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Manoftheworld18
2 days ago
Straight Male, 65
0 miles · Cheltenham

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Forum Virgin

So much of what we read on here is from the male perspective: 'How she submitted to his advances', or 'What I want my wife to do'.

But I'd so much prefer to hear things from the female point of view: 'What it really felt like to have sex with a guy while my husband was watching', or 'What happened in my head when I took a much larger cock than I've been used to'...

Any thoughts about this, or where I can go to read about sex from the female point of view? TIA

Forum Virgin

Just a further thought on the age thing - I don't think you can generalise. I often end up chatting to singles and couples who are specifically looking for an older man, who having had hassle from younger, pushy guys, want to find someone who knows the rules - ie 'no means no'!, is polite, considerate and knows how to treat a woman. 

Forum Virgin

Do be very careful. My advice would be that until you have met someone and feel you can fully trust them, never use your real name, don't tell them where you live or work, and always use a non-personal e-mail address. I would always recommend a first meeting in a busy cafe or pub - meeting in a hotel straight away might send out the wrong signal, and possibly less easy to escape from in a hurry! 

Remember, you are in the driving seat: create your own set of rules and then stick to them. Genuine people will respect them, and those that don't you won't want to know anyway. Good luck - stay safe!