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They just said that Ferrari are having problems.... hmmm lets wait and see...
They are also pretty good at sandbagging as well
(and its nothing to do with teabagging either
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Misskitty_2008
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 59
Straight Male, 68
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Fishing for compliments now hunie?????? Will give you one later...... 
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OK! OK! I give in!!!
I've received more comments than I'd expected, and I've only figured out two of them, who have now confessed, the others have me completely stumped.:dunno: :dunno:
So please put me out of my misery and PM me to let me know who you are. Otherwise I'll stay up all night trying to figure it out.
… and I need ALL the beauty sleep I can get.:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
It's still the anticipation, which won't go away for a while... every time my phone rings.. or when a text comes through.... it will take a while for that to settle down...
:confused: If you've not heard from him in the last couple of days, why would you lose sleep about it in the last few days? I'd have thought not hearing anything would have induced relief on your part and helped you to sleep better?
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In the last couple of days I haven't heard from this person, so hopefully I wont.
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Thank you for replying BF, I must admit I have lost sleep because of this over the last few days, it did affect me more than I thought.. didn't sleep too well last night, but hopefully this will improve.
:confused: If you've not heard from him in the last couple of days, why would you lose sleep about it in the last few days? I'd have thought not hearing anything would have induced relief on your part and helped you to sleep better?
Hope you feel better soon hun! like others have said, keep your fluids up, and try and eat when you can, even if its only soft food, and lots of orange juice may help too..
I used to work in a chemist, and give lots of advice about these sort of infections.. just a quick word of warning - if you're taking antibiotics, watch what other top up medicines you're taking, as some can interact and make you feel worse than you already do - if you're at all worried, go and have a chat with your pharmacist, they will be able to tell you what's safe.
Take care hun, cyber hugs coming your way!!! :therethere:
I used to work in a chemist, and give lots of advice about these sort of infections.. just a quick word of warning - if you're taking antibiotics, watch what other top up medicines you're taking, as some can interact and make you feel worse than you already do - if you're at all worried, go and have a chat with your pharmacist, they will be able to tell you what's safe.
Take care hun, cyber hugs coming your way!!! :therethere:
:giggle:Thank you for replying BF, I must admit I have lost sleep because of this over the last few days, it did affect me more than I thought.. didn't sleep too well last night, but hopefully this will improve.
I am quite techie, and so is my other half, so if anything does happen, at least we have the tools to work with..
Thanks again x
I am quite techie, and so is my other half, so if anything does happen, at least we have the tools to work with..
Thanks again x
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In a previous life when I went into chat rooms I had a stalker who was totally malicious. No idea why I was the target but whenever I was in a chat room chatting with friends this guy would turn up. Him and his friends would clone my user name and make up totally false and obscene profiles for me complete with carefully edited photos. I was a whore who worked for loose change etc etc and this attention was relentless. You can say that this was all typed and online and therefore not harmful but you would be wrong. It was very hurtful and completely ruined my enjoyment of chatting. How did I deal with it? Some friends and I turned detective and started to track this person in an effort to find out their ISP etc and once we found this out and confronted the person they began to back off, especially when the Police were mentioned.
It only really stopped when the user rooms closed down, but I have every sympathy with anyone who is having unwanted attention from someone on line because it IS real and it IS painful and harmful and don't let anyone tell you any different.
Hi Sarah, thanks for posting, I have got a spare sim now, and will be more cautious to whom I give my number. In the last couple of days I haven't heard from this person, so hopefully I wont.
I appreciate what you said about using each others accounts, but we don't actually use them, we just read each others mail, as we have no secrets and trust each other. I would never use his account as I have my own.
If I do get any more mail, I will use the block button. I just didn't want to upset him any further!
Anyway, thanks again x
I am tired today, and maybe I am missing something here.
BUT
1. Block this guy from your email account
2. Use the ignore button in your mail box and block him
3. Contact your mobile phone user and ask for a pay as you go free sim card, (t mobile sent me two recently) and use this as already has been said as your swinging number, and take it out of your phone at all other times, when you are not looking for meets.
4. Why when you have a single females account does another person have access to your account as you to theirs?, as it is in the AUP that is only allowed with permission of the site admin.
If you block this person from your email and mailbox on this site, half your problem will be gone, and the Mods can get on with other more pressing things.
I block people all the time who don't take no!
Getting back in my box now.
I appreciate what you said about using each others accounts, but we don't actually use them, we just read each others mail, as we have no secrets and trust each other. I would never use his account as I have my own.
If I do get any more mail, I will use the block button. I just didn't want to upset him any further!
Anyway, thanks again x
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I have recently been accused of leading someone on.. but I didn't. Everyone that knows me knows that I tell things straight, I don't wind people up. This person took what I said in a completely different way, and even posted an email I sent into a chatroom to embarrass me and to try and upset my other half, not knowing that we have access to each others accounts and email, and we read both all the time. It didn't work, and even though my other half had to talk to him personally to tell him to back off, it took a while for the penny to drop. He had been phoning (silly me for giving him my number, but even my other half thought he was ok as he had met him.) He had been emailing me and texting all the time... was starting to worry me...
Has anyone else on here been stalked, or fallen prey to stalker-ish people.. How did you deal with it? I would be interested to find out. I won't name and shame, but it really has put the willies up me.. no funny comments please... oh.. go one then!
If you don't want to post.. pm please xx thanks xx
I am tired today, and maybe I am missing something here.
BUT
1. Block this guy from your email account
2. Use the ignore button in your mail box and block him
3. Contact your mobile phone user and ask for a pay as you go free sim card, (t mobile sent me two recently) and use this as already has been said as your swinging number, and take it out of your phone at all other times, when you are not looking for meets.
4. Why when you have a single females account does another person have access to your account as you to theirs?, as it is in the AUP that is only allowed with permission of the site admin.
Your account is for your use and your use only, no third party is allowed to activate or use your account without previous consent from our Admin team.
If you block this person from your email and mailbox on this site, half your problem will be gone, and the Mods can get on with other more pressing things.
I block people all the time who don't take no!
Getting back in my box now.
First of all, thanks everyone for your comments, it is a very difficult situation. I was totally honest about my situation and what I wanted, and I would have liked a meet with them eventually. But I was getting texts every hour, when I went into chatrooms I got whispered straight away, and then when I got the phone call it worried me. There is showing that your interested.. and then being overly pushy.. A lot more happened which I won't go into here, but it really did concern me, and my other half.
Haven't seen this person about today, and I hope I don't bump into them.. they probably are a really nice person, but not for me...
If anything else happens, I will contact the mods and let them know. It has happened once before since I have been on the site, and a quiet word from my other half sorted that one, although I contacted a mod, and they were willing to help if things got a bit much.
Maybe I used the wrong word, saying stalker.. but I really did feel vunerable at the time and it seemed to describe what was going on.
Haven't seen this person about today, and I hope I don't bump into them.. they probably are a really nice person, but not for me...
If anything else happens, I will contact the mods and let them know. It has happened once before since I have been on the site, and a quiet word from my other half sorted that one, although I contacted a mod, and they were willing to help if things got a bit much.
Maybe I used the wrong word, saying stalker.. but I really did feel vunerable at the time and it seemed to describe what was going on.
My phone is PAYG but have got another sim I might have to use. They are from SH and only email my account on here, I am SO glad I didn't give them my normal email. Hopefully my other half having a chat has done the trick, but will keep the mod thing in mind.. Thanks for replying.. xx
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Have you set up a swinging only email account and bought a PAYG swingphone? This will allow you to ditch your email and open a new account, giving the address to the people you still want to contact you and the phone can be switched off when you want or you can even get a new simcard and number if omeone is being a total prat
If it's someone off here and they don't get the hint you could ask a mod to have a friendly word with them before taking it further.
I have recently been accused of leading someone on.. but I didn't. Everyone that knows me knows that I tell things straight, I don't wind people up. This person took what I said in a completely different way, and even posted an email I sent into a chatroom to embarrass me and to try and upset my other half, not knowing that we have access to each others accounts and email, and we read both all the time. It didn't work, and even though my other half had to talk to him personally to tell him to back off, it took a while for the penny to drop. He had been phoning (silly me for giving him my number, but even my other half thought he was ok as he had met him.) He had been emailing me and texting all the time... was starting to worry me...
Has anyone else on here been stalked, or fallen prey to stalker-ish people.. How did you deal with it? I would be interested to find out. I won't name and shame, but it really has put the willies up me.. no funny comments please... oh.. go one then!
If you don't want to post.. pm please xx thanks xx
Has anyone else on here been stalked, or fallen prey to stalker-ish people.. How did you deal with it? I would be interested to find out. I won't name and shame, but it really has put the willies up me.. no funny comments please... oh.. go one then!
If you don't want to post.. pm please xx thanks xx
If I could, I would be more open about my new found lifestyle, but I can't because of the work I'm in. I'm a carer for the elderly, and have asked questions in a roundabout way to a couple of the people I care for, and they have been very derogatory about the whole swinging thing... so I don't feel that I can be more open.. and if some of them new I was bi aswell.... all hell would be let loose!!
I like having a little secret anyway.... makes me feel good! People say I look sweet and innocent.. if only they knew.......
I like having a little secret anyway.... makes me feel good! People say I look sweet and innocent.. if only they knew.......
I must admit I only wear underwired bra's sometimes... I feel like i'm really restricted otherwise.. the sportsbra I have, is a really good one, doesn't look too good, but boy does it hold things where they're supposed to be!
Mind you I wish I had worn it in London yesterday.. on the way to the motor show we went over speed bumps and I nearly got black eyes... :shock:
Mind you I wish I had worn it in London yesterday.. on the way to the motor show we went over speed bumps and I nearly got black eyes... :shock:
Hi, I tend to go in two rooms, bbw on server one, and mids room on 3, I have got to know quite a few people in those rooms and feel ok in them. And when someone has whispered without an invite, they get booted quite quickly..
I would love to pop into your room! please let me know which one it is so can drop in and say hi, it sounds lovely!
I would love to pop into your room! please let me know which one it is so can drop in and say hi, it sounds lovely!
For everyday wear I like my comfy sports bra (im a big girl and need support!!) and granny knickers... but if I am to tease (like saturday night) something a shade more lacy and racy..
To be honest I don't mind what my other half wears... as they don't tend to stay on too long in my company anyway!!!!!
To be honest I don't mind what my other half wears... as they don't tend to stay on too long in my company anyway!!!!!
Awww thank you!!! Ps if you have trouble finding somewhere to stay.. without cctv.. can crash at mine!!!
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Mandy & Sheer, what a great job you did. It was a great night and lovely to meet so many peeps. I am so sorry about not recognising people & and very thankful for the name tabs, fab idea. I will never make the mistake of not recognising Lucky again and walking past her!!! lol
Miss Kitty & Tele, what great singers I was impressed. Dessi, thank for adjusting my boobs, sorry my dress!!! lol. Devs, luff ya & currently enjoying my holiday here
Looking forward to Oxford 2008, mind you I think I might have to find a different hotel once they check the CCTV footage!!!!
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:kiss: < thats for my phone... :kiss: where where? pm me the details ... none in Oxford!!!! :DQuote by venus68
I believe there are already 2 predominantly black groups in the Midlands that already formed. Nothing new about it here I'm afraid. A bit like re-inventing the wheel from where I'm standing.
I am still yet to find a predominantly white group of the type though, which might be a new angle.
