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16 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
HornyLittleBlonde Post Picker suggests > Perfect Panties:
Ladies, what style of panties border your buttocks the best?
Gents, what style of panties makes your mate bum look yum?
What is the most flattering frillies you have and why?
Photographic evidence is always welcomed

Fantastic!!! The post picker really works :happy:
I especially like the bit about photographic evidence - I off to go hunt bloke & Mr Bloke down :twisted:

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16 Apr 2006

Dare I hit the submit button? biggrin

Quote by PoloLady
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- Name - HLB
- Age - 31
- Location - Midlands

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16 Apr 2006

Quote by Bloke2005
I think 'making' somebody's partner join so that they can come to a Munch is a load of bollox really... just a paperwork/power/popularity exercise - especially if as Darkfire says, they don't post or even log in
If they are a long term partner then we should trust one another's judgement and they should be allowed to attend. If they are a short term partner and genuinely interested in the lifestyle, they should be allowed to attend. If they have 'no interest' in the lifestyle then it begs the question, why would they want to attend, regardless of how long they have known somebody?
Just my thoughts... :P

I posted elsewhere not long ago about the "common sense factor" as opposed to petty bureaucracy and got my head bitten off for having the gall to suggest such a thing rolleyes

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16 Apr 2006

Have you got anyone on your ignored list?
If so it will flash to say you have mail, but nothing shows in your in box.
You have to go to your ignored list
Delete anyone on the ignored list
Go to your in box
read new mail and it will stop flashing.
As for the photos. have you uploaded them and have they been approved by admin yet?
They won't show until admin have OK'd them.
Or do you mean you want a photo as your avatar? if so you need to go to your forum settings and double click an already uploaded pic to set it as your avatar.

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16 Apr 2006

Huge thanks to Dawnie and Midlandsman and NWC kiss

I no we didn't stay long, but it was great to see old faces and new.
Midlandsman & NewtoTrot - great to see you two out and about again
WRATS - Thanks for making us laugh I'd never thought dogging could be so hilarious
dammie wasn't in too much pain during the evening. well until....
He was getting a bit fruity before we left. As we came out of the front door he turns round to me and says:
"Sorry darling, I can't wank you now. Midlandman just shook my hand" :shock:

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16 Apr 2006

I agree with Pololady on this one.
If someone has a single log in, but wishes to bring their long term partner that's fine.
However allowing any member to bring a friend to a munch would be unacceptable to me - especially one who has no interest in swinging.
I'm sure Tatty is sensible enough not to consider bringing a complete idiot along, but as has been said you can't break the rules.
Obviously Tatty's friend knows about her swinging lifesyle, but other people keep it quite secret and by allowing site members to bring a friend to a munch you are actually "outing" about 100 swingers to a vanilla.
Sorry it's a big no no IMO.

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15 Apr 2006

Get yer marmite out Tune - that'll teach her :giggle:

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15 Apr 2006

Well if you insist on using the "V" word I'm doing Binxy first :twisted:
Binxy you are officially certified as not being verified by me. :giggle:

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15 Apr 2006

:doh:
PJC did you mean to re post that hun or were you going to post something in addition and it went pear shaped dunno

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15 Apr 2006

Welcome to the forum.
If you look at the number of ads from single men looking for single fems and then at the number of single fems looking for single men, you'll see why it's a bit of an uphill battle for you.
As Pete stated you're profile suggests you're happy to meet couples as well so that might explain it.
If I were you I'd be grateful. A lot of single guys don't get any response at all biggrin

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15 Apr 2006

Well in that case it'd be rude not to get mine out biggrin

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15 Apr 2006

I think it's safe to come out now. Tramper is back in his box with a huge padlock on it and I've swallowed the key biggrin

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15 Apr 2006

Quote by Sgt Bilko

I will post in here to let you know which room it is when I have opened it!!

Fantastic
Can I assume that you'll also include how to get in. Just in case there are any small blonde people who might struggle innocent

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15 Apr 2006

Interesting topic.
I originally joined SH as a single.
Before becoming a member I'd been swinging with another couple and my fuck buddy and then just me with the couple. It was something I felt I wanted to explore further.
Also I was starting to travel with my job a lot more and thought joining the site would give me the option to explore my sexuality and meet people I could play with whilst away from home. :twisted:
In addition to this I was fed up with meeting people in the vanilla world. Invariably boyfriends got possessive and didn't like my flirting and when I wanted just a regular fuck buddy with no strings they still ended up being posessive and wanting a relationship to the point of stalking mad

What I found at SH surprised me. The respecting of boundaries, openess and honesty was like a breath of fresh air. Yes there's been the odd instance of someone coming on a bit strong and desperate and my previous stalking experience has left me over cautious, but on the whole everyone's been great.
As stated the last thing I was looking for was a relationship, but I got one - and the best one I've ever had. :inlove:
For me I think myself and dambuster are so good together because we have that same "attitide" he mentioned in his post.
Yes he did tell me he'd give it all up for me and I know he meant it, but we both agree that we still want to be here socially as well as swinging because that's who we are.
I can see some people come here looking for sex - straight sex and if they meet someone either here or in the vanilla world then they don't need the site anymore.
I think the people who stay are the people who came here looking for more than just a shag. The people who want to explore boundaries and enjoy other sexual activities.

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15 Apr 2006

Quote by BiWelshMinx

Minx you bad girl

Sorry FB, HornyLittleBlonde told me to write it.... rolleyes

Minx x x

Binxy I did no such thing!!!!

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15 Apr 2006

Quote by Reikiradical
This thread - about timewasters
Another thread not very far away - pubic hair, to shave or not
Another not very far from that - winge about the chatroom in the forums!
Have we gone back a couple of years? Am I in a timewarp??
If we carry on getting posts like that today, perhaps we should lock the FORUM!!!!
Not everyone has been a member since Noah fell of the Ark

I think you're missing the point Reikiradical. The point being it's dull and moany.
HLB goes off to start a clock thread bolt

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15 Apr 2006

OMG!!!
our thoughts are morphing together now?
This is getting really spooky :shock:

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15 Apr 2006

Quote by freckledbird
but how about
those that have turned up for a meet
how about a green tick by the side of the names

:shock: don't even go there! lol

No really, don't.
This thread seems to be heading towards the dreaded "V" word :scared:
Everyone run for the hills while you still can :shock:

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15 Apr 2006

Easy & Staggy
Don't go encouraging them or I'll tell Wild Rose to get the iron out biggrin

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15 Apr 2006

Quote by starmanxx
I agree with you have man feel that they have to lie. I am happy if my wife wishes to play around and we have discussed this at lenght, she however, does not. I have not ask her if it is ok for me to swing as I do not wnat to hurt her or add to her problems. I love sex and I do not feel that I am doing any thing wrong.

As already stated the main problems with these types of posts is the sob story/sympathy shag bit.
It does intrigue me how each one seems to have a different form of self justification - are they trying to convince us or themselves? dunno

To answer the original question without getting into the moral argument, to me their are a few practical reasons why people might not want to meet a married person playing away.
a) Arranging meets can be more difficult. If their other half doesn't know, chances are you can only contact/meet them at awkward times.
b) They might be more liable to pull out at the last minute if the spouse wants to know where they are
c) They may be limited to time and therefore want to shag and run
d) If they're selfish enough to cheat on someone they claim they love and justify it in some way to themself that they think this is perfectly all right they may well be a selfish lover.
e) If you're texting/phoning/emailing the person to make arrangements and the spouse finds the messages, you could end up with someone screaming at you down the phone or worse turning up at your house :shock:
On the upside at least you know they're going to be discreet dunno

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15 Apr 2006

Hi Debs
Not sure how to answer this at the moment because I'm not entirely sure what you mean :doh:
Could you give an example of the kind of thing you mean? dunno

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15 Apr 2006

Why are men so obsessed with this topic? dunno

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15 Apr 2006

pmsl
That always makes me chuckle.
I think they must be watching to much porn and actuallybelieve that gay women come on here purely looking to put on a performance for straight men rolleyes

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15 Apr 2006

Just think of it as everyone doing thir bit to bump this for you wink

But yes it is a) :giggle:

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15 Apr 2006

Quote by Jags
If I lock this then I'm power mad and if I leave it it turns into a argument.
:cry: Think I'll have a cup of tea and wait and see.

If Hitler was here he'd have locked it wink

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14 Apr 2006

We both thought long and hard before doing this, but as much as it pains me to say it weâ€™ve got to be practical and the reality is this:
As some of you know weâ€™ve been having a bit of a difficult time at the moment and due to dammieâ€™s ill health, we are spending a lot of time going to and from the hospital.
Because of this we canâ€™t go ahead with the not-wedding.
However the non-munch will still go ahead as planned â€“ run as a normal munch.
Rest assured we know people have booked hotels and made travel arrangements and we will not let them down. There are plenty of people who have offered us help and support if we need it so this event will take place come hell or high water.
Weâ€™re sorry for any inconvenience this may cause and I hope you understand are reasons for changing our plans.
And a special thanks to all the people who have been helping us through this (you know who you are) kiss

xx HLB xx

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14 Apr 2006

Quote by blacknwhite39
sounds good if there any spaces let us know x

Hiya Blacknwhite
We'll put you on the reserve list for the moment.
In the meantime, join in on the forum and let us get to know you a bit better :thumbup:

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9 Apr 2006

I would like to say Huge thanks to Sarah and Mal - not only for organising another fantastic Notts munch and the badges, but also the personal support this week kiss

Thanks to Ally & Carla for the Disco - it was lovely to see you both again and I'm glag Ally got the chance to socialise a bit this time biggrin

Sorry we didn't stay to the end, but we did have a fantastic time:
Darkfire - glad you made it.
Quimninja's - lovely to meet you both
WRATS - Always a pleasure
Blonde & Steve - thanks for making me laugh this morning. I hope Veg enjoyed his breakfast lol

Kazswallows & SirLee - Thanks for all your help. It's very much appreciated kiss

To everyone else who was there last night. Hugs and Kisses. we'll see you at the next one :happy:

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8 Apr 2006

Quote by trix
Just wondered how many people are on the list now.I am so excited can't wait for the 3rd of june.

We have 150 people on the list. :happy:

Quote by trix
and i would like to thank you for moving the date to the 3rd i was torn between the munch and the world cup

Me and you both!!! :giggle:

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2 Apr 2006

Quote by Jags

Just one of the reasons we are leaving Shireen. There was a post were we explained the violence we received at a certain club in Bristol last night but the mods on here have removed it , yet another reason why we are leaving.

Not entirely true! The Admin team moved it and you've been in PM correspondence with St3v3 about it and have given futher details about the alleged assault. St3v3 has TOLD you that he's going to be in touch with the club.
This is the message you got from him and to which you responded.

st3v3 wrote:
Hi,
Just moving your thread into the mods lounge to get the opinions of the other moderators, would you let me know what happened, also is this club listed in our clubs & parties section.
Steve
(admin)

NOT the same thing as the 'mods moving it' and another reason for you leaving here - what's the reason you gave at another site???
I'm sorry you had a difficult time at the club but the picture you are painting of how it's being dealt with here is just not true and can't be left undefended.
rolleyes

(yep -sarcastic rolling eyes from me)
cool

Thanks Jags :thumbup:
That makes far more sense and I'm glad you posted it for all to see

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