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Sex God
Can you just give up? What about if you decided to and then a bit down the road you though "Really fancy doing someone else" Do you just then say "Nope, said we given up so we bloody well stick to it" or say " Bollox to it, put an ad up"
As a couple i'm not sure we could give up now unless there was a ulterior reason other than age. OK so it might take some getting used to that things are going south and, maybe, the "type" of people you may of swung with in the past aren't there as much but hey there are always sexy people out there that defy the shallowness of just having the looks and are sexy because theres just something about them that is.
Things ebb and flo but don't need to stop so why would you want to tie yourself to a definite end time.
As a couple i'm not sure we could give up now unless there was a ulterior reason other than age. OK so it might take some getting used to that things are going south and, maybe, the "type" of people you may of swung with in the past aren't there as much but hey there are always sexy people out there that defy the shallowness of just having the looks and are sexy because theres just something about them that is.
Things ebb and flo but don't need to stop so why would you want to tie yourself to a definite end time.
Sex God
Quote by Paul80
Thank you tweeky
We are still working it out, Rachel is in a low mood because of what happened and has lost time off work and knows she did wrong and feels very guilty about 'that' night. She lost the plot 'that' night because a man who simply over powered her, he took advantage of the situation, long story really but one she is writing about, so hopefully in the near future you can all read about it.
We would consider ourselves as experienced players so let me say to all you people, take care you are never sure of the out come and don't take it lightly.
Paul
Hard times for you both Paul let me add to Tweeky by saying we're sorry that happened too. Sincerely hope you both come through t Ok and maybe, if you've not already thought about it, take some counselling together. You might think it strange to open up to someone about how you go about your private lives but it can seriously help you both out, especially as it sounds that you both are, as your suffering. You can get over this sort of thing and put it behind you and move forward, The more proactive you both are in finding help and ways of conciliation, understanding and forgiveness the better. the very best of luck to you both.
Sex God
Quote by foxylady2209
The worst bullies were the teachers in the school - as they silently colluded with the bully-kids by not stopping the assaults. The only 'problem' they could see, or were interested in, was the one that made their lives complicated - my son crying and flying into rages after yet another physical/verbal assualt.
OMG that is so so true! been living it for the last couple of years with the net result for my children is that its not a matter of education at school, just survival. And that's not an exaggeration.
Sex God
Was a good turnout on a nippy Sat evening and the coffee..Yeah OK it was three quid for a large but worth it Just to get to see some friendly familiar faces ans also some new ones too, good show on ya's guys! Those we knew who couldn't make it were missed but hey next time yeah.
Glad your meet went well Tweeky and though you were missed the choice was a no brainer
A good job too that your thinking about hosting again this year. We'll hopefully be on the social scene once again, thank god, and will sign up for a Bris munch/social whatever if after redundancy coming this June (bloody local gov't grrrr)work is found. Will be checking LMU keenly.
Glad your meet went well Tweeky and though you were missed the choice was a no brainer
A good job too that your thinking about hosting again this year. We'll hopefully be on the social scene once again, thank god, and will sign up for a Bris munch/social whatever if after redundancy coming this June (bloody local gov't grrrr)work is found. Will be checking LMU keenly. Sex God
Quote by wild rose and the stagYou Mids people don't do so bad for socials lol and as it would be said out there in the sticks "Yam we wood av a gow thouw miyte".
people that can afford coffee at services prices , (must be wealthy southerners, would never get enough in the mids for a meet like this)
As for rich Southerners
We all sit around with one large latte and 6 straws to a mug. I've been to Brummidgum and I've seen them using Mello birds coffee so maybe not quite your columbian dark roast and ground before your eyes up your arse type coffee that you get darn sarf but nice to see the effort the lower rent lots are putting in
Now its time to .....:bolt:
Sex God
Quote by iamagreedygirl
Saturday 19th xxxxxxxxxx 8pm onwards xxxxxxxxx.
Come along and meet for coffee tea etc and chat, All welcome
Mods Edit - please do not put exact locations on the open forum, and keep for private messages only, or you could end up with some unwanted visitors.
Such as who? Its an open social coffee evening nothing else everyone is welcome and why does it warrant an edit?
Sex God
Nah Starlight I think your OK, what some seem to be alluding to is the idea of taking the kids back into the Dickensian are of shoving them up chimneys and having them in cloth caps and rags in front of Lyons tea houses buffing shoes for a "ha'penny please sir". Typically taking the idea to the unfounded extreme. It's more the idea is that the school week should be what it says...a school week.
Most of us realise that teachers do a lot of work, unseen and unappreciated behind the scenes and out of the public eye, which go unrecognised by many not involved in the industry. What is being suggested is that teachers should be fairly treated and work to the same parameters that others do within the workplace. Such as having the same set working hours and holidays etc. This way the teachers needn't do unpaid and unseen work out of hours they can leave work at work. This would also provide an easier and more constructive system for working parents too manage childcare provision in a more sensible way.
Most of us realise that teachers do a lot of work, unseen and unappreciated behind the scenes and out of the public eye, which go unrecognised by many not involved in the industry. What is being suggested is that teachers should be fairly treated and work to the same parameters that others do within the workplace. Such as having the same set working hours and holidays etc. This way the teachers needn't do unpaid and unseen work out of hours they can leave work at work. This would also provide an easier and more constructive system for working parents too manage childcare provision in a more sensible way.
Sex God
Quote by foxylady2209
Kids have far more energy than adults so I've never subscribed to the idea that they 'need' a shorter day than us. Get the school to take them from (start of my day) and let them out at 4 (end of my day - just as an example) and give them the same lunch time - 45 minutes. That will give ample time for plenty of teaching and other activities and prepare them for the real world. Provide sufficient staff to allow all staff to have one of two periods each day for 'preparation' and that should be everyone satisfied.
Damn good idea :thumbup: Get the teachers on a level playing field with other professionals. 37 hour week 4 - 6 weeks holidays and no doing this out of school preperation stuff, do it in the student free periods. I think that would be fair on teachers as then they wouldn't have to do all that extra hours work that other professionals aren't expected to do.
Sex God
Quote by wild rose and the stag
can a mod please advise me.. what control as a group admin do you have over who you allow to stay in a group.. can you evict on gender , sexuality, relationship status .. just wish to be clear im not in breach of any rule before the boots go on
LoL No need for that Wrats I'll get my coat
Sex God
Quote by paulxkaren
20+ cups of coffee - Respect Minx, it is lovely isn't itI think rather than your bladder getting smaller i expect its more of a case of the plumbing connected gets older and more ropey leading to weak and leaky seals
I know a good plumber.. if you need one..
:lol:Ballcocks comes to mind Groannnnnnnnnn! :lol:
Sex God
Quote by iamagreedygirl
SING IT GIRLS..!!!
At first I was petrified!
When you said you had 10 inches..
lord I almost died!
But spent so many years just waiting for a man that long,
that I grew strong and knew that I could take you on ,
but there you are, another lie
I was ready for a Big Mac and you bought me a french fry !
I should have known it was bullshit, just a sad pathetic dream !
Should have known there was no anaconda lurking in your jeans !
Go on now... walk out the door.
don't you promise me 10 inches then turn up with 4 !
Weren't you a prat to think I wouldn't find you out ?
Dont you know, we're only joking when we say size count ?
I will survive !
As long as I have batteries, my sex life going to thrive !
I will always have good sex, with a handful of latex !
I will survive !
I will survive !
hey hey !
This has been done too lol, you will be doing the old age one next haha.
I must admit I missed it the first time around, It's a classic
The old age one ? Go on post it again I'd like to see it Sex God
Quote by duncanlondon
Most of the rising costs have been brought about by IT technical developments, and 'sundry' business costs. Therefore any new ideas are going to incur such costs again to be implemented.
Again the paying members will be hit. But if non paying members leave, you are left with a higher bill to pay, as the hoped for revenue would not be realised.
I don't get that bit Duncan
Though it does seem unfair and in an ideal situation I think that maybe there should be a way to give the paying members something that free members don't get in the basic package that appreciates the difference between the two. Other than that I can't really argue Andrew2010's post
Sex God
Quote by Aurora_female
Hence I give up
Dont give up on forums. It's a contentious subject and people are quite protective, rightly so I guess, when suggestions are made about the possibilities of changing their 'grandfather rights' status on the site. Don't stop posting though. It might feel like it at times no one is attacking you personally and it's always a good subject area to get people motivated to post
