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23 Dec 2010

Actually an explanation was sent to the OP.
GNV, you're starting conspiracies based on no facts whatsoever. The thread was not removed due to a members' complaint that you are insinuating and I suggest that since you are trying to damn someones character you actually apologise to that person for jumping to conclusions.
Forestfunsters - no-one was treated like a 5 year old, although some people act like them with their snide comments about something they know nothing about. If you have a specific problem with the way the site is moderated, perhaps you would like to contact Admin to discuss it?
If a forum lacks posts or comments it is down to you, the members, as we cannot force you to post. You generate the interest, not us. We don't stifle debate or discussion, we just monitor behaviour to prevent threads descending into slanging matches or point scoring. I am not saying this about the specific thread mentioned here, but any thread in general.
We would prefer not to have to do or say anything and only take appropriate action as the last resort.
If anyone would like to discuss this further, please feel free to contact myself or any moderator.
Merry Xmas! lol

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Mal

20 Dec 2010

Quote by browning
If a mod feels that my thread should be deleted, it would be nice to be told why.

don't worry - you will.
Mal

19 Dec 2010

Quote by tonylisa2006
You cannot post in the Commercial events forum unless you are the owner/manager or employed by the club. This forum is the appropriate place for your posts.
thanks
Mal

hi i am one off the managers of the club i have talked with ian about this last week and have told him already thanks tony
In that case you need to only post in the commercial events section and not club Meets. I'll move your posts across. Thanks for letting me know.
Mal

19 Dec 2010

You cannot post in the Commercial events forum unless you are the owner/manager or employed by the club. This forum is the appropriate place for your posts.
thanks
Mal

19 Dec 2010

Is this your club or are you just a member?
thanks
Mal

3 Nov 2010

You might get a better response for a meet on Tuesday 2nd November if you had posted a little earlier than on Tuesday 2nd November!
Might be worth trying again lol

lol

In fact, have a specific location in mind and a specific date (with more than 2 minutes notice!) and hopefully people will turn up. If you're too vague with dates or location then others wont commit - too wishy washy.
Good luck!
Mal
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26 Oct 2010

Amber doesn't appear to have been online for 6 days. I wouldn't hold my breath on this event, I'm afraid.
Mal

25 Oct 2010

Hi
Is this a club? If so what's it called? Is there a charge? Do you provide refreshments?
Many thanks
Mal

23 Oct 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
BTW.....I do not want to take it to pm as what needed to be said has been said already.

Fine - have a nice day

23 Oct 2010

Quote by tabbi
I get quite upset with myself if a guy doesn't cum with me sucking him, I feel I've let him down. It doesn't usually take long for him to cum and is usually guaranteed. I've also experienced him having the head exploding leg wobbling feeling :twisted:
Also, if a guy says 'I can't cum with a BJ' I've always taken that as him just trying to make women take the 'challenge'. So this thread has been enlightening lol

Bugger! Foiled again!! kiss

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23 Oct 2010

Kent, if you wish to carry this on in PM be my guest, but I wont continue this discussion in the forums.
ah, I see your backing singers have arrived!

23 Oct 2010

Quote by Max777
Mal, this is a serious question and not intended to wind any one up, I'm just seeking clarification. A few weeks ago, I requested Mod intervention in a thread where a member was making totally irrational comments about me, only to be told that Mods could not now intervene ( due to the 3 strikes rule) unless a complaint had been received. Have the rules changed again since then?

Hi Max
I'm not sure of which thread you're meaning but I will confirm that a certain member was not being moderated by the moderators because they were specifically being looked at by Admin, hence we didn't get involved. The rules haven't changed, just clarified a bit - more for those who like quoting specific rules to the Nth degree and not allowing common sense to prevail. Some people like to push the envelope for sport, but the sport is only for them, not the good of the site.
I don't consider your post a wind up, just a reasonable request for clarification with no axe to grind.
I hope that helps.
Mal
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23 Oct 2010

I never cum through just a blowjob. :grin:
Mal
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23 Oct 2010

You were not trying to help at all. Your post was directly intent upon winding up Kaznkev. Being helpful would have been posting that it shows on a profile when someone is banned, not all the gubbins you posted.
As moderators, we don't like our name taken in vain. If you find that aggressive, that's only your perception which you are entitled to think, but it doesn't make it true.

23 Oct 2010

When someone is banned, it shows on their profile that their account is inactive. Everyone can see that, but not the reason.

It certainly is not any Mod " sharing personal data ".....what are you insinuating here?? I am sure a mod will come along very soon and put you right on that one.

We don't need you speaking on our behalf or stirring things up under our name. If we have a comment to make, we'll make it without prompting from you.

21 Oct 2010

Can you submit a support ticket please?
Thanks
Mal
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19 Oct 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
Why the blanking out of other sites?
Is someone scared of the competition?
I thought those days were long gone?

Do you advertise for free your competitors in your business?

19 Oct 2010

How small a contribution please?
Mal
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17 Oct 2010

Quote by bluexxx
There is ten bonus points for anyone who can spot the deliberate mistake in my last post. I am not going to edit it, cos it's funny

You hum it.......................... :lol:
Mal
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16 Oct 2010

Quote by I_am_joy
suprisingly no comment on price increases

Eh? What has that to do with anything on this thread???????????
It has a lot to do with the upgrade in itself , where does the cost for implimenting it come from and also the lack of seamless integration.I know i may sound a little aggressive but over the last few days i have not received a cohesive service and i beleive that membership will increase to cover the costs of the implement this upgrade. I will be happy if you can tell me otherwise.
Pure speculation. However, if this is a concern, please contact Admin directly with this issue and I'm sure they will allay any fears you may have.
thanks
Mal

16 Oct 2010

Quote by I_am_joy
suprisingly no comment on price increases

Eh? What has that to do with anything on this thread???????????

16 Oct 2010

Quote by amatuerman
Not sure if this is the correct place to post this?
Two issues:
1. Since the site upgrade I can no longer view videos, I just get a square white screen, I'm using FIREFOX
2. I've tried setting a picture as my main. I keep getting the the message " Only non adult" or something of that nature is preventing me setting it! The picture is of me in boxer shorts!! has a PHOTO ADMIN incorrectly classified this picture which incidentally has been on my profile for years and is public!
Answers on a postcard please!
Many thanks.
Paddy

Hi Paddy
I've changed the classification of your pic from adult to non-adult, so hopefully that will resolve one issue.
As for the problem with the viewing of videos, can I ask that you submit a support ticket and Admin can then look at the problem for you?
Hope that helps
Mal
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15 Oct 2010

Quote by bluexxx
You could try Adam and Eves. It used to be a fiver for a couple in the day. They may have put the price up now, but it's worth looking in the clubs section for up to date info.

Or a tenner for 3! :twisted: :grin:
hi Blue kiss

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15 Oct 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
More locked rooms than you can handle at the moment.
Still am not suprised really as going " live " has not exactly gone according to plan.
I still prefer the old style.....still who knows eh?

Stop stirring it.

14 Oct 2010

when you have the pic visible you want to leave a comment on, click on the 'feedback' tab to the top right of the pic. You can then leave a comment regarding the pic -as I just did on one of yours.
Hope that helps.
Mal
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14 Oct 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
Obviously I have a sense of humour that some do not like.
Oh well...........cannot please all of the people, all of the time I suppose.

That just shows your true character - and it's nothing to do with a sense of humour.

14 Oct 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
Well I found it very funny to be honest. I hope the French courts throw it out.
I would not say it was a violent attack?
Hitting somebody with a base ball bat is a violent attack, not really in that category now is it?

Not a violent attack? Laughing at someone elses's misfortune?
did you see on the news yesterday regarding the guys who stole a ladies' fancy dress hat and then murdered her boyfriend when he tried to get it back?
Still find it funny? Pathetic.

14 Oct 2010

Quote by TSM
Where does SH have a different price for men and women??? Doesn't look like that to me.

i mean for the commercial postings in the forums etc and events that need payment
SH is ok
It's already being discussed here:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/332984.html
Rather than have two threads running I'll lock this one.
Mal
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14 Oct 2010

Try the chatroom forum where this will be moved to.
Mal

11 Oct 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
Well freed after four weeks of an eight week sentence.
What a joke really.
Crashing his car whilst under the influence of drugs AGAIN.....that is how serious the courts deemed it to be? A poxy four weeks in nick?
No wonder people are not scared of the consequences of their actions anymore.
The criminals just like flasher George, really just stick two fingers uip at the law and think.....fuck you.
No doubt the next time this tosser gets caught behind the wheel, they will blame his term in prison as a factor as to why he did it again, and the system will bend over ( George will love that ), to help him out.
I think the word joke, is really too soft a word for the tossers who jailed him for this poxy amount of time.
Just like so many other so called stars, who flaunt their status in life to get away with almost anything....there are too many to even start to mention. With role models for young kids to follow, no wonder we have such a high amount of horrid kids out there, high on drugs themselves.

Four weeks inside, then four weeks on licence with restrictions on what he can or cannot do and who he can associate with.
The judge is restricted on sentencing by guidelines based on case law. They cannot sentence him to 20 years hard labour for such an offence, because they would then have to sentence everyone who commits similar offences to the same sentence. They don't have an option of a sentencing plan for a celebrity and different sentencing options for the man in the street.
Don't forget, the more you have on the outside, the more you are giving up on the inside, proportionately a lot more than your 'run of the mill' criminal. He will know what will face him if he is convicted again and he knows it wont be pleasant.