmoise to try harder next time!
Thanks again,
Kiss_Me aka Daft Bint
xxx
:therethere:
Could have been worse
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/54266.html
I think we can see what you're getting at - getting to meet up for a drink with a dozen like minded locals?
If you do a search for posts on The NW Posse who've done something similar up North, it might give you a few ideas to get you started.
I'm trying to think who I know lives in Beford, but for some reason I can only think of Markz
Quote by Sarah
Well guess what M&S are selling in the motorway service station food shops?
But something that look very like chocolate mousse with melted choc in the middle!! and they offer you a spoon to eat it with as well, most helpful :P
This is going to put a whole new meaning on my long trips to south Wales!!
Hmm
and thanks for texting me a picture of it while I was stuck in a meeting in London having not had breakfast or lunch.
You are such a tease
An interesting point Duncan.
I certainly think the Victorian attitudes and opinions in the press give a biased view of swinging.
I do think attitudes of sexual liberation are changing - My friends don't know that I'm a swinger and some of them would be horrified, yet I know many of them in the past (at college or whilst on holiday etc) have had threesomes/foursomes.
However although I'm sure many people are curious about swinging, a lot wouldn't be able to deal with issues of jealousy if swinging with a spouse or long term partner.
I certainly think the Victorian attitudes and opinions in the press give a biased view of swinging.
I do think attitudes of sexual liberation are changing - My friends don't know that I'm a swinger and some of them would be horrified, yet I know many of them in the past (at college or whilst on holiday etc) have had threesomes/foursomes.
However although I'm sure many people are curious about swinging, a lot wouldn't be able to deal with issues of jealousy if swinging with a spouse or long term partner.
Quote by Sassy-Seren
It's called priorities hunni
I'll rememebr that when she wants some of my comfort eating biscuits, Frascati, raspberries, melons and other assorted soft summer fruits; and when I'm having a "man's" wank.
I might even start keeping my pre-cum to myself :twisted:
Now that's just being spiteful
Brave words considering the lovely Tart au citron I have in the fridge, complete with double cream :rascal:
I think I'll give his share to Tramper
Quote by Jags
And then there's the 'sympathy' threads... don't get me started!! :twisted: :twisted: Especially when the topic requiring sympathy turns out to be untrue!
:P
And not forgetting my personal favourite - The Timewaster thread that then takes a twist when the thread starter then gets outed as a timewaster
Quote by Pete_sw
Very true HLB, Im not going to turn this thread into a GFZ battle, you either love it or you hate it
No battle hun. I'm not going to like every thread in The Cafe and the simple way to deal with that is just not to go in the ones I don't like
1 thing I would like to add here. The 1 topic I saw and inconsistency on (out of god knows how many 1000's), when I talked it over with 1 of the Mods, they understood, by point, discussed it & came up with a fair & logical solution to the issue within 1/2 hour.
Now there's always going to be the grey areas, but if it's a genuine problem and it's approached consistently it's usually resolved quickly.
They are only human after all. :shock:
Quote by Alexandra
I would love new members to be able to see this site how it use to be (now lads - I dont mean technically, I mean the community, the acceptancy, the humour and the caring side).
It is appearing to be more just a sex site at times, which is such a pity as it was and is far more than that. That is the magic which is SH.
I know what you mean.
I've been bumping a few of the old favourites recently as I wanted some of the newer members to see some of the threads that used to have me crying with laughter or shaking with anger.
Is those kind of emotion inducing, thought provoking threads I miss.
I can understand not wanting him to go into details, but from the limited information he has been able to give, the impartial advice he has been given here i.e. not to visit, rise above it and to copy & paste any abusive comments seems to be worthwhile to me.
Yes we don't want people detailing personal issues in the forum, but asking for general advice on managing conflict seems perfectly acceptible to me.
Yes we don't want people detailing personal issues in the forum, but asking for general advice on managing conflict seems perfectly acceptible to me.
Quote by PoloLady
There appears to be some fluctuation in the criteria for the locking of threads that to an observer (such as myself) does not make any logical sense.
I appreciate there are always some borderline cases and some difficult calls, however imho some of my recent observations are not close call cases.
It is not the threads which have been locked which really concern me - it is a number of threads which haven’t that do.
If you look you should be able to spot a few for yourself.
I did notice a particular instance a couple of weeks ago and pm'd a mod and asked them to raise the issue in the Mods lounge to come up with a course of action that was consistent to avoid confusion for newbies.
I've also noticed a change in The Cafe recently - I know this place does go in cycles and get a bit stale every now and then, but it does seem to have lost a little something recenlty.
Now I've made no secret that I'm not exactly a fan of the GFZ & "Post count bump" threads, but I have noticed that the level of more in depth and the highly amusing threads seems to be dwindling.
