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HornyLittleBlonde
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
Straight Female, 66
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Quote by Mr-Powers
"Evening with Darkfire".....damn i thought this was one of those ITV specials where you get a load of c-list celebrities ask you questions and you tell a few jokes and maybe sing a couple of songs!
Ooh now that I would like to see.
Maybe I could be her assistant - like madge is to Dame Edna Everidge
Quote by dambuster
if the mnale in question was sexually mollested
Molested ! ! !
That's what I was.
I was molested by a molesting sex thief ! ! !
Thank fuck it's over ! ! ! !
Lep - ffs don't do the strike thing again.
For those guys in the steam room who seem to be getting a bit "brave".
I thought I'd give them a little reminder of what happens when you take on the girlies :giggle:
NWCQuote by Darkfire
how many cars do you have?
OMG I have a vision of a social "Dogging convoy" turning up in a Derbyshire car park :shock:
Well I would mind coming along and giving it a try, except I know nothing about dogging etiquette and like you, the only time I've ever been to a dogging spot was completely by accident :doh:
Add to what Darkfire's said, if you could get yourself to a munch it may help.
If the regular munch goers no you've been to one it would help build confidence - knowing that you're familiar with how they are actually run.
Just out of inerest how big is the venue?
I don't think it necessarily has to be a problem that you own it, but the questions Darkfire has asked will be asked by others :thumbup:
If the regular munch goers no you've been to one it would help build confidence - knowing that you're familiar with how they are actually run.
Just out of inerest how big is the venue?
I don't think it necessarily has to be a problem that you own it, but the questions Darkfire has asked will be asked by others :thumbup:
Quote by fabio
but if they are saying a glass of rew wine every so often is good for you... wouldn't it be like everthing else... everything in moderatation....
remember that they already have safety guidelines with are 14 units a week for women and 21 units for men....
and it tends to be more of a british binge drinking culture... rather than on the continent when families introduce alcohol to children at a younger age and tend to be more sensible with it
I'd agree with that. The drinking culture is very much british -although the States is very similar in there are a lot of alcoholics and a lot more spirit drinkers and they have an age limit of 21.
The lifestyle on the continent seems to be more successful. Teenagers are introduced to alcohol by having a glass of wine with a meal.
I've seen soft drink vending machines in spain and portugal in shopping malls & street that also dispense cans of beer and you don't see groups of teenagers drinking cans of beers and getting drunk.
Quote by well_busty_babe
right, i have been thinking, we should do something fun here.
and you all know me, i dont like to do things by halfs.
i have decided to do a competition, no idea what the prize will be yet but it will be something better than nothing lol.
i need some ideas for how it will work though, one of my ideas was to guess the amount of pubes on tonguey or something, to make sure it was fair i would count them myself and pluck each one out as it was counted to make sure it was only counted once!
any better ideas?????
Only problem with that is it will take you too long.
Maybe you could just wax them off and we can guess how loud he screams
Quote by earthchild
no i agree not purely for a sex meet
i have friends that come to stay for the weekend and we know its also going to be to play.
i arrange to go to socials with a friend, hotel sharing one reason is to play other is just to spend some time together
or knowing that friends are going to be at socials or munchs and either arranging something for afterwards or all just being in the same place and things happening
if that makes sense
Makes perfect sense :thumbup:
It's kinda what I was trying to say, but you did it much better
I don't think I could do it with a vanilla friend, but swinging friends yes.
I think sometimes it's less contrived (not sure if that's the right word).
What I mean is I don't think I'd arrange a "purely for sex meet".
I think with friends it's more we're in their company socially and it just develops
I think sometimes it's less contrived (not sure if that's the right word).
What I mean is I don't think I'd arrange a "purely for sex meet".
I think with friends it's more we're in their company socially and it just develops
Quote by blueandpink
Was it this one HLB?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/100461.html?highlight=dressing
pink x
Cough...did you say something or go silent on me?
Sorry Pink
I think the gremlins are playing around with my laptop :shock:
What I meant to say was
"Close but no cigar
Give you a clue. He was a mermaid at one point
Quote by jaymar
Is there anything you do like? :shock:
The last time I looked, the only thing I said I didn't like was post count bump threads with no interaction
Quote by jaymar
These are all just your vies HLB, no disrespect but there are plenty out here who enjoy the threads you have highlighted as not being 'your cup of tea'.
Yep
That's why I've mentioned the need for diversity of people and threads and that my I wouldn't want to see the forum overum with any one type of thread
And as you quite rightly stated it is my personal opinion and my thoughts. I don't expect everyone to agree with it. If we all thought exactly the same way, the forum would be very dull indeed
Quote by Miss_Kiss
Hi HLB,
I don't disagree with anything you have said. But in a nutshell I think that if there was perhaps a seperate area for the 'b*ll*cks' and the 'pointless' maybe, just maybe some people may feel able to take part in the more serious debates.
I'm not sure a separate forum is the best way to go. When there are very few users on line already, splitting the forums just reduces the diversity even more
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I'm not suggesting that 6 threads on cock size is going to benefit anyone but it's up to the site to organise things better IMHO.
Yep agreed.
I do think that repeating threads is sometimes good as new people can take a thread in a totally different direction.
But in cases such as "cock size" "chatroom not working" I think you have to put a link in to the last one, merge them together etc
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I also think that if the 'post counters' (and really WHO are they? I really haven't seen anyone get any real kudos from their post count!) are allowed a section to do their own merry thing, then those who are offended by it don't have to see it.
Oh they are. Only last week I was listening to a conversation between 3 people discussing how they'd posted "any old bollox" just because they wanted to get to the 1000 milestone.
And I think we all have to take a responsibility for people thinking that this is of some importance.
Quote by Miss_Kiss
I just think something is needed to bring in fresh blood, I just don't know what.
I agree, but I don't think it's anyone thing. But I don't think people posting 1 word posts actually achieves anything.
In order for people to get to know each other on here they have to interact.
I do see that some threads help people to join in, but I think it's how they join in that counts. e.g. Post count/game threads - not my thing, but I do think there are different types e.g.
Word Association/Clock Thread - no interaction, boring to read.
Desert Island Discs/Shoot, shag or marry - light hearted, but allow people to offer their personal preferences and a bit of interaction.
Now like I said I do have concerns about the forum being overrun with these, but of the two types I'd definately prefer the latter.
Quote by Miss_Kiss
So what if some people want to boost their post count? I think 99% of people agree it means f*ck all! What harm does it do?
I've been pretty outspoken on those types of threads in the past, but this is the only site I've done that.
Does is do any harm? Yes & No.
No if there are a mixture of funny/serious/pervy/flirty threads going on.
The problem is when the forum is slow like it is now. When the threads don't "take off".
It's all to easy to think "I want to boost my post count" and just post in that 1 thread.
People then reading the forums then think "Ah that threads really popular. It's on 12 pages - I'll start one of those".
Before you know it people are coming on the forums and that's what they see and think that's all the forum's about. They've got a post count of 1000 and never spoken to anyone.
OK I'm over exagerating the current situation, but people do try to "fit it" and so they join in with what they see in front of them.
Quote by Miss_Kiss
So what if a question has been asked before? Some people weren't here before. Don’t answer the thread!
Agreed, but to a point. If there are 6 "Cock size threads on page 1 then somethings wrong"
If there's a 20 page thread from a year ago then yes I think that warrants a new thread
Quote by jaymar
Of course it does, but you have to admit, as does everyone, newbies often get a raw deal (even after they've had initial welcomes) - some just simply haven't a clue what it's all about and will run like frightened rabbits, I know this because I nearly did that! But I can name a handful of members that encouraged me back then and I will always remember that.
Jaymar
Just to put things in to perspective it's not just newbies who feel like that.
Earthy has written that she sometimes feels like she's ignored and she's not a newbie.
Sometimes people just don't know what to say.
Sometimes I miss a post that somebody's written asking me a question because I've gone to make a cup of coffee/put some washing in.
Sometimes I'm perving the ads/looking at other sites
I have never ever purposely ignored anyone, but I'm sure somebody at some point may have thought I have - be that a newer member or someone who's been on the forum for years.
There is an element of difficulty getting to the point where you feel like you "belong", but that's just natural. If you start a new job you probably won't feel like you're everybody's best friend on day one- it takes time to build up a rapport with people and the forums mirror real life in that respect.
Quote by blueandpink
I did want to reply to various people's points but I still haven't worked out how to quote multiple times in a reply!
pink x
You'll get there. I'd never been on a forum before I used this site and it took me a while to learn some of the basics.
If someone had done something I couldn't do e.g. multi-quote, I'd press the quote button next to their post to see how they'd done it.
If you want a practice at it, do a post and press the preview button to see what it looks like.
At first I used to have to press the preview button 5-6 times before I got it right and sometimes I never submitted the post because I just wanted to practice trying to do stuff.
Give it a try :thumbup:
Quote by Ian
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My personal favourite is the M42 from Junction 6 down to Junction 3A. Birmingham NEC down to the start of the M40. Use it on a regular basis, often now limited to 50mph
Ian
That has got to be the most ridiculous "traffic management" system ever. What were they thinking.
The person who thought that one up should be shot!!
Quote by jaymar
I think the people moaning and mourning should post a good thread and get the forum up and laughing again! ?
I agree, but unfortunately it doesn't always workout that way.
Myself and dammie have started and been involved in some funny threads but ther reality is you still need a number of people to bounce off/join in for it to work.
Again, I don't wish that to apear disrespectful to any members on here - it's more of a number of people online thing that makes it difficult
For example - The Avatart Challenge Thread
There'd be a time when if this was bumped everyone would join in and it'd have people howling for weeks.
Now 1 user will post a new pic in it/bump it, they'll be a few posts full of "Ha ha that's really funny", then it just dies again.
Quote by flower411
I was going to venture a guess that the forum may not be as lively as before because of the popularity of the chatrooms. But I wasn`t sure that this was the case.
But now that you have put the whole thing into perspective I wonder whether this is the case... ( I had no idea that the forum had previously had so many people online at one time, nobody mentioned numbers before, or if they did I wasn`t paying attention !! ).
I don't think anyone has mentioned the numbers before, but it is something myself and dambuster have discussed many times and I'm sure a lot of other members who have been here a while longer notice.
One of the reasons I wanted to bring it up was I felt that other people's comments were being read in a way that wasn't intended and a few people were getting a bit upset.
You're right in the fact that the chatrooms are more popular now, but I also think that as it was mostly forum members who went and set up elsewhere when SH became a paysite, a higher % of the forum moved at one time than any other part of the site.
I think it's normal for a few people to leave and a few new people to join, but having such a large chunk of the forum users leave all at once changed the dynamics somewhat.
