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2 Apr 2007

Quote by lincskate
Maybe the other site has a closer balance of single males and females

Horby blonde.... its not a swinging site of any sort whatsoever! Its just a music sharing system...... nothing in my or any of the ladies profiles i've met even hints at any sexy activities - thats the strange thing!
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I get what you're saying. But one of the things you have to remember on this site is for every single fem that puts an advert up some get 800+ replies. :shock:
I've never met anyone from the ads from here - I've always met people from chatting in the forum and going to social events.
And the first time I ever swung with a couple, itwas before I'd ever been on a swinging site and was with a couple I was introduced to by a friend.
There's different ways and means - you never know when or how wink

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If you're on a sit

2 Apr 2007

Maybe the other site has a closer balance of single males and females dunno

dunno

2 Apr 2007

Quote by ForestFunsters
On a lighter note, and a bit of a hijack - I wonder what would happen if a British tourist, short of a ciggie, went up to Grandpa Phelps and asked to "ponce a fag"??!!

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2 Apr 2007

There are more single guys on here so naturally the womens pics are viewed more.
I've just been and had a perv look at your pics so that should bump you up another notch lol

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2 Apr 2007

Quote by Abilene
I am not attracted to men who are shorter than me

I wouldn't know about that - I've never met a man shorter than me redface

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2 Apr 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
So - this is all sorted now then? And I don't need to start a word association thread?

smackbottom

Stop frightening me lol

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2 Apr 2007

Quote by Martin_M
Thanks for that
What has happened is when we asked one of the guys to build that site, he has not been factually correct when he wrote the text. This happens at times as I dont get a chance to see everything that is written. That site was built around the same time as doing the first of the surveys so he probably just mis understood the instructions.
Its only a text change, I will put it on the list

Thank you

kiss

2 Apr 2007

Quote by Martin_M
The other survey was conducted for the following reasons.
1. We were trying to establish a few basic trends for our community these included age, Sex, etc. Before this point we had very little at all to help us understand the needs of this community as it grows.
2. The data collected has genuinely been used to raise awareness of certain topics for our members including Sexual Health as well as give us an insight as to how Swinging Clubs and sites like this help the scene.
3. This DATA has never been used externally or sold in any way shape or form.
In the right circumstances we would make some of these results public domain. But that would only ever be for the good of the community if we are being mis represented or victimised etc. I am struggling to think of any major reason to do this but again "THEY HAVE NEVER BEEN USED".
I hope that clears things up a little :

Martin
Many thanks for coming in and posting kiss

kiss

I know that was very much the message given when the survey was introduced, But I'm now more confused than ever :confused:
The data's never been used externally, but there is a link on the heaven network for people to get the data.
Has it never been used because you don't intend for it to be used externally or
has it never been used externally because it's not ready yet dunno

dunno

We have recently collected results from over 8000 members in a British Sex Survey.
This information will be available within 2-4 weeks. If you would like to recieve the results of this survey, please register your details on the right.

2 Apr 2007

Yep I saw it and :shock: is a fair respresentation of my facial expression throughout the show.
I was increadibly disturbed by the activities the young children were exposed to - picketing a soldiers funeral with signs reading "Fag Army" and "God Hates Fags" is not my idea of a family outing.
The overall message seemed to be that hate rules and seeing teenagers smiling at the thought of people being killed and burning in hell shows they've been exposed to it for so long they're completely desensitised to it.

1 Apr 2007

Quote by Calista
Ok but the idea is your meeting that person for sex ... they aren't being totally honest but that doesn;t mean you don't think about and ask the question yourself.
You protect yourself by asking the question ...
People were tempted by the offer of £250 and never once questioned why the questions were being asked!
If Symbios have acted improperly then fair enough they need to be called to account but the risk of information being collated is no greater now than previously!
Cx

It's not the risk of the information being used that bothers me.
Like you said it's anonymous.
I just can't see why it can't be said upfront what the information is used for dunno

dunno

1 Apr 2007

Quote by Calista
the fact any questionnaires haven't identified this I do agree could be construed as out of order but you have to take responsibility for not asking the question when you filled the questionnaire in.
Or am I missing the point completely?

For me this is the point.
I'll give the old example of someone who's married and here without their partner's knowledge.
Some would like to play with that person, some wouldn't.
But if they're open and honest about it you can make an informed choice.

1 Apr 2007

Quote by Cherrytree
I also assume that the survey was to improve the site for the members.
But if it IS to be used for third parties, surely that fact should be stated. People would then be able to make an informed opinion as to whether to proceed or not.

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1 Apr 2007

Quote by dambuster

>> Added <<
This appears to be a question that a few of you would like an answer to, I'd be interested to know why its such a burning issue for you.

Trust and respect.
The cornerstones of humanity dunno

dunno

The subject of copyright isn't a burning issue to me. The apparentreluctance to answer, was.
If a question is asked that has (or more - appearsto have) a simple Yes or No answer, I become increasingly suspicious when it's answered in a vague, ambiguous or ambivalent manner.
It's a fault within human nature that we sometimes only see/hear/read what we want to, not necessarily what was actually there/said/written. The same can be said for what isn't said/heard/written. As is our ability to provide our own, often incorrect answers when those questioned aren't forthcoming with a reply.
The truth is sometimes irrelevant in people's minds. What can sometimes carry more weight than the truth is "what people believe to be the case"
You're in a strange town at 1am. You need a cab. In Yellow Pages are two almost identical adverts for cabs. Only one ad carries the tag line "No extra charge after midnight" - (but neither cab firms do charge extra) - Which one do you call ?
Did Bill Clinton have "sexual relations with that woman ?"
Is Dale Winton gay ?
Is money unable to buy happiness ?
I personally dislike "politicians answers" to questions. If 'your' answer is going to disappoint me, or anger me - so be it; I would still like the question answered. I just have to be "big enough" to accept it.
It doesn't matter to me whether you try to dress up the answer. A no is still a no. Be straight with people. In their eyes.
If you don't know - say so. Freely.
One problem that I think Admin/4T are going to be up against for a while longer yet is that sometimes- their attitude can come across as "Fuck you"
For example . . .

Quote by Kiss
I think my frustration was mainly down to the fact that SH pick and choose what they answer and when they answer it and a lot seems to be falling on deaf ears recently.

But then . . . . into perspective . . .

Quote by st3v3
There are some questions that require us to seek legal advice, as in the case of who actually owns forum posts, I don't know the answer as yet, but I do know that its not a simple case of you do/we do, so when I know the answer I'll post.

Quote by Juniper_couple
That statement in itself would have been good enough two weeks ago, as members, we can understand that not everything is known and advice needs to be sought.
It is just polite in my opinion to state that, rather than ignoring posters' questions.

I have to agree with Juniper_couple. (and not justbecause I'd like to shag Mrs J_c ) wink

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1 Apr 2007

I can't remember the messages that came up when the surveys did, but I can't recall any mention of the data being gather for 3 parties dunno

dunno

1 Apr 2007

Quote by dambuster
*GENUINE DISCLAIMER.
Please do not answer any more questions from me about your sexual, non-sexual, personal activities. It's always been my intention to have fun, bollox and banter here in the forums, and in person.
Having just read something on one of the site owners other sites, I fear your comments and contributions may be collated and passed on to third, unrelated parties. I may well be wrong and misunderstood the content and intent. I do hope so.

1 Apr 2007

Lilac hunnie
There's no need for you to go anywhere. kiss

kiss

I can't speak for anyone else but I like you and I have never ever heard a bad word said about you.
And if dammie and I were still doing a munch you'd be on the list - even if I had to drag you kicking & screaming to it lol

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Please don't go away :cry:

1 Apr 2007

Quote by flower411
When a room has 80 people in it and the majority of them are watching one cam. I think it`s fairly safe to assume that some of the watchers are, either not mentioned on the profile, or simply don`t exist in the way the profile suggests !!
It is impossible to know who is watching and how many people are viewing on a particular account.
With this in mind we all have to accept that if we switch on our cam we are exposing ourselves to being viewed by complete strangers AND their friends ! :shock:

Wise words flower.
I accept that you can never know who is watching, but what I find disturbing is that if I knew for a fact that non members were viewing me on cam I have no right to boot the user (who is allowing them to view me)out of the room confused

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1 Apr 2007

I think a 2 year old would appreciate chocolate.
I couldn't find any ducks but thorntons do these nice chocolate easter bunnies and you can have a personalised message put on them and get it delivered

1 Apr 2007

Quote by pobox557
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thanks.
reason i asked was i didnt want it to be hanging about when im 90 and i come back and still find the threads thats all.
How are you dirtydev...... you had a good night s sleep other day

Well you could go back through all your previous posts and edit the content, but I have a far simpler solution:
Don't come back and look when you're 90 biggrin

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31 Mar 2007

Quote by Reds87
ok darlin, lets not get immature about this.
*edit* and also, i notice it says your 97 years old on your profile.
: : :

I actually agree with him
Jags you are the most immature 97 year old I've ever met lol

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31 Mar 2007

Quote by sercher01
and the moral to Dammy's story is make sure your BBQ is shit :giggle:

smackbottom

He even let me cook on it once :shock:

31 Mar 2007

Quote by RedHot
You can have other people on your cam, providing they are aware of the rules and agree to stick to them.
You cannot use the cam in an internet cafe or at work, where people may be in the background and without their knowledge of being on your cam in a swingers web site :shock:
What you cannot have is someone else using the pc to type on your account, even if you are there with them on cam.
TJ

I'm glad I read this.
It's something I've not thought of before, but from what you're saying if I go on cam I'm not just showing myself to site members, but also their drunken vanilla mates they've come back from the pub with.
and I would have no right to boot the user out of a room in this situation even though they were letting non members view me on cam :shock:
Makes mental note to keep face out of cam.

31 Mar 2007

Quote by dambuster
nernernerner ner

At least I knew where is was flipa

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31 Mar 2007

Quote by calm550
Recently managed to post a reply in the forum twice.
Must have double clicked something or other.
If we do it again, how do we delete our posting ?
( Be nice , we're still newbie-ish in here )
Thanks in anticipation,
The very friendly, but often exasperated, Calmies x.

When you read your own post there should be a delete option next to the quote & edit buttons.
You have to be quick though because once someone posts after you in the thread you can't delete it wink

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31 Mar 2007

Quote by spanishtony
Ah! Bit of an old chestnut this one...no more stupid questions I swear!

On the contrary if people have asked it before, it's definitely not stupid, unless there are lots of stupid people here? lol

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If you've got the time, it's worth having a look through some of the links Jags posted as it will give you a wider range of views on the topic :thumbup:

31 Mar 2007

I would say it's a good move.
Although some people like cock pics, I think it's OK if you have a lot of different picturesand include a cock pics.
The thing I really don't like is when guys have nothing but cock pics :scared:

30 Mar 2007

Hadn't really answered this because TBH I orgasm quite easily.
I can orgasm through penetration alone, but if a guy's not quite getting me there I can just get on top of him and do it myself lol

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30 Mar 2007

Quote by mistress_sassy
Me too please, I am not new but I can pretend to be all shy and quiet and sweet if it helps? :giggle: :giggle:

:karaoke: "Look at me I'm Sandra Dee..." :karaoke:
Sorry Sassy it just doesn't fit the vision of you, unless you're planning to try out your sub side. :shock:
Now who's bitch are you gonna be? :giggle:
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30 Mar 2007

Quote by spanishtony
And remember Serendipity in the words of my Swiss namesake "making love to a beautiful woman is a lot like making a cup of coffee: it's got to be hot, you've got to take your time....you've got to grind your beans until they squeak!!!!"
Cheers All.

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Excellent answer lol

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I think you're gonna do just fine Tony - you've obviously got a good sense of humour :thumbup:
:welcome: to Swinging Heaven wink

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29 Mar 2007

I make a lot of casseroles as I do them in the slow cooker to make the meat really tender. Although it's a long cooking ttime, once it's in the pot you don't have to do anything.
One of my other favourites is Chicken breast topped with buffalo mozzarella and parma ham served with garlic mushrooms, steamed asparagus & herby roast potatoes