Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
MandH
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 72
Straight Female, 65
0 miles · Bedfordshire
Forum
We've done a few hotel meets now, and yes they are ok for discretion but I (M) always get paranoid that any noise we are making at 2 or 3 in the morning, is going to piss people off (It did happen once - oops). And yes even using cheap places it can all add up to a fair amount of cost.
We now prefer to do a hotel meet at first, then if we meet again, we are happy to have people come to our place.
M
We now prefer to do a hotel meet at first, then if we meet again, we are happy to have people come to our place.
M
Quote by Shireen_Mids
Just stick it in yer Land Rover............... it can keep that spider company :grin:
Ooohhh H&H I have a lovely story about the spider from last week.... But if I repeat it Equi will kill me :giggle: :giggle:
Shireen
xxx
Oh go on Shireen, go on tell us ........... she won't know go on hun :grin:
:twisted: Quote by Jags
5) Don't blame the TTTTs (TMJags2004) on the site. 10 Moderators work (for free) to keep this site responsible and legal - there are hundreds of people out to exploit, manipulate and make a fortune out of you sex-driven folks!
:P :P
And I thought the 10 mods were the most sex driven of all
Quote by Mister_Discreet
I was thinking more along the lines of a quick scan for the common problems in the 'women seeking men' - ie does this ad have
a) a penis on the pic
b) a URL wi*th*lots*of*sta*rs*in
c) a redirecting URL
c) THAT skirt pic AGAIN
d) any mention of '100 miles from Peterborough'
I think some of the scammers rely on the short time the ads are up before deletion to get their revenue, and would be more likely to give up if they didn;t get shown at all.
Maybe the mods could have a new button to put a category into pre-approval mode when there's a spamstorm?
A dick on the pic?? .................... I guess I'll have to spend time looking at the ads, Yes I know it's very naughty what these people do, but dicks on pics in women seeking men, that could be amusing when the forums are quiet
How would you check them anyway?................................
Email address ligit? .............. errrm yes we sent an auto reply with an activation code in it.
Picture Ligit? ............... who knows we ain't met them
apart from checking previously banned members what good would it do?
Far better that site members report anything they don't like, so the mods can look into it
Email address ligit? .............. errrm yes we sent an auto reply with an activation code in it.
Picture Ligit? ............... who knows we ain't met them
apart from checking previously banned members what good would it do?
Far better that site members report anything they don't like, so the mods can look into it
Goes without saying, it has to be the Forum.
We have an ad running but it's really more of a profile. We have tweaked it a couple of times to specifically ask that contact is by PM only, in other words you must be a forum member. We can then see how new they are at least, and are they regular posters.
Amazingly, it has worked, we get PM's but we don't get emails anymore (yeah we know all about emails don't we
) which is great.
We have an ad running but it's really more of a profile. We have tweaked it a couple of times to specifically ask that contact is by PM only, in other words you must be a forum member. We can then see how new they are at least, and are they regular posters.
Amazingly, it has worked, we get PM's but we don't get emails anymore (yeah we know all about emails don't we
) which is great. Quote by DreamerHelen
The reason is that I have just had Surgery for a rather large Abcess at the top of my leg, the Doctor said it was the biggest he'd ever seen...LoL.
Biggest he'd ever seen??? .................... your legs aren't that big .......... oh he meant the abcess ....... ooops
Rest and get well soon hun, and we look forward to seeing you in the new year
Quote by norfolkbigirl
:cry:
i met a guy from here last night after speaking to him a few times, he was very charming and seemed quite shy so like a woman on heat thought i would take a chance..
i asked for a pic of his face and cock,
he responded, wowmade my eyes pop out :eeek: :inlove:
could this be a real stallion..
well we met last night at , i spend an hour and half getting myself ready and
what a bullshitter....he was not the guy on the pics sent through
i was soi just drove off after telling him what i thought...... why o why
i just wish that some people would be honest. :fuckinghell:
still i will not give up and hope that i will meet a good man or lady soon...
Hun, ..................... do you have your email address in your ad?? ................. if so remove it immediately and make sure the option "anonymous email" is turned ON.
that way anyone who wants to respond to you HAS to be a registered user..........
Now fake pictures............ this is CLEARLY in breach of the AUP and you should report it, so the guy gets banned.
Sounds like you did all the right things (letting friends know you were meeting someone etc)....... so don't worry too much, but do be careful, and better luck next time
M
Quote by princess pussy
he ain't the only one today, theres been a couple of others as well, but he is the worst
:giveup: I'll wait for my mentor to be appointed before I venture into the unknown world of thread posting again.
Ooohhh Princess...... don't let it put you off, lets face it, it doesn't stop the rest of us
true story now.....
I used to carry a card that said:
I'm a silent man that never says much so I was wondering
Were you truly wafted here from paradise or have I died and gone to heaven
Is there any chance of sharing your bed tonight? but please remember
I'm not as good as I once was but I'm as good once as I ever was.
PS is the answer is no then can I have the card back cos printing is expensive.
I always got the card back but it usually opened up the conversation
God I was a smooth talking Bastard when I was younger wasn't I
I used to carry a card that said:
I'm a silent man that never says much so I was wondering
Were you truly wafted here from paradise or have I died and gone to heaven
Is there any chance of sharing your bed tonight? but please remember
I'm not as good as I once was but I'm as good once as I ever was.
PS is the answer is no then can I have the card back cos printing is expensive.
I always got the card back but it usually opened up the conversation
God I was a smooth talking Bastard when I was younger wasn't I
Well first of all don't shout (typing in all Caps is seen as being rude ), and only use those lines if you are 100% sure the lady is pissed (when they're pissed they tend not to notice :grin............... otherwise they will either walk away or give you a slap....
Spoken by the man with a cauliflower ear from lots of slaps :grin:
), and only use those lines if you are 100% sure the lady is pissed (when they're pissed they tend not to notice :grin............... otherwise they will either walk away or give you a slap....Spoken by the man with a cauliflower ear from lots of slaps :grin:
Quote by wlibert leacock
Actually I like to use classy lines like
You are so hot, its girls like you that are the real reason for global warming
I'm a stud muffin baby, why don't you take a bite?
Would you like to dance? No, you must have misunderstood me, I SAID, you look fat in those pants!
LMU?
OK so the first thing is ditch the book of classy lines......... I've been using them ones for years and they don't work..... :grin:
And welcome by the way
M
Quote by dambuster
IF YOUR PICTURE IS TOO BIG:
Use the free resizer software here: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/personal/jql/
NoNO NO ! ! !
it makes 'em too small to perv at :shock:
Want to borrow my glasses dammie :grin:
Anything that makes it look bigger can only be a good thing
- Cheers Matey - I was getting dizzy :crazy:Yeah I know thats why I wear em in the shower :grin: except they get all steamed up :shock:
M
