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11 Mar 2011

It is NOT the case that we only allow positive reviews on clubs. If we did that nobody would believe any of them and the whole idea of having reviews would fall flat.
The only reviews not allowed are those by the club owners/staff as they would obviously be biased, or anything which is libellous and could lead to legal action being taken either against the site or you as an individual.
I have no idea what happened to your review or for which club it was for. If you want to resubmit it directly to me or any other mod we can check to see if it was the content which caused it to be deleted and if not we can tell you to post it as normal.
This concerns me though:

From the clubs point of view, it does little good as it has simply encouraged us to post the same review on every site we can possibly find....over 100 as I sit typing this.

This leads me to think you are being vindictive if you have posted 100 negative reviews about the club.
Mal

10 Mar 2011

just found your link, Sugs. Please feel free to amend your post and my apologies.
Mal
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10 Mar 2011

Hi Sugs
Please don't post a link to your website if you don't have a reciprocal link on it back to Swinging Heaven. Just refer people to the Clubs link on the left of the page for details.
Thanks
Mal
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4 Mar 2011

Quote by tweeky
I'm aware of all that, just couldn't see the relevence of bringing it up again, unless to put a dampener on it.
Anyway, if you want to discuss further, just PM me so this thread can continue as it was.
Mal

Sorry Mal this is a post in a forum meant for everyone to view, if I wanted to send PM's I would have.
Suit yourself.
Mal

4 Mar 2011

I'm aware of all that, just couldn't see the relevence of bringing it up again, unless to put a dampener on it. dunno

dunno

Anyway, if you want to discuss further, just PM me so this thread can continue as it was.
Mal
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4 Mar 2011

This is the correct forum for this type of meet, Ben. Your other post has been deleted.
have fun
Mal
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4 Mar 2011

Sorry, I don't see the relevence of your post. Is it a moan about Varca, a moan against masquerade balls or something I've missed? dunno

dunno

Mal

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4 Mar 2011

Quote by vodka_babe22uk
sorry not paying for a new account just to play a game lol

We've had one since it became a paysite. If you wanted to take part, admin let us have a free account for the duration of the ball, then they were de-activated.
Its doable again if enough are interested smile

smile

ur doable mmmmmmmmmmm
Tart!! lol

lol

I said previously that I would try and get one set up but I currently work every other weekend, so give me a few weeks to get some beer, twiglets, red bull and doritos stocked up and I'll get one going. I'll start a new thread for themes as well.
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23 Feb 2011

It depends on the links. Swinging clubs are commercial ventures, so it would only be fair that if they wish to advertise with a link on our site that they do the same for us. However for our members benefit we do have the clubs listing which does allow their links.
we don't allow links to other swinging sites as that would be like Tescos advertising Asda!
Hope that helps to clarify for you.
Mal
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23 Feb 2011

Quote by abw1065
Guess you can put web addresses on the forum lol will post feedback on Sunday when we eventually surface
Abw

Actually you can't. the club need to have a reciprocal link on their site back to this site. We are happy for them to list their club in our club listings (on the left of the page) and can have their web address there, but not in the public forums.
Hope that helps and they have a good opening night lol

lol

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Mal

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22 Feb 2011

Quote by tweeky
I'm not sure what you are hoping to achieve with this thread?
What is the purpose of such a list?
Mal

I was going to set up a mailing circle
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Theres no point really other than the question was asked so this is just a bad attempt to provide half an answer.
Ohh and in edit Mal can you confirm if you are signing the register or not :P
I think you may be better off starting a knitting circle than a mailing circle :grin:
and I don't sign anything wihout seeing the Ts & Cs!
Mal
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22 Feb 2011

I'm not sure what you are hoping to achieve with this thread? dunno

dunno

What is the purpose of such a list?
Mal
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20 Feb 2011

Hi Les
Long time, no see lol

lol

. good to see you posting again, but would you mind not posting loads of identical threads and just bumping the one?
Cheers and good luck
Mal
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29 Jan 2011

On another site I frequent the discussion was about Rolex watches and why some people pay an absolute fortune for them. Forgetting why they do for the moment, but one guy who had a genuine one was really pissed off when holidaying in Thailand. No-one would believe it was a real one when they were selling copies for a couple of quid and everyone and his dog had one!! rotflmao

rotflmao

Mal

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PS - the only people who did believe it was real were the street vendors themselves!! blink

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28 Jan 2011

Quote by browning
If you took your car to the garage for a service, and the mechanics own car was a complete bucket, would you feel happy with him working on your car?

..... but if you couldn't see his car, you couldn't make that decision, could you? lol

lol

Mal

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24 Jan 2011

The CICA have confirmed it is absolutely nothing to do with the litter fine. Yes, he's had a clean record for 20 years, however he had a conviction prior to that of more than 30 months imprisonment, which was taken into consideration when making the award. Imprisonment over 30 months is never classed as a spent conviction.

Hope that helps.
Mal
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23 Jan 2011

Yep - practice makes perfect (or gets you pissed!! lol

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Things are pretty good - have to put you down for a teastop when biking later in the year coffee

coffee

Mal

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23 Jan 2011

On the left, just below 'Entertainment', click on link that says 'clubs'
or here http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/
Mal
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23 Jan 2011

A barmen I knew used to make drinks like this. it all relies on getting the denser spirits lower than the lighter ones. I believe (and don't quote me!!) he used a straw and a small funnel and poured the heavier spirits through the lighter spirits using the straw so as to prevent them mixing up the striping effect.

Keep practicing Will! lol

lol

Mal

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21 Jan 2011

Quote by noladreams
(I really shouldn't have been gone so long - I feel like the new gal all over again!)

I like to feel the new gal all over too! :rascal:
kiss

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Mal

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21 Jan 2011

A spokeswoman for the Equality and Human Rights Commission said: “Under the Equality Act 2010, if the club set up especially for people from a particular ethnic or national group then discrimination on the basis of nationality or ethnic or national origin is not unlawful, but discrimination based on colour is prohibited.”

20 Jan 2011

Nope - just got in fine! lol

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Mal

19 Jan 2011

There was two threads running for the same event - these have now been merged. There is no need for two threads.
Mal
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19 Jan 2011

Can she run me up a scarf please? lol

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14 Jan 2011

Quote by Tan--Kinky
Indeed they are waterproof but not theft proof as we nearly found out

You didn't tell me that when you looked after my bike!! :eeek:
Mal
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14 Jan 2011

I just know the right buttons to push! lol

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Mal

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14 Jan 2011

I have deleted several posts all asking the same thing in different forums. Do not spam the site. thanks
Mal

14 Jan 2011

I thought you lost it a few years ago?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/50709.html

24 Dec 2010

Quote by GnV
Perhaps you have someone in mind I should apologise to
I thought SH had a no naming and shaming policy...

It does - nobody asked you to name and shame, just apologise to the person you insinuated was a serial complainer. It doesn't have to be in public.
Conspiracy theories are all well and good, unless it's a whispering campaign about a member - that can be tantamount to bullying, whoever that member is.
Now, it's obvious that some people just want to argue this point to the N'th degree because they are bored or just enjoy sniping for effect. However I personally have better things to do than indulge them. If anyone wants to take this forward, please feel free to PM me.
Merry Christmas
Mal

24 Dec 2010

Quote by GnV
Actually an explanation was sent to the OP.
GNV, you're starting conspiracies based on no facts whatsoever. The thread was not removed due to a members' complaint that you are insinuating and I suggest that since you are trying to damn someones character you actually apologise to that person for jumping to conclusions.
Mal

Conspiracy theories help make the CA interesting from time to time. Besides, SH played its own part in removing a thread to the extent that the OP had (then) no idea why.
If I knew who I should apologise to, I probably might in a spirit of Christmas cheer, but that's half the fun of a conspiracy theory isn't it, you just drop little hints around until you arrive - eventually - at some sort of answer and now we have :grin:
Merry Christmas Mal
You were the one who mentioned "the serial complainer" twice,so you obviously had someone in mind, otherwise you wouldn't have posted the comments. So, in the spirit of Christmas, why not just get on and apologise?
And remember, 'little hints' can sometimes be perceived as 'little digs.'