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LordZenx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
Bisexual Female, 55
0 miles · Nottinghamshire

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Veejay – In response to your extreme example, would the majority of society know the action was wrong if it was accepted by the majority. An example would be eating meat, I know its not as extreme as your example, but with a large majority of the population finding this acceptable isn't it to them 'right' ?
Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, are these not just individual beliefs that when agreed upon by the majority, become societies norms ?
How can you categorise for everyone what is 'right' ?
Men offer to buy ladies a drink / chips / hotdog (Insert food type) to be told lady does not want any.
Ladies than ask for swig of drink / a few chips / bite of hotdog as they would now like a bit. mad
We would be happy to buy you a whole one, and you throw it away rather than nicking ours, thankyou.
My thanks goes to Ben Elton who did a very funny piece on this back in the 80's (Anyone remember them, the 80's that is lol)
To be honest I can't remember (Must have been an interesting day) biggrin
Having just read the whole thread, heres my two pence worth wink
Should we tell people about our life style choices ? I don't tell people about my other hobbies and interests unless they are interested and ask me about them, and then only if they ask in a open way, not 'Are you a freak then ?” Discussing swinging with swingers is like discussing football with other fans, there's not much point unless all are interested in the subject matter.
I also have a concern about discussing swinging with non like minded people due to the basic bigotry of humanity. As society clamps down on racism, sexism, ageism, there will always be a need for the animal part of humanity to have an enemy, be that the strange looking man down the end of the street or those with 'weird' sexual activities, just look what happened to the head of Beoing.
I understand those that want to stand out and be proud, but its always those that raise their heads above the parapet that get them shot off first, and to be honest I would rather it be a collection of people who actively search out those of a similar interest than all and sundry giving it a try.