Pete and I also have the odd quickie early in the morning, between the alarm going off and getting up for work
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Lissa
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 61
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Quote by Phoenix
Of course it's not a level playing field, but then neither is life
Some guys will always be more attractive because of their cock size/ personality/ age/ colour/ location/ build, or any one of a hundred things that people find important.
Every guy has a cock. To stand a chance you need more than just that!
A Harley maybe
WASH YOUR MOUTH OUT WITH SOAP :shock:
You used the 'H' word!
:D :D :D :D :D
Of course it's not a level playing field, but then neither is life
Some guys will always be more attractive because of their cock size/ personality/ age/ colour/ location/ build, or any one of a hundred things that people find important.
Every guy has a cock. To stand a chance you need more than just that!
Some guys will always be more attractive because of their cock size/ personality/ age/ colour/ location/ build, or any one of a hundred things that people find important.
Every guy has a cock. To stand a chance you need more than just that!
Years and years and years ago, when I was first getting into bikes, I wanted to do a MAG rally from Newton Abbott to Exeter but knew my parents wouldn't allow it. I told them that I was going off to Donnington to watch some bike racing..................I even phoned them after we'd been on the road for a couple of hours to tell them that I'd arrived safely and was having a good time. My friends were revving their bikes up outside the phone box in an attempt to provide 'bike-racing-type' background sounds 
Got to Newton Abbott, rally set off for Exeter, all of us minus our crash helmets (yeah, I know, I was young and stupid!) had a great time, got home around 9pm. Mum toddled off into the kitchen to make me a cuppa. The news was on the telly, and on came a report about the MAG rally. Who was spotted, clear as day, big grin from ear-to-ear? :shock:
ops: :oops: :oops:
My Dad just looked at me, shook his head, and said 'You little bugger'. Then he switched channels before my Mum came back into the room.
The bastard held that one over my head for years!!!!!!
Got to Newton Abbott, rally set off for Exeter, all of us minus our crash helmets (yeah, I know, I was young and stupid!) had a great time, got home around 9pm. Mum toddled off into the kitchen to make me a cuppa. The news was on the telly, and on came a report about the MAG rally. Who was spotted, clear as day, big grin from ear-to-ear? :shock:
ops: :oops: :oops: My Dad just looked at me, shook his head, and said 'You little bugger'. Then he switched channels before my Mum came back into the room.
The bastard held that one over my head for years!!!!!!
Yes, size matters. I really don't like huge cocks, I'd run a mile from 9-10 inches. :shock:
Six inches with a nice girth..........................perfect!
As for knowing you're straight if you've never had a sexual experience with the opposite sex...sorry, but I don't need to try to know I'm not Bi!
Six inches with a nice girth..........................perfect!
As for knowing you're straight if you've never had a sexual experience with the opposite sex...sorry, but I don't need to try to know I'm not Bi!
Pete and I are off to Devon for a long weekend this morning, and won't be back until Monday night.
Could I please ask you all to keep your posting down to a minimum, otherwise I'm going to have to take Tuesday off work to catch up with it all. :shock:
Thank you very much (in my best Elvis voice)
:D :D :D :D
Could I please ask you all to keep your posting down to a minimum, otherwise I'm going to have to take Tuesday off work to catch up with it all. :shock:
Thank you very much (in my best Elvis voice)
:D :D :D :D You say it was a fallout over 'nothing', but sometimes things that seem very trivial to others can be extremely hurtful and seem very important to others. Your friends partner may have been very deeply distressed by what happened.
Having said that, using the child as a weapon is NOT the answer. The child has done nothing wrong, and is suffering the loss of the grandparents through no fault of it's own. I can understand your friends anger over this, but leaving really should be the last resort. Not only will that make fighting his corner far more difficult, but ALL of the children will suffer the loss of their Dad.
My suggestion would be to try to work things out calmly with his partner. To sit down and talk about why she was so upset, why she is denying the child it's grandparents, and what she thinks needs to be done to make things right again. You said everything was perfect before this upset, so surely perfection is worth fighting for?
Having said that, using the child as a weapon is NOT the answer. The child has done nothing wrong, and is suffering the loss of the grandparents through no fault of it's own. I can understand your friends anger over this, but leaving really should be the last resort. Not only will that make fighting his corner far more difficult, but ALL of the children will suffer the loss of their Dad.
My suggestion would be to try to work things out calmly with his partner. To sit down and talk about why she was so upset, why she is denying the child it's grandparents, and what she thinks needs to be done to make things right again. You said everything was perfect before this upset, so surely perfection is worth fighting for?
Well, I went into work today armed with a plan, and with Pete's last words to me as I got out of the car ringing in my ears...........'Don't lose your temper'
The factory manager was waiting for me and asked me to step into his office. Steve was already in there, and my first thought was that he had beaten me to the punch, but that wasn't the case. The two lads who had witnessed the argument had both gone to the manager on arrival that morning and told him about it. He had been off yesterday.
He asked if the version of events he had been given was true, and they were.
He then told Steve that he had checked the units I had rejected and I was 100% right to do so. That if we expected our client to pay almost £1000 each for them then the least they could expect is that they were perfect. He also pointed out that Steve wouldn't be aware of this but we were on the verge of losing the client concerned before I took over sole responsibility for finishing these units. I was meticulous in my work and if I decided something wasn't right, no if's, but's or maybe's, it was to be redone.
He then said that the allegation that I had a problem with the Polish lads was unfair and untrue. I think his exact words were, 'She isn't racist, she hates everybody equally' :D That did lighten the tone a little, and Steve admitted that he had been out of line to say that, and apologised.
So for the moment everything seems to have been sorted out. Steve has spent the day working with the Polish lads showing them what was wrong with their work and why it must exactly match the technical drawings, and I didn't have to knee-cap anyone :twisted:
I would seriously like to thank all of you for your helpful suggestions and support. I just didn't know what to do or which way to turn yesterday, and your advice helped me to get things straight in my head. Big
to you all.
The factory manager was waiting for me and asked me to step into his office. Steve was already in there, and my first thought was that he had beaten me to the punch, but that wasn't the case. The two lads who had witnessed the argument had both gone to the manager on arrival that morning and told him about it. He had been off yesterday.
He asked if the version of events he had been given was true, and they were.
He then told Steve that he had checked the units I had rejected and I was 100% right to do so. That if we expected our client to pay almost £1000 each for them then the least they could expect is that they were perfect. He also pointed out that Steve wouldn't be aware of this but we were on the verge of losing the client concerned before I took over sole responsibility for finishing these units. I was meticulous in my work and if I decided something wasn't right, no if's, but's or maybe's, it was to be redone.
He then said that the allegation that I had a problem with the Polish lads was unfair and untrue. I think his exact words were, 'She isn't racist, she hates everybody equally' :D That did lighten the tone a little, and Steve admitted that he had been out of line to say that, and apologised.
So for the moment everything seems to have been sorted out. Steve has spent the day working with the Polish lads showing them what was wrong with their work and why it must exactly match the technical drawings, and I didn't have to knee-cap anyone :twisted:
I would seriously like to thank all of you for your helpful suggestions and support. I just didn't know what to do or which way to turn yesterday, and your advice helped me to get things straight in my head. Big
to you all. 
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: Thank you all so much for your help and advice, it is truly appreciated. I am feeling much calmer about it this morning, and the suggestions you have made are all good ones, and give me a plan of attack.....so to speak
The conversation was overheard by two other lads who work there, who will be more than willing to confirm my version of events, should that be needed. Hopefully though, the situation will be resolved without that being necessary.
I will let you know this evening how it went.
And Missy.....................I'll be carrying out your suggestion regardless of everything else
Thank you once again....................you are a wonderful lot
The conversation was overheard by two other lads who work there, who will be more than willing to confirm my version of events, should that be needed. Hopefully though, the situation will be resolved without that being necessary.
I will let you know this evening how it went.
And Missy.....................I'll be carrying out your suggestion regardless of everything else
Thank you once again....................you are a wonderful lot
I'm still so angry about this that I'm having to try really hard to post calmly.
We have, over recent months, had several Eastern Europeans come to work in the factory. 3 of these are Polish lads, only one of whom speaks English well. Because he has been employed longer than the others he has been put in charge of training them, even though he is fairly new himself and not anywhere near experienced enough. And this is where the problem starts. My job involves taking the basic unit they turn out and transforming it into the finished product. Unfortunately, I have had to reject a fair bit of their work recently because it just isn't up to standard.
Today I rejected a whole batch. The measurements were wrong, each unit was different to the others even though they are supposed to be the same...they were just crap. I called the foreman over to tell him they would have to be re-done. The following is the exact conversation I had with the foreman.
Me....Steve, these are no good, they'll have to be done again.
Steve...What's wrong with them?
Me...The partitions are on the piss, some are too wide.
Steve...Can't you work round the problem.
Me....No. The measurements are precise, the kits won't fit.
Steve...They don't look too bad to me.
Me...They're crap. I'm not prepared to work round the balls up and send them out with my name on them when I know they aren't right. They're shoddy and badly made.
Steve...According to you everything those lads do is shoddy and badly made. I think you just have a problem with the Polish.
I was absolutely gob-smacked at what he'd said. I replied, 'Steve, I don't care if they come from Poland, Venus, Mars or Ur-fucking-anus.....their work is crap and I will not accept it.'
At which he scuttled off and hid in the office for the rest of the afternoon.
My dilemma is, what do I do now? I think his accusation was totally unfair and certainly not true. It may even have been defamatory. Do I make a formal complaint about it, or just let the matter drop and see what happens?
We have, over recent months, had several Eastern Europeans come to work in the factory. 3 of these are Polish lads, only one of whom speaks English well. Because he has been employed longer than the others he has been put in charge of training them, even though he is fairly new himself and not anywhere near experienced enough. And this is where the problem starts. My job involves taking the basic unit they turn out and transforming it into the finished product. Unfortunately, I have had to reject a fair bit of their work recently because it just isn't up to standard.
Today I rejected a whole batch. The measurements were wrong, each unit was different to the others even though they are supposed to be the same...they were just crap. I called the foreman over to tell him they would have to be re-done. The following is the exact conversation I had with the foreman.
Me....Steve, these are no good, they'll have to be done again.
Steve...What's wrong with them?
Me...The partitions are on the piss, some are too wide.
Steve...Can't you work round the problem.
Me....No. The measurements are precise, the kits won't fit.
Steve...They don't look too bad to me.
Me...They're crap. I'm not prepared to work round the balls up and send them out with my name on them when I know they aren't right. They're shoddy and badly made.
Steve...According to you everything those lads do is shoddy and badly made. I think you just have a problem with the Polish.
I was absolutely gob-smacked at what he'd said. I replied, 'Steve, I don't care if they come from Poland, Venus, Mars or Ur-fucking-anus.....their work is crap and I will not accept it.'
At which he scuttled off and hid in the office for the rest of the afternoon.
My dilemma is, what do I do now? I think his accusation was totally unfair and certainly not true. It may even have been defamatory. Do I make a formal complaint about it, or just let the matter drop and see what happens?
I don't think my moods are affected by the seasons.........................I'm a bitch ALL the time
Seriously, though, I've had a few months out for personal reasons, and since my return I have noticed a slight difference. I don't remember people being so quick to jump on others just because they don't agree with something they do or say, but maybe that's just me looking back with rose-tinted spectacles. After all, with so many people using a site, you are always going to get differences of opinion. I don't think it's a seasonal thing, I think it's just normal human nature.
Seriously, though, I've had a few months out for personal reasons, and since my return I have noticed a slight difference. I don't remember people being so quick to jump on others just because they don't agree with something they do or say, but maybe that's just me looking back with rose-tinted spectacles. After all, with so many people using a site, you are always going to get differences of opinion. I don't think it's a seasonal thing, I think it's just normal human nature.
I've thought really long and hard before replying to this.
Pete and I are a fairly strange 'swinging' couple, in that only I play. He is strictly a voyeur. He gets enjoyment from watching or hearing about the things I do. If it ever got to the stage where he no longer enjoys it, I would stop, immediately. No question. I enjoy the sex with other guys, but a large part of that is knowing how much he's getting out of it too.
If I had to go back to a monogamous relationship with him it wouldn't bother me. After all, he's the one who really lights my fire and makes my bells ring, and nothing could ever beat the completeness of our love-making.
Pete and I are a fairly strange 'swinging' couple, in that only I play. He is strictly a voyeur. He gets enjoyment from watching or hearing about the things I do. If it ever got to the stage where he no longer enjoys it, I would stop, immediately. No question. I enjoy the sex with other guys, but a large part of that is knowing how much he's getting out of it too.
If I had to go back to a monogamous relationship with him it wouldn't bother me. After all, he's the one who really lights my fire and makes my bells ring, and nothing could ever beat the completeness of our love-making.
Difficult subject.
Children should have rights, but should those rights mean that they can act however they choose without fear of the consequences? I personally don't think so. There has to be a limit. Why should someone who has worked hard to have a nice home and garden, or a thriving business, not be able to protect them using reasonable means.... without fear of reprisal.... if a bunch of young thugs decides to destroy them?
Children should have rights, but should those rights mean that they can act however they choose without fear of the consequences? I personally don't think so. There has to be a limit. Why should someone who has worked hard to have a nice home and garden, or a thriving business, not be able to protect them using reasonable means.... without fear of reprisal.... if a bunch of young thugs decides to destroy them?
Quote by Calista
What part of the dictionary translates the wrd Swinger into Cheater?
Considering this is a swingers site then if that were the case the admin should make it so that singlies cannot join. Woulld make threesomes a bit difficult!!!
Don't see what that has to do with it :dunno: Swinging is a lifestyle not a quick fix!
Quote by Jennywren_1
I do appreciate what you are saying but the majority of swingers do have their morals intact and don't like be associated or tarnished as cheaters.
Just because i am a single member does not mean that i dont have my morals intact. if i had no morals i would be down the pub pulling the first bloke to buy me a half pint of lager.
Semantics ... instead you logged onto the web and are looking for a quick shag!
Unbelievable!
You don't know this lady but you are all jumping in with your morality sticks to give her a beating.
Very nice.
Quote by Northbicester
Whilst receiving one of my regular(almost nightly) stop and searches I was lectured on the polices view on the disgusting passtime of dogging. Although the act of dogging is not illegal most things attatched to it are. Myself and another dogger were informed that if anything illegal was going on in a dogging site including drug dealing then all people in the location will be arrested on suspicion. I know for most people on this site this isn't news but for the newbies out there try and be discrete. the site is monitored as are most other dogging sites. like the police told us, careless people do most of their work for them.
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Many moons ago, my other half and I arrived at our usual Dogging location and parked up in our usual spot. There were quite a few cars there, as I had posted that I would be out that night. Most of the guys were out of their cars chatting to each other, as a regular bunch would turn up and most of them knew each other. I was just finishing my coffee ready to start having fun when a police car pulled into the car park and parked up. One of the coppers got out and walked over to our car, signalling for me to wind the window down. I did so, and he asked 'What are you doing here?' I waved my polystyrene cup at him and replied 'Drinking coffee' To which he replied, 'Ok, as long as you aren't having any problems'
He then went over to one of the groups of guys chatting and asked them,'So when does the show start, lads?' to which one replied 'As soon as you've gone' He then said, 'Ok, I'll leave you to it, then', returned to the car, and off they went. They didn't come back again either.
I guess some coppers are human beings too
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