There's a huge supply of single males and a great demand for single fems. So the odds are stacked against you before you start.
Now just for 1 minute look at this from the point of view of the women on this site (a swingers site).
I'm not being big headed here, but practically if I wanted a quick shag, I could go out in my local town and get one pretty easily and so could most of the single fems. :happy:
So why do single females join a swingers site?
I can't speak for everyone but most I know are looking to explore their sexuality in other ways - be it exploring their bi side,group sex, club experiences.
So in terms of personal marketing, what can you offer these lovely ladies?
I've also quoted something I wrote in the married men thread, which I hope also gives you an insight into what goes through some of our minds
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
To answer the original question without getting into the moral argument, to me their are a few practical reasons why people might not want to meet a married person playing away.
a) Arranging meets can be more difficult. If their other half doesn't know, chances are you can only contact/meet them at awkward times.
b) They might be more liable to pull out at the last minute if the spouse wants to know where they are
c) They may be limited to time and therefore want to shag and run
d) If they're selfish enough to cheat on someone they claim they love and justify it in some way to themself that they think this is perfectly all right they may well be a selfish lover.
e) If you're texting/phoning/emailing the person to make arrangements and the spouse finds the messages, you could end up with someone screaming at you down the phone or worse turning up at your house :shock:
On the upside at least you know they're going to be discreet
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