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MandH
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 72
Straight Female, 65
0 miles · Bedfordshire
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OK so here goes.... I'm going to regret this I know but oh well.........
First of all a big hello to everyone on here. We are newbies and have put a few posts up in the last week or two. She is early/mid 40's he is older :grin: We have had one MMF experience, and would like to do more.. On here I do most of the reading and all the posts, she reads some of the stuff but has never posted.
We have a problem! we don't like our username/handle.... I was having an off moment when we registered....... So with all the above in mind what would you lot come up with as an apt username?
If anybody bothers to respond and we like any of the suggestions we will adapt the one we like best as a new name.
M and H (him and her)
Edited to add that I am straight, and she hasn't suggested that she is bi
ducks down and waits for all the vitriolic comments/abuse to come flying this way :scared:
First of all a big hello to everyone on here. We are newbies and have put a few posts up in the last week or two. She is early/mid 40's he is older :grin: We have had one MMF experience, and would like to do more.. On here I do most of the reading and all the posts, she reads some of the stuff but has never posted.
We have a problem! we don't like our username/handle.... I was having an off moment when we registered....... So with all the above in mind what would you lot come up with as an apt username?
If anybody bothers to respond and we like any of the suggestions we will adapt the one we like best as a new name.
M and H (him and her)
Edited to add that I am straight, and she hasn't suggested that she is bi
ducks down and waits for all the vitriolic comments/abuse to come flying this way :scared:
Hi Katie & John, or Pete :grin: , your advert looks good and makes it plain what you are thinking about doing.... just hope all the guys read and understand it before they respond. We have an ad running on another site and even though we have explained at length what we are looking for, we still get dickheads responding with one or two liners that show they haven't read our ad properly.
We are very new to all this and have only had one experience so far (MMF), and after your post we consider ourselves extremely lucky that we haven't had any problems....... we feel for what you have been through, and are glad it didn't put you off entirely, so welcome back :!: .
Moving forward we are thinking that the best way to meet people is to try and get accepted by communities such as this, and hopefully get to go to munches, so we can meet people socially before we do anything else. We have thought of clubs but at the end of the day the old git (him as in me) isn't really into clubs, although she is trying to change my mind :undecided:
Anyways good luck with your ads
M and H
We are very new to all this and have only had one experience so far (MMF), and after your post we consider ourselves extremely lucky that we haven't had any problems....... we feel for what you have been through, and are glad it didn't put you off entirely, so welcome back :!: .
Moving forward we are thinking that the best way to meet people is to try and get accepted by communities such as this, and hopefully get to go to munches, so we can meet people socially before we do anything else. We have thought of clubs but at the end of the day the old git (him as in me) isn't really into clubs, although she is trying to change my mind :undecided:
Anyways good luck with your ads
M and H
Wow, what a brilliant post lusty, let alone it being your first one!........ from two other newbies here as well, welcome to the site.
You will find that people here are not backwards in coming forwards in telling you what they think, but if you find an interesting post you'll find that that in a strange sort of way that the replies to it, whilst they my have different opinons, will all help to give balance to the issue.
I think with a mindset like yours you will find what you are looking for. At the end of the day it may not be swinging, but you will find it none the less, and being here may go some ways in helping you
Once again welcome, come back soon, and we look forward to some more thought provoking posts
You will find that people here are not backwards in coming forwards in telling you what they think, but if you find an interesting post you'll find that that in a strange sort of way that the replies to it, whilst they my have different opinons, will all help to give balance to the issue.
I think with a mindset like yours you will find what you are looking for. At the end of the day it may not be swinging, but you will find it none the less, and being here may go some ways in helping you
Once again welcome, come back soon, and we look forward to some more thought provoking posts
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I would NOT want to meet someone who expects me to give them my address within 2 mins of MSNing with them (and then gets tetchy or rude when I won't, and calls me a timewaster or as one particularly polite young man did, a 'fat whale')
Well Jo if you look anything like your avatar and you've been called a fat whale, I wonder what these people consider to be slim???.................. you look slim and absolutely gorgeous to me
M
Ooops sorry H didn't see you standing there reading this 
couldn't agree more bucksfuncpl ! 
It takes time to get into forums like this and it takes an open mind, and patience. At the same time newbies can in some instances bring some fresh thoughts and ideas as well.
sorry they decided to leave, they may have enjoyed this place more if they had only given it some time and tried a bit harder
M and H
It takes time to get into forums like this and it takes an open mind, and patience. At the same time newbies can in some instances bring some fresh thoughts and ideas as well.
sorry they decided to leave, they may have enjoyed this place more if they had only given it some time and tried a bit harder
M and H
Well...................... being newbies, we happen to have enjoyed our first experience this weekend and yes it was MMF.
I (as in Him) had a fantasy about Her being taken by another man and she (as in Her) would have problems with me and another woman......... so now, how was it?
Generally ok, (the guy was above average in the size department and a bloody long stayer) but it could have been better. The problem was due to circumstances, we really didn't have long enough to get to know each other so we felt that at the end of the day it could have been better.
We would do it again but we would want to meet in a social context first (maybe a munch would be good for us who knows - any experienced memebers care to comment?)
To answer the question......... No nothing wrong in MMF threesomes and nothing wrong with wanting to see your female partner enjoying sex with another man. You need to feel comfortable with your relationship and be totally honest and open with each other. It needs love and respect from both sides. Jealousy wasn't a problem for me because we had agreed rules before hand that safeguarded us from all that stuff.
So go out and enjoy
I (as in Him) had a fantasy about Her being taken by another man and she (as in Her) would have problems with me and another woman......... so now, how was it?
Generally ok, (the guy was above average in the size department and a bloody long stayer) but it could have been better. The problem was due to circumstances, we really didn't have long enough to get to know each other so we felt that at the end of the day it could have been better.
We would do it again but we would want to meet in a social context first (maybe a munch would be good for us who knows - any experienced memebers care to comment?)
To answer the question......... No nothing wrong in MMF threesomes and nothing wrong with wanting to see your female partner enjoying sex with another man. You need to feel comfortable with your relationship and be totally honest and open with each other. It needs love and respect from both sides. Jealousy wasn't a problem for me because we had agreed rules before hand that safeguarded us from all that stuff.
So go out and enjoy
