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Quote by two-4-more
Total members to date - Members - 1,248,279
If you mean free for life, around 345,000 - by my maths thats 28%.
So over a quarter of the members are getting FULL access to the site, whilst the rest of us have to pay a minimum of , and more if we want extras.
It seems unfair that that the Free for Life members appear to get Extras free too.

We don't get the extras for free we pay for it... And do you honestly think all the original members are still on here lol next you'll be saying all 1248279 members of the whole site are...
lol @ two 4 more
Maybe there should be a default on members not signed in for a year that their memberships expire. It would clear away some of the dead wood I'm sure.
Quote by domino_2
Total members to date - Members - 1,248,279
If you mean free for life, around 345,000 - by my maths thats 28%.
So over a quarter of the members are getting FULL access to the site, whilst the rest of us have to pay a minimum of , and more if we want extras.
It seems unfair that that the Free for Life members appear to get Extras free too.

They don't domino, they just get the basic full membership. The extras have to be paid for at the same rate. smile
lol ;Quite right Essex. I should have more sense. That's a good call Fair point well made. smile
Quote by flower411
I`m thinking of posting in the dullards threads until I disappear up my own arse ...
Has anybody else tried this ?
Do you have any advice on timing etc. ?

I do so wish you would and as soon as you'd like
Awww sweety !! Does this mean you won`t be spamming my mailbox anytime soon ?
I do so miss signing in to find your vitriolic hatred smeared all over it !
Your a sad little excuse and you lie. Post anything i've spammed you I dare you. But you won't because there is none.
:therethere:
I`m sorry you have such a short memory !!
You should be and I don't. Now run along little Mr insignificant find some one else to be a victim to berate and try and chase off the site.
Quote by flower411
I`m thinking of posting in the dullards threads until I disappear up my own arse ...
Has anybody else tried this ?
Do you have any advice on timing etc. ?

I do so wish you would and as soon as you'd like
Awww sweety !! Does this mean you won`t be spamming my mailbox anytime soon ?
I do so miss signing in to find your vitriolic hatred smeared all over it !
Your a sad little excuse and you lie. Post anything i've spammed you I dare you. But you won't because there is none.
We dont really have a lot to do with our neighbours, nothing to do with not getting on with them as we do. I think that if a situation arose such as flowers that the same sort of thing would be done by our neighbours and I'm damn sure that i'd do it. Fair play to your neighbour flower, it shows he has social values and fair play to you for thanking him, so many wouldn't, at least he'll go home knowing he did right and if there was another situation similar then he'd more than likely do the same thing.:thumbup:
Quote by flower411
I`m thinking of posting in the dullards threads until I disappear up my own arse ...
Has anybody else tried this ?
Do you have any advice on timing etc. ?

I do so wish you would and as soon as you'd like
Fucked off with jumped up wankers just incessantly slating people for what they enjoy in the forum. Especially after they've already managed to run off so many posters in to obscurity with impunity it seems. What will make then happy I wonder, seeing off the rest of us. How I wish they'd take a long holiday. Maybe get a personality transplant at the same time.
If you don't like something then dont be so fucking rude about it all the time and keep your thoughts to yourself. It might be that your life is a shrivelled bag of snot right now. Well fuck me don't think your so bloody unique. What do you want to do, make everybody as miserable and wretched as you? It seems like it. Why not use this as a place to integrate rather than alienate. Let people enjoy the forums without having to ridicule incessantly, It ain't big and it aint clever.
Quote by asynch24
Thanks for the replies. The emphasis does tend to lean towards the positives of SH being, social and better cam rooms. All good things i admit. However and I hope this doesnt label me, to quote one reply as 'fuck and fuck off' but for me if there isnt an end game after the initial drinks and chats making sure we all like each other then really whats the raison d'etre of the site ? Who has said there isn't an end game. We all joined the site for the sex reason Perhaps as I dont wish to engage in the social side as much as many of you that leaves me somewhat out in the cold, Not necessarily but maybe limits your options although i must ask even with all the socialising what are you hoping for from the site? its a genuine question. Sex, friendship, sex, comraderie,sex, freedom of expression without persecution or judgement,sex, distraction, sex, Free use of the odd hot tub, sex, Oh and did I mention the sex biggrin
I do find it slightly hard to get on board with the ' you get out of it as much as you put into it' Im afraid this is pure esacapism, ??Not with you on this bit sorry if it means grinding out hours and hours looking for someone to meet then surely that detracts from the 's not always the case that it takes hours and whats to say its a grind? A lot of people find the flirting and social foreplay enhances the whole business, there's room for more than just "put your hand up who wants a shag" in comparrison with other sites I like the fact that I can put a 'id like to meet' and get a few responses, not always i admit, sometimes its defintaly cue tumbleweed :-).
Agree with the search function comments and also the IM function, Id hazard that some serious code work needs to be done with this part of the site as its frustrating and labororious. and also maybe as with other sites making it possible for couples who dont like to be contacted by single guys to a) block them b) show the guys that their attention is not wanted rather than the rather tedious Capitals of NO SINGLE GUYS. Personally as a single guy the last thing I want is to contact couples/singles who dont wish to be contacted.
All profiles have quite clearly on them what the member wants. its in the box with a large heading stating...
Looking for
eg
* Bi Couple
* Bi Female
* Bi Male
* Couple with Bi Female
* Couple with Bi Male
* Gay Male
* Straight Male
It sounds like you have a clear agenda on how you want to swing Asynch which is great although it may only appeal to a select group of swingers who want the same. There are as many variations in swingers as there is people in general so by limiting the way you play is going to limit your possible outcomes.
I hope this explains a little and wish you the very best :D
Would love a nice pint jug of sturdy ale tonight if I may please Will,
Far better swinging community on SH than other sites and the meets have mostly been of a more reliable and quality nature for us. This isn't to say we've not had success from other sites, we have but its a far more hit and miss affair. As sites go, though I do have issues with SH becoming far to complicated, but that could be my ineptitude as much as anything else.
The other sites tend to be much more, as Nola put it, f*ck and go, Which is ok but if, as so many profiles state on here, if it's more than just a fuck wanted, then SH beats the rest into a cocked hat. And as swinging for us is more than just picking someone out of a hat and f*cking them then f*cking off this place has far more more going for it.
This is as I see it:
Pros of SH
1) SH - More people in the chatrooms than any other site
2) SH - Lets you to open your own chatrooms
3) SH - Far superior cam facilities for those on or watching cams
4) SH - far better looking & clearer chatroom layout
5) SH - Far better room moderators/(OP's) in general
6) SH - Infinitely superior social network (though thats more to do with it's members)
7) SH - Profiles are far better arranged and easier to understand at a glance
8) SH - Forums are better than other sites in quality and looks (Although quiet as are many at prsent.
9) SH - Probably has the most comprehensive and best gallery of all Swing sites.
10 SH - Video uploading facility
Cons of SH
1) SH - Search facility is crazy,cumbersome and user unfriendly compared to some sites
2) SH - It's a little expensive for some members (though thats subjective to what you get out of it)
3) SH - Multiroom occupation as a positive to the chatrooms. No one can communicate/chat effectively in more than one room at a time. OK for the members just wabting to watch cams but short sited not to realise it will lead to less chatroom users as there will be less chatting.
4) SH - Shrep, I should take time out to suss it but lifes too short.
And that's sbout it I reckon
Quote by iamagreedygirl
Sh not working when they add silly new features, now that really pisses me off.

But others hit the mark dont they cat lol Quote "I like the fact we can now authorise our whispers, well done SH." unquote biggrin
Willox. If you fancyv a bit of a 'punt' you could go English with Bow in the clouds (N Wilts vineyard) Arkadian Seyval 2005. There's going to be better around no doubt but for a nice drink not to expensive and a great talking point being local-ish give it a whirl.
Must admit I'm still a bit hooked on the Alsace whites, Reislings are lush but ££ and the Gewurztraminer are great. I just find they're sort of Germanic but in a very French way. Easy to drink with a touch of je ne sais quoi. No surpise there really lol but it really does remind me of summer in the countryside. Could go on to say "imagine a sunny picnic sat in the corner of a meadow with hedgerows to either side of you and looking across a sweet smelling vista of wild flowers mixed with grass" but that would be a bit anal I guess, However, a gorgeous drink it is. smile
In saying this its been half a year since i've had any of either
Must admit to being able to remember each and every one and could probably reel them off in order too. Each time different to the previous some better some not but each confined to memory. Memory is screwed for most other stuff mind so whether thats a good thing is dubious biggrin
Quote by Staggerlee_BB
I,I am informed do a reasonable fop and a quite passable dandy and have for some time now been working on my cad....I find it useful to keep Terry Thomas in mind

Ahhhh Terry Thomas. What-a-guy biggrin
Personally for me the feeling i get is the initial touch of my partners hand or tongue on my my nuts Every single time it's like a pleasant electric shock making me jump. It'd exquisite. I guess the next would be if she kisses me at the point of coming though that has to be done with care and good timing as it can end up with an involuntary headbutt or tooth smack. Or or or possibly when I've come and J then goes down and blows jobs me. Sublimely relaxing for a few minutes until ermm the blood starts pumping again smile
Good move to post this type of stuff from years back but restart it. Well done you Nola :thumbup: biggrin
:laughabove: ooooooh dsfrancetoo & St3v3 you may get a sharp retort for that biggrin :thumbup:
Even though I had to google Oustem bird
redface
Says and I quote: "Video Chat:1509" Actually lot less than 700 total numbered in rooms
Fucking ermmm fucking Oh i dunno just fucking booooooooooobiggrin
We'll be at Gloucester's new club 'The Lodge' this Friday and meeting up with other couples and singles - If any you guys are coming along then make yourselves known because we'll be Lost! Would be great to say hi to other SH'ers :bounce:
Quote by Steve

No its not such a bad thing theres plenty of couples that enjoy just socialising with other cpls...
But its the.....
"We limit single guys to a hand picked small number who will add to your enjoyment socially."
Who hand picks these potential social giants that will make your evening more enjoyable!!?
Granted £15 is'nt a lot for a years membership for a single person but then tell them sorry you cant come in on friday or saturday unless we "like the look of you"!!

It's likely a low membership fee to act as an enticement .....Other clubs have much higher fees ....
It wont be until later they discover they aren't getting "selected" that it may all have been a rouse .....
Us ugly feckers don't have a prayer really :lol2:
The membership is over and above the door entry cost, so I wouldn't call it cheap.
Having been to the club and chatted to the owners/hosts i think that the singles bit needs explaining on the website a little more, i'll mail them and suggest it.
The idea i gather is that its that single guys can of course go to the club and can quite easily contact the hosts and inquire although the idea is also to get couples to vouch for and suggest single guys to come along so as to stop a mass stream of single men drowning out couples and single women keeping the place more evenly balanced for swinging as a result. Also on another positive note the club has a late night licence and the drink is really cheap (£1:60 for a pint of bitter!) and by doing the above it stops a lot of guys from just using the club as an after pub drinking and ogling club.
From our experience of the place the single guys there were of all descriptions short tall larger guys and slim black and white and all were pleasant making for a nice non intimidating social evening too. Hopefully the result will be great for swingers all.
PaulJayne its a really nice classy place, spotless and contemporary. Hosts Deb & Stu are great too. Great to have such a place within half an hours drive of us and we'll be using it in the future. Not heard a word against the place so far all positive.
I've not got a clue whether i come across as the same in real life as I do in cyberspace. I guess it would only be the people, I've met often enough through both mediums, to feel comfortable with could have an opinion.