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JustWantFun
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 52
Straight Female, 47
0 miles · Greater Manchester

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Quote by noladreams
Mr JWF sounds bloody marvellous!
I like a bit of blatant looking. It's always fun. Mind you, a spot of stealthy crotch watching can be equally fun :rascal:

Yeah, he's pretty good most of the time wink
I like to think that I return the favour though - if he's not spotted a female who I think that he'd find attractive I give him a quick nudge.
I never thought about the stealthy crotch watching quite like that before, but now I do give it consideration I see your point! It can be a lot of fun lol
If I see a good looking guy I will always have a bit of a moment and check him out. I rarely have any proper filthy thoughts about strangers though... although it has happened on occasion. I usually have to know the person a bit to have any naughty thoughts about them.
I think where strangers are concerned, it's more about just how attractive they are rather than the mood I'm in though to be honest. A really good looking guy will lift me out of any bad / distracted mood and catch my interest.
Mr JWF is very good at doing this discreetly if he sees an attractive female, I know he's doing it but to the untrained eye it's almost impossible to spot. I'm quite obvious about it, but as long as no-one is offended (ie he's not with a girlfriend or wife) I don't care to be frank... and it can be quite funny when the guy in question notices me looking, they always look a bit surprised / confused / worried at such blatant behaviour - especially if I'm with Mr JWF. Who I must stress encourages me to have a look - he's very supportive like that lol
Quote by Robert400andKay
Just now in the chatrooms:
50 shades of grey sub wives or just interested (7)
cp.
BDSM pleasures (2)
rotflmao

Just a suggestion as a bit of back lash you could open a chat room 'Doms who hand out Audi R8's, or just interested'.
I have only read as far as the bit where Mr Grey has noted the superb VW beetle being driven by the fem, and I am guessing where the story is likely to go next, in case I get that wrong.
It's an Audi A3 that he gives her lol
Depends what you call recently... we were there in November last year and it was virtually empty. I guess it was out of season though.
I think that this is the link to that episode of Horizon - if I have the correct programme that is.
Quote by noladreams
Wow - well done you!
I'm tempted to give up alcohol. I have been for a while. But I like it too much. I think what I'm going to give up is getting drunk. The reason I contemplate giving it up is because I don't like the after effects.
Hangovers really aren't fun anymore. :sad:

This I agree with completely - I used to be able to drink as much as I wanted and be fine the next morning... maybe a bit tired owing to the fact that I passed out and came round rather than going to sleep and waking up lol
Not anymore though, now when I get drunk I do feel a little bit "off" the morning after, so it's time to slow down.
I too want to give up getting drunk and I keep trying to limit my drinking to getting tipsy rather than drunk, the problem is, by the time I'm tipsy I forget to stop drinking and then I end up drunk :sad:
The best solution for me is to alternate alcohol then soft drink etc. This enables me to moderate my alcohol consumption and therefore just get nicely relaxed and warm and fuzzy.
We started swinging a long time ago, a year or so into our relationship. We did it primarily to enable me to explore my fantasy of multiple men. Mr JWF was keen to facilitate this and so we embarked upon our swinging hobby.
Since then, we've done lots of different things, clubs, organised gangbangs - although we prefer groups we have met with the odd single guy alone if we enjoy his company as well him being as sexually compatible with what we want. Nothing judgemental meant in that at all, we all have personal preferences.
The amount of time that we spend playing is in part controlled by more practical things such as work committments (which for us can fluctuate) and personal factors - sometimes one or other (or, rarely both of us) is just not in the mood for it.
On the whole I would say that swinging has brought us closer in many ways - shared secrets as well as the "doing things for each other" side of it that is a factor for us.
We didn't start to bring us closer together, that was just a happy consequence. We didn't start because we needed to fix something - we were fine as we were. We started from curiosity and continued cos we like it.
Personally speaking, I believe that life is short and precious and we should enjoy it as much as we can.
Yeah, you're pretty much on the right lines there with the extra layer of knowledge - worded it better than I could myself lol
I know how it feels when he does the things that he does and I know that it feels good, so watching him doing it to someone else is kind of a thrill - voyeurism with a vested interest I suppose.
Of course as you said, other people will have other reasons / motivations.
In fact I thought of something else after I'd posted.... Mr JWF also enjoys seeing me be a bit naughty (sometimes filthy) - I think it's kind of like porn but with his missus as the star :twisted:
We usually play with single guys - Mr JWF likes to see me have fun and enjoy myself, he loves to give that pleasure to me (I'm a lucky woman!).
On the very rare occasion that we've met either a couple with a female who he's interested in or the even more rare (though it has happened) occasion when we've got together with a single female and he's played with her, the thing that I enjoy is seeing the pleasure that he can give to her. This might sound odd, but it makes me feel really proud of him....
Also, I know that he enjoys giving pleasure, so I like to see him give pleasure to other women - I guess we both get off on that.
There is definitely something liberating about "allowing" him to enjoy himself with another woman as well - that's also a turn on for me.
I also love to see him turned on - when I'm watching that it's more of a turn on to see it than be a part of it... cos I know that I'll be the lucky recipient of the result later on
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We're free at the last minute - is there any chance we can be squeezed onto the list? Very cheeky question I know - sorry! redface
We're planning on going to the Greedy Girls night tomorrow at Heaven on Earth Blackburn. I'm looking for as many guys as possible to come along and join in the fun & play.
Let us know if you can make it so we have an idea of numbers.
Jo xx
Quote by Big_Fraser
My afternoon meet almost falling flat on its arse, only to recover with seconds to spare and turn into a great couple of hours!! :bounce:
Im now weak at the knees and well and truly drained!
I know there is a good chance the little forum voyeur will be reading this so:
kiss
Thanks sexy (and sexy's fella too) Cya again I hope! :rascal:

This post made me smile today wink
Quote by meat2pleaseu
Never post anything online you don't want the world to know :thumbup:

I agree with this - I guess I'm comfortable enough with the pics & indeed being on a swingers' site not to care that much. Otherwise I'd remove / make private the pics.
We don't use our real names on here at all but there are photos of me that come up when I put in a search with our profile name.
To be honest, I'd really rather that didn't happen, however I work on the principle that a person would have to know our profile name (or randomly guess it) and combine it with the site name in the same search, so it's highly unlikely that anyone would put all those criteria in together as a search and then find the link to us on here and then think "hey that's my cousin / colleague / daughter"..... I hope!
Hi
If it's not too late we'd love to come.
Could you add us to the list please?
Thanks xx