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Mistress_39
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 62
Straight Male, 64
UK
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Has anyone else here noticed just how good our high-street coffee houses are for meeting up with daytime NSA sexual partners?
Ah this brought back some nice memories for me.....I met Mr Mistress_39 completely by chance in a coffee house on a cold rainy day.
There I was, Mrs
drowning my sorrows in a large latte and toasted teacake, when this tall, hunky guy comes over and asks to share my table. (Despite the fact that there are countless empty spaces...) My first thought was to say GO AWAY, IM BEING MISERABLE BY MYSELF but he was kinda cute, :twisted:
Anyway, he jokingly said to me same time same place tomorrow? I only turned up to see if he turned up, you understand lol. And the rest is history....now we have coffee everyday together in our own little cosy coffeehouse called home......
Yes i know its soppy but its true. So coffee beans hold a special place in my heart
Has anyone else here noticed just how good our high-street coffee houses are for meeting up with daytime NSA sexual partners?
Ah this brought back some nice memories for me.....I met Mr Mistress_39 completely by chance in a coffee house on a cold rainy day.
There I was, Mrs
drowning my sorrows in a large latte and toasted teacake, when this tall, hunky guy comes over and asks to share my table. (Despite the fact that there are countless empty spaces...) My first thought was to say GO AWAY, IM BEING MISERABLE BY MYSELF but he was kinda cute, :twisted: Anyway, he jokingly said to me same time same place tomorrow? I only turned up to see if he turned up, you understand lol. And the rest is history....now we have coffee everyday together in our own little cosy coffeehouse called home......
Yes i know its soppy but its true. So coffee beans hold a special place in my heart
Quote by SuperDave
This is the third time out of four attempts to meet with couples that has not transpired and honestly I am beginning to question the motivation of some people on here. There seems to be a hell of a lot of timewasters and its beginning to make me think about just not bothering anymore.
Ok, rant over.
I think you should laugh in the face of adversity and figure that things happen for a reason! Dont get downheartened Dave, just think of the bigger picture and figure that at least you had the good grace to keep the arrangement on your part. Which, in my book, says you are a gentlemen.
Good luck in the future.
Mistress_39
Wow Lost
I started reading the part relating to me being a Scorpio (yes my birthday is coming up soon if anyone wants to bake me a cake...) and how amazing was it!!!
Usually sceptical, I found myself nodding in agreement as I read it through. I know you can usually make some elements of horoscopes fit your situation, depending on your mood, what has happened in your day etc. but this was me naked and exposed (mmm now there is a thought...)
Hey not sure about the whips and chains bit you know.......... :twisted:
Oh, away to the dungeon to do some dusting.....
I started reading the part relating to me being a Scorpio (yes my birthday is coming up soon if anyone wants to bake me a cake...) and how amazing was it!!!
Usually sceptical, I found myself nodding in agreement as I read it through. I know you can usually make some elements of horoscopes fit your situation, depending on your mood, what has happened in your day etc. but this was me naked and exposed (mmm now there is a thought...)
Hey not sure about the whips and chains bit you know.......... :twisted:
Oh, away to the dungeon to do some dusting.....
I once was a witch in our school production of Canterbury Tales, which involved holding hands with other 'wtiches' (my best friends....enough said lol) and skipping around a really old tree in our school grounds. Afterwards we were paranoid that we had accidentally invoked some evil - even though we were only acting. No i suppose that doesnt count for a claim to fame does it?
I did, however, sit next to David Attenborough in the BBC canteen when i worked there many years ago..... Still not good enough?
Ok then maybe i should just remain infamous as Mistress_39 lol! No rude comments thanks hee hee :twisted:
I did, however, sit next to David Attenborough in the BBC canteen when i worked there many years ago..... Still not good enough?
Ok then maybe i should just remain infamous as Mistress_39 lol! No rude comments thanks hee hee :twisted:
Looking for manly bimales (no pantie wearers, etc)
Bimales, over 8inches, for oral play only (yes, make sure you read this properly!!)
You should enjoy being told what to do by a female, we want to use you as our sex toy, so you need to take orders appropriately.
Serious replies only.
Thanks you
Bimales, over 8inches, for oral play only (yes, make sure you read this properly!!)
You should enjoy being told what to do by a female, we want to use you as our sex toy, so you need to take orders appropriately.
Serious replies only.
Thanks you
I was talk to somebody in the chatroom the other night and happened to mention that I enjoyed watching 2 men, when a male chatter piped up with "Sicko." Therefore I must be a pervert. :lol2
Hey Kiss
Thats not perverted that maximising opportunities lol
Yes I love it too, so if your thinking of setting up a chatoom on the subject, then count me in........pervrts r us!
Hey Kiss
Thats not perverted that maximising opportunities lol
Yes I love it too, so if your thinking of setting up a chatoom on the subject, then count me in........pervrts r us!
Think we are pretty good at spotting wind up ads, but dont think we are so good at spotting wind up chat rooms, lol.
Call us naive (if you dare) but we kinda assume that everyone is as open about sex as us and we have our tails firmly between our legs at the moment.
You know when you have a Too Good To Be True feeling? Yeh, us too, lol........wise after the event......We happened upon a chat room the other day, which was basically a male member offerning a female member (yes both were in the room chatting) . The room was something along the lines of Dirty Slut available to fcuk today in our local area.
Wow we thought, lets have a chat.......
Chatted away, whispered back and forth, arrangements were made...........
I think people should be done for trades description act ....hee hee.....tongue in cheek here! Needless to say, she was not, a Slut that is, and had no intention, of playing that is.............think it was all a kind of elaborate wind up with us as the victims. Seems he wanted her to be one, a Slut that is, and she was actually a very sweet lovely young woman who was a pleasure to meet. But definitely not what is said on the tin (or Chat room!)
Now dont go reading his and taking it as if we are p***ed off, we arnt! Its always fun to make new friends on here, but the question we are now left with asking ourselves, is Are we more perverse than we thought?
All answers on a postcard please..........no second thoughts, dont!
Anyone had similar experiences relating to Chat Rooms?
Thank you for reading this pathetic diatribe, which i needed to get off my chest, lol.
Have a fantastic day everyone xxx
Call us naive (if you dare) but we kinda assume that everyone is as open about sex as us and we have our tails firmly between our legs at the moment.
You know when you have a Too Good To Be True feeling? Yeh, us too, lol........wise after the event......We happened upon a chat room the other day, which was basically a male member offerning a female member (yes both were in the room chatting) . The room was something along the lines of Dirty Slut available to fcuk today in our local area.
Wow we thought, lets have a chat.......
Chatted away, whispered back and forth, arrangements were made...........
I think people should be done for trades description act ....hee hee.....tongue in cheek here! Needless to say, she was not, a Slut that is, and had no intention, of playing that is.............think it was all a kind of elaborate wind up with us as the victims. Seems he wanted her to be one, a Slut that is, and she was actually a very sweet lovely young woman who was a pleasure to meet. But definitely not what is said on the tin (or Chat room!)
Now dont go reading his and taking it as if we are p***ed off, we arnt! Its always fun to make new friends on here, but the question we are now left with asking ourselves, is Are we more perverse than we thought?
All answers on a postcard please..........no second thoughts, dont!
Anyone had similar experiences relating to Chat Rooms?
Thank you for reading this pathetic diatribe, which i needed to get off my chest, lol.
Have a fantastic day everyone xxx
I would have been interested, until i read your profile.......
Some peeps dont post pics on this site for all sorts of reasons. We are actually a couple (yes, really are together in real life, lol) but are in managerial posts in our work and chose not to post any.
Obviously you need to be discrete for your own personal reasons.
What put us off though, was that your viewpoint comes across as very aggressive. Maybe Im being sensitive today (Me, Mistress, sensitive - that would be a first!) but you may want to tone it down slightly so as not to frighten off others. Maybe you have had loads of replies, so this advice is unecessary, but its only a comment from us who read it
Good luck for the future and have lots of naughty fun.
Some peeps dont post pics on this site for all sorts of reasons. We are actually a couple (yes, really are together in real life, lol) but are in managerial posts in our work and chose not to post any.
Obviously you need to be discrete for your own personal reasons.
What put us off though, was that your viewpoint comes across as very aggressive. Maybe Im being sensitive today (Me, Mistress, sensitive - that would be a first!) but you may want to tone it down slightly so as not to frighten off others. Maybe you have had loads of replies, so this advice is unecessary, but its only a comment from us who read it
Good luck for the future and have lots of naughty fun.
Yes, indeed a switch.....which is a very sexy place to be.......you could say best of both worlds, lol
`I have a girlfriend who is sub to me, but Domme with males which is most interesting. We occasionally team up and my male sub gets the full benefit of our domination.......
`i think another aspect of this kind of sex play is that if you treat each other with respect, no matter what role you play, then everyone benefits. I personally prefer to have long term subs but I have another friend who only enjoys seeing sub males once. She however is quite cruel....lol........she isnt on this website guys, lol!
Mistress
`I have a girlfriend who is sub to me, but Domme with males which is most interesting. We occasionally team up and my male sub gets the full benefit of our domination.......
`i think another aspect of this kind of sex play is that if you treat each other with respect, no matter what role you play, then everyone benefits. I personally prefer to have long term subs but I have another friend who only enjoys seeing sub males once. She however is quite cruel....lol........she isnt on this website guys, lol!
Mistress
If you talk to any person with a taste for BDSM you will never get the same response.....the whole point is that is personal to the individual.
First thing you need to discover is are you sub or dom.........you may already know or you may want to try both....
Some folk just like the occasional smack on the bum and others like much more......
Try things, that is the only way to discover what you like and dont like. `if you have a regular partner who shares your interests then that will help as they will get to know your limits. Always use a safe word so that you can stop if things go further than you are comfortable with.
BDSM mostly utilises the most important sexual organ of the body - the brain.....
Feel free to pm me
First thing you need to discover is are you sub or dom.........you may already know or you may want to try both....
Some folk just like the occasional smack on the bum and others like much more......
Try things, that is the only way to discover what you like and dont like. `if you have a regular partner who shares your interests then that will help as they will get to know your limits. Always use a safe word so that you can stop if things go further than you are comfortable with.
BDSM mostly utilises the most important sexual organ of the body - the brain.....
Feel free to pm me
Hi lovely peeps
Just a quickie to say hello to all the lovely people that we have chatted to through the forum or chatrooms.
An apology to our new friends who we have not yet managed to catch up with since we came down with a hugely nasty flu bug which made us retreat to our beds and sweat it out for a while. (yes, I know thats what we normally do, but this time no sex was involved, lol)
So here we are, fit, horny and ready to take full advantage of the full moon..................
Anyone want to say "You poor things" and "If only i had known, I would have been your nursemaid" then feel free. We may be well again, but never turn down an offer of role play, lol.
xxx
Just a quickie to say hello to all the lovely people that we have chatted to through the forum or chatrooms.
An apology to our new friends who we have not yet managed to catch up with since we came down with a hugely nasty flu bug which made us retreat to our beds and sweat it out for a while. (yes, I know thats what we normally do, but this time no sex was involved, lol)
So here we are, fit, horny and ready to take full advantage of the full moon..................
Anyone want to say "You poor things" and "If only i had known, I would have been your nursemaid" then feel free. We may be well again, but never turn down an offer of role play, lol.
xxx
Hi All
Seeking some extra curricular activities this week, so are looking for VWE bi or i curious males for close encounters of the orally bi type with him indoors, and me being a bossy voyeur as is per my raison d'etre.....
Any fit, hung and genuine guys state your reasons for wanting to mix with us naughty peeps and we will get back to you if you are what we are looking for.
Seeking some extra curricular activities this week, so are looking for VWE bi or i curious males for close encounters of the orally bi type with him indoors, and me being a bossy voyeur as is per my raison d'etre.....
Any fit, hung and genuine guys state your reasons for wanting to mix with us naughty peeps and we will get back to you if you are what we are looking for.
I suppose that I should say that with my prediliction for BDSM that I would have been the cause of STDs (sexually traumatic disabilities!) but suffice it to say that I have never injured (not without their permission first, lol) any poor soul in this way.
However one thing that brings a tear to my eye is something that happened when my partner was away on business. I was feeling very horny and lamenting his loss for the past 2 weeks when I rediscovered the fucking machine that said partner had made some years before.........oh yes a real fucking machine that he made all by himself, clever boy!
After spending some days pleasuing myself in various ways, but actually feeling the need for some deep meaningful penetration, I gave in to the machines pleading. All was wonderful, i was lying back enjoying the joys of a cock that never gets tired or slows down at the wrong point, when i decided to speed it up a little more, then a little more .....you know how it is.
Fantastic orgasm after orgasm and the feeling of total wellbeing..........as the euphoria wore off, I realised that I had given myself friction burns in the most painful place of all. So that put paid to any further play until my partner returned - mercifully I was healed by then.
I resisted the urge to go to the Drs. and get some cooling balm and instead used a few ice cubes to help the throbbing. Let that be a word of warning for you, incase you are thinking of robotic sex yourselves.........lol
However one thing that brings a tear to my eye is something that happened when my partner was away on business. I was feeling very horny and lamenting his loss for the past 2 weeks when I rediscovered the fucking machine that said partner had made some years before.........oh yes a real fucking machine that he made all by himself, clever boy!
After spending some days pleasuing myself in various ways, but actually feeling the need for some deep meaningful penetration, I gave in to the machines pleading. All was wonderful, i was lying back enjoying the joys of a cock that never gets tired or slows down at the wrong point, when i decided to speed it up a little more, then a little more .....you know how it is.
Fantastic orgasm after orgasm and the feeling of total wellbeing..........as the euphoria wore off, I realised that I had given myself friction burns in the most painful place of all. So that put paid to any further play until my partner returned - mercifully I was healed by then.
I resisted the urge to go to the Drs. and get some cooling balm and instead used a few ice cubes to help the throbbing. Let that be a word of warning for you, incase you are thinking of robotic sex yourselves.........lol
Our ad shows what we seek so please take a look.
Unfortuantely alot of peeps dont read ads properly, so be good and do so if you are interested in contacting us.
We are seeking fantasy fulfilment so VWE is above 7" (no response if you are less or do not say) and any blk guys go to the front of the queue.
Have lots of fun, be safe and be polite if you respond to us as we aim to do ourselves.
Take care
Mistress
Unfortuantely alot of peeps dont read ads properly, so be good and do so if you are interested in contacting us.
We are seeking fantasy fulfilment so VWE is above 7" (no response if you are less or do not say) and any blk guys go to the front of the queue.
Have lots of fun, be safe and be polite if you respond to us as we aim to do ourselves.
Take care
Mistress
mmmmmmmmm bit of a sore subject, since an arrangement was made for last evening and I had a no-show.
Now what should I do, you are thinking. Class him a timewaster and whip (!!) off a vicious message? No, i think that sometimes you need to look at the bigger picture.
This guy was new to the BDSM scene and only a youngster, I shall spare his blushes, so under 25 is all I will say.
I indeed realise that sometimes things come in the way of meets and the other party may not be able to let you know in time. I would never label someone a timewaster until they have had their say.
I have mailed the young man in question and asked, politely, if he is well and if he merely had an attack of nerves. Not uncommon in my experience. I have made no judgement upon him, since I do not know him.
If he wishes to contact me, then I have let him know he is more than welcome.
I think that as the more mature (eeeeeugh horrid word!) members of the BDSM community we should be tolerant when dealing with new blood. They may merely be testing the water and who am I to put them off!
Suffice it to say, that should this young man contact me again and decide to be taken under my wing, then he may well pay for his past mistakes.............maybe...........or maybe not, lol. I am a fickle Mistress today, lol.
Mistress
Now what should I do, you are thinking. Class him a timewaster and whip (!!) off a vicious message? No, i think that sometimes you need to look at the bigger picture.
This guy was new to the BDSM scene and only a youngster, I shall spare his blushes, so under 25 is all I will say.
I indeed realise that sometimes things come in the way of meets and the other party may not be able to let you know in time. I would never label someone a timewaster until they have had their say.
I have mailed the young man in question and asked, politely, if he is well and if he merely had an attack of nerves. Not uncommon in my experience. I have made no judgement upon him, since I do not know him.
If he wishes to contact me, then I have let him know he is more than welcome.
I think that as the more mature (eeeeeugh horrid word!) members of the BDSM community we should be tolerant when dealing with new blood. They may merely be testing the water and who am I to put them off!
Suffice it to say, that should this young man contact me again and decide to be taken under my wing, then he may well pay for his past mistakes.............maybe...........or maybe not, lol. I am a fickle Mistress today, lol.
Mistress
Hi
I would say that, generally speaking, I am in favour of hold ups. They come in lots of designs and sizes (although these differ from retailer to retailer so watch out) and are good with tight fitting outfits, such as pvc where you dont want lumps and bumps to show.
However when wearing a gown or dress, nothing is sexier than a corset, body or just plain sexy suspender belt with some stockings - I think most men would go with this choice.
I think it also depends on your mood, somehow stockings are a sexier raunchier prospect for all concerned.
M
I would say that, generally speaking, I am in favour of hold ups. They come in lots of designs and sizes (although these differ from retailer to retailer so watch out) and are good with tight fitting outfits, such as pvc where you dont want lumps and bumps to show.
However when wearing a gown or dress, nothing is sexier than a corset, body or just plain sexy suspender belt with some stockings - I think most men would go with this choice.
I think it also depends on your mood, somehow stockings are a sexier raunchier prospect for all concerned.
M
Thank you very much for your response to my forum subject today.
Its amazing how much info you can get just by placing a query here. Its all very imforamative and i am clearing a space to work as we speak - so there goes his study, lol.
Would love to hear more from you should you find anything else out and if you ever have the need for some kinky wear then feel free to get in touch again, lol.
(As if any of us have the need for kinky wear!)
Mistress
Its amazing how much info you can get just by placing a query here. Its all very imforamative and i am clearing a space to work as we speak - so there goes his study, lol.
Would love to hear more from you should you find anything else out and if you ever have the need for some kinky wear then feel free to get in touch again, lol.
(As if any of us have the need for kinky wear!)
Mistress
Hi everyone
After trawling shops and the internet for hours looking for some classy and trashy (if the mood fits, lol) corsetry and specialist underwear, I have finally given up and decided that it would be more beneficial for me to make it myself.
I have found a few patterns and wonder if anyone out there has any website addresses for this kind of thing? Not looking for finished garments as I am well educated in the use of sewing machines etc. as I make wedding and bridal wear already, but need some basic patterns which I can adapt to whatever design I need.
Oh, in my quest for information I spoke to someone who said that corsets for men were becoming the rage in the fetish world. Anyone think this is true?
So if you have any info or want to chat further on this then pm me.
If you have any old patterns or such like then I would love to hear from you. I have itchy fingers to create some new things and I guess they may feature in my photos in the near future, lol!
MISTRESS
After trawling shops and the internet for hours looking for some classy and trashy (if the mood fits, lol) corsetry and specialist underwear, I have finally given up and decided that it would be more beneficial for me to make it myself.
I have found a few patterns and wonder if anyone out there has any website addresses for this kind of thing? Not looking for finished garments as I am well educated in the use of sewing machines etc. as I make wedding and bridal wear already, but need some basic patterns which I can adapt to whatever design I need.
Oh, in my quest for information I spoke to someone who said that corsets for men were becoming the rage in the fetish world. Anyone think this is true?
So if you have any info or want to chat further on this then pm me.
If you have any old patterns or such like then I would love to hear from you. I have itchy fingers to create some new things and I guess they may feature in my photos in the near future, lol!
MISTRESS
Good afternoon to you, Redhot
Thank you for your sensible advice!!
I think a bodyguard, actually he is my sub, is a wise move on my part. Im not worried about the deviants (I am one of them, lol) just more concerned about monitoring what is going on whilst we play. A polite distance from the car etc.
Any further advice would be welcomed.
xx
Thank you for your sensible advice!!
I think a bodyguard, actually he is my sub, is a wise move on my part. Im not worried about the deviants (I am one of them, lol) just more concerned about monitoring what is going on whilst we play. A polite distance from the car etc.
Any further advice would be welcomed.
xx
Thanks for your comments shadowrider.
Obviously you have re read and realise that I would never be so stupid as to risk mine or my girlfriends safety.
If everyone in this world followed the rules then there would be no problems, but unfortunately there are always a small minority who wish to try and take advantage!
Hence my request for other peoples experiences and advice.
Dont know if the scenario appeals to men - anyone interested?
Obviously you have re read and realise that I would never be so stupid as to risk mine or my girlfriends safety.
If everyone in this world followed the rules then there would be no problems, but unfortunately there are always a small minority who wish to try and take advantage!
Hence my request for other peoples experiences and advice.
Dont know if the scenario appeals to men - anyone interested?
Wondering how this works exactly.
Me and my girlfriend have a desire to be watched performing (fem2fem) by a number of men.
Have bodyguard/male protection so be warned. Its look but not touch. No pics/video just men watching and wanking.
Is this of interest to anyone?
Late evening/early morning in the next couple of weeks.
Reply with suggestions as to where, how to arrange this etc.
Me and my girlfriend have a desire to be watched performing (fem2fem) by a number of men.
Have bodyguard/male protection so be warned. Its look but not touch. No pics/video just men watching and wanking.
Is this of interest to anyone?
Late evening/early morning in the next couple of weeks.
Reply with suggestions as to where, how to arrange this etc.
