Quote by kentswingers777
Actually Ian that is a bloody good idea.
I'd better have a rest..... apparantly that's the second good idea in less than a week
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Quote by SpurtsUKm
Not a bug as such.
You can at the moment whisper yourself which is obviously a bit pointless (unless its useful at the moment for testing purposes).
its a very good way of making a note of something that you want to come back to a little later.
Whether it me the username of somebody that
or even somebody that :fuckinghell:I use it quite often as it's quicker than start - programs - accessories - notepad.
Quote by Bert1
Sorry but:
Do not like the tab system in chat. cannot see normal chat when whispering and this will be frustrating as I am a slow typist .
Hi Bert
If you click on the settings button (the spanner in the top right of the chat screen you are given several options.
Show whispers ---> In separate tabs
---> Off
---> In main chat window
Make the change and you can be as slow as you wish
Quote by danne-gary
the same room is still there and therefore i cant open another room
What's stopping you from opening a second room? If it's the fact that there used a be a line in the chatroom rules stating that you can't open two rooms at the same time, may I respectfully suggest you have another look and see if you can still find it
Or is there some error message you are getting?
Regards
Ian
Quote by Gufuncouple
Tonight's forum quiz questions are:-
1 - Who is the member with the oldest (active) account you can find?
The difficulty I see is that you are only looking up "forum" accounts. When the site first opened you could, if you chose register on all three separate sections of the site. Adverts, forum and chatroom all had their own separate registration processes. It was possible for somebody to be registered on the chatroom for some time, before setting up an account on the forum. In fact it was common occurance to find two different people using the same user name in different sections of the site.
Or am I just showing my age
Quote by Dawnie
Hi Gang
Any chance of having the ability to lock rooms down so only certain types of member can enter?
couples only
cpls & single fems
single fems only
singles only (no cpls)
everyone
But I have a couples account yet seek fun on my own with single males?
As does Ian. He is on a couples account and one on his own but seeks fun with other couples and yet you haven't included that option?
I personally don't agree to segregated rooms, it just reeks of single males getting a rough deal
Can I juct clarify the "as does Ian"....
I'm not seeking any fun with single males, but wouldn't object to the odd single female with some spare time
Quote by HnS
Elliott,
great idea to identify Extras a/c's with a purple stripe
Not so great that there are now three alphabetical listings of chat users. I can imagine once the rooms become more heavily populated that people can't find the person they want to perv / whisper.
I can understand room hosts / admin / ops being at the top, so that people can get advice if required. (it's an albatross as you get accidentally whispered all the time
).But to then have to wade through extras members and then standard level members to find someone that you are looking for will be frustrating to say the least.
Being able to find somebody that you are looking for. - important to many people.
knowing that somebody has extras - nice to know (they might have 300 photos
) but important ? not in my book, sorry. Quote by Funlovers2009
Thanks St3ve, I knew the quickies were there, I just wondered what the point of the little green flag is if it doesnt add you to some sort of searchable meet today list??
the quickies St3v3 mentioned were quicky meets
'Quickies' allows members to advertise meetings within the next 72 hours.
not 'quick comments' posted as comments on peoples homepage
The quicky meets are searchable by date, distance and couple / single male / single female.
Only difficulty I foresee is to have two different meanings for the word Quicky on site
I list perv. Guilty as charged.
It's not too bad when the organiser puts the actual user name of the person / (s) in the list, but I've noticed that some organisers abbreviate their friend's nicknames or just put the person's first name assuming that everybody on site knows exactly who they are.
We dont !!!
And yes, the people going to a social / munch can be the deciding factor as to whether we go or not.
It's not too bad when the organiser puts the actual user name of the person / (s) in the list, but I've noticed that some organisers abbreviate their friend's nicknames or just put the person's first name assuming that everybody on site knows exactly who they are.
We dont !!!
And yes, the people going to a social / munch can be the deciding factor as to whether we go or not.
Quote by vampanya
We have two set in stone rules that are never broken.
1 always use condoms with anyone else other than each other
2 never play without the others permission and consent
There are other minor rules i guess but they might be rules for just that encounter and as long as we know or check beforehand alls fine. It just comes down to communication and not assuming anything.
what she said
Quote by Funlovers2009
I've tried and tried but I cant figure it out!!
<<<<< techy biff!!
Right click in the middle of the screen. You should then see a list of options. I see 11, with a couple of them greyed out. The very bottom of that list is "view page info".
Single click on this and a new window opens with four tabs. The right hand tab has a picture of a padlock and is called security.
Single click on the padlock
Privacy and history
Have I visited this page before today? No
Thats cos I clear everything from my browser each and every time I close down. No passwords, no history, no cookies.
reverse the comments..
'what guarantee will you give us of continuous service / transparancy of switchover.'
let them dig their own graves
That's not a negative statement, it's one probing for a quality of service. It would certainly make them think. It would also highlight the potential issues to the other users.
'what guarantee will you give us of continuous service / transparancy of switchover.'
let them dig their own graves
That's not a negative statement, it's one probing for a quality of service. It would certainly make them think. It would also highlight the potential issues to the other users.
seems to be working here.
never used it before lol
no females on line within 10 miles.
1 fem within 20 miles. When i went back to see if she was close there were then 2 online. Checked and actually 17 SH miles (around 40 miles if I drove it )
Changed to 100 miles and 2 pages of victims appear :twisted:
never used it before lol
no females on line within 10 miles.
1 fem within 20 miles. When i went back to see if she was close there were then 2 online. Checked and actually 17 SH miles (around 40 miles if I drove it
)Changed to 100 miles and 2 pages of victims appear :twisted:
Quote by Islandcpl1
Did I say I found them offensive? Ignorant is a different matter
Is ignorance ignoring a post made in a thread that is relevant and on topic?
I made such a post just yesterday, and seem to be the only person on the thread that hasn't been acknowledged. Everybody else, making random, off the cuff remarks seems to gain a response.
I heard on the radio today that it's national "broke it and fixed it before they noticed it" day where people are given an amnesty to confess their sins without fear of severe punishment.
Now if I opened this thread up to Dave Nott's he'd spend the next week replying
So Dave, give the others a chance first !
Only thing I can remember was as a child, I managed to fall into the bath taking the shower curtain and rail with me. The sellotape only lasted for a couple of hours but thankfully wasn't spotted and I was well out of the way when my parents heard a crash and remained puzzled to this day.
Now if I opened this thread up to Dave Nott's he'd spend the next week replying
So Dave, give the others a chance first !
Only thing I can remember was as a child, I managed to fall into the bath taking the shower curtain and rail with me. The sellotape only lasted for a couple of hours but thankfully wasn't spotted and I was well out of the way when my parents heard a crash and remained puzzled to this day.
Quote by Islandcpl1
For instance one couple wrote back to us saying that "there were far too many naked people at your party".
From memory, the first house party we were invited to was not long after we joined the site. Nervous and apprehensive we were reassured by the hosts that they ran an "upstairs / downstairs" policy at their parties, so that downstairs it would be like a normal gathering of friends, however if you chose to go upstairs, then it was a totally different kind of party altogether.
Knowing that we would be "safe", we went to the party vowing only to go upstairs if we felt truly brave. Imagine how we felt when we walked into the lounge to find three ladies putting on a full show for the rest of the guests.
In that instance, yes, I would have made similar comment.
Now, I'd pull up a chair, open a beer and watch the show.
Quote by meat2pleaseu
I was expecting a map or directions
:giggle::giggle::giggle:
Dave wouldn't know a map if it fell out of the sky
Now Ian, thats unfair
Many years ago there was a social, and the plan was to meet at a hotel nearby and everybody then travel in "convoy" to the venue.
Shortly before the arranged time, I took a phone call from Dave Nott's who was totally and utterly lost. Maybe Alex had the map that day
Anyway, I asked Dave to describe where he was so that we could try and work out how to find them.
Dave replied that he hadn't got a clue where he was, but he was next to a massive grey building.
I asked him to cross the road (there were no chickens around) and see if there was anything ontop of said building.
Dave duly crossed the road and said "bugger, there's a 'kin huge sign that says hotel".
Quote by tweeky
or the time I was at the home of an errant wife, whose husband had recently returned to work after a long illness. However he came home early, feeling ill, and caught us, his ticker went again and I had to go i the ambulance with him as the lady had to go and collect the kids from school.
This is funny
Well according to this page...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/swinging.html
Quote by some wise old sage
1. To move back and forth suspended or as if suspended from above.
2. Recreational sex between consenting adults.
Ah, now that is convenient, as it saves us a great deal of time of explaining what we feel swinging really is. Yes, you've guessed it, we're going with definition 2. Swinging isn't simply 'Wife Swapping', nor is it quite as simple as 'Recreational sex between consenting adults' - even though we prefer the latter definition. No, it's more a state of mind. It's about being honest, open-minded, and expressing yourself freely. It's about enjoying sex with other people while not endangering pre-existing relationships.
it isn't swinging
:worship::worship::worship:Dave I thought you had learnt from my mistake.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/289467.html
There are no such things as brownie points. If you are going to get the evil death stare from the mother ship for trying to do good, you might as well put your feet up, watch telly and prepare a beer bottle or two for re-cycling.
You'll still be in the same amount of trouble, only you'll have enjoyed your time getting there.
Quote by Funlovers2009
How very defensive!!
Not defensive..... factual.
Quote by Funlovers2009
Oh and thanks for the link but where do you think I found out that there were 16 ops?? :thumbup:
Quote by Funlovers2009
Now apparently there are 16 chatroom ops on this site.
As you chose to include the word "apparently" you either didn't believe the number yourself, or wanted to spread dis-information which is one thing we are keen to minimise.
Hence my factual, non defensive responses.
Quote by kentswingers777
A member may well find it confusing.
Only if they want to find it confusing...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/77904.html
Quote by somebody
The active Chatroom Ops are:
Bambi
Bear69
big_smurf
Dawnie (also a Forum Moderator)
Dirtygirly
easy (also a Forum Moderator)
Ian
kemen
Meeko
Optix
Shi
Tillie
Tinker_bell
Toru
Varken
woohoo
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/301782.html
Quote by somebody else
The Moderator team includes:
Anais
Cubes
Dave__Notts
Dawnie
easy
Mal
Noladreams
NaughtyWiganCouple
Poshkate
Sarah
Sgt Bilko
Quote by Funlovers2009
Now apparently there are 16 chatroom ops on this site and I see 6 or 7 of then on a regular basis and a couple very rarely.
You are correct. There are 16 chatroom ops. The list can be found here
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/77904.html
I've just checked and 13 of the 16 have been online today. :thumbup:
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
It all boils down to personal choice, but I do think a way of identifying people who go bareback would be an excellent move for the site.
I would also add my weight behind this suggestion. But then others would say that married / single labels should be enforced, or what about the bisexual members who keep becoming straight when it suits them. How many people have I thought 'hubba hubba' only to find out they are 2000 years old....
Trying to label members is an impossible task, so maybe it's just down to using the notes system on people's profiles if you catch something about them that you dislike?