Quote by bluexxx
Damn!I've checked my bank account, and all my savings, and I STILL don't have enough to buy this:
I only need 1.8 million and I could be the proud owner of a mansion in Wales... Imagine the parties I could have in that!!!!
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I've only ever been with white women, but would be happy to shag any woman regardless of colour. Having said that, if I'm looking at porn I always avoid oriental, black or asian women. In the "porn" context, I just don't find them attractive, although if it was a "hands on flesh" situation with black, whilte or any skin colour I'd be there... :P
Quote by Cleethorpes
Hi everyone.
Just signed up today.
I'm new to this so any help would be appreciated. I'm a 44 year old male from North East Lincs looking for a bit of fun.
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Here goes peeps an question for u all...
If sex were a food..Which food would u like it to be .. and why ??? :evil2:
Lucyxx
:) :) Quote by mellow
my partner says that my avator implies i like to be spanked.....it's not true, lol, i thought it was more like, "keep doing those TOUCH YOUR TOES EXERCISES or you'll never be ready for the munch!!!!!!"
what does your avator say about you??
:lol: :lol: Quote by Crazy_Jamez_2004
Hi i am sick of women and sometimes couples asking for a person with a well endowed cock. It drives me up the wall. Sometimes i think is it worth living anymore because of it.
Jim :cry:
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We watched an absolutely fantastic film the other night,really thought film is The butterfly effect and i'd advise everyone to watch it.
Anyway it got me thinking :shock: ,the plot is about a lad who has blackouts,and its only when he's in adulthood that he starts to remember then finds out that he can go back to these blackouts and change the events that happened whilst he was blacked out.
Changing these events have repocussions on his future and blah blah blah (i won't say anymore and really spoil it for anyone who wants to watch it).
Now the question is,if you could go back to a particular point in your life and change the events would you and what sort of effect would it have on your present life (are you still with me)
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I know people have done threads on life changing events before,but this involves the repocussions it would have on the rest of your life.
There are a few things that i would have liked to change in my life,but the first one would result in me never meeting Clare,which would be second happened at the start of the year and was very upsetting for me,but if i was to change the events so that a certain something never happened then me and Clare would have possibly never got into the swinging scene,so thats another no no.
Quote by Alexandra
I was just downstairs making myself a bit of breakfast and I was listening to Radio 2.
A song came on that took me right back to my youth.
It was Gordon Lightfoot with 'If you could read my mind'. I had to stay and listen to the very end. And I really mean listen, because this song, along with so many back then actually told a story and you could feel the emotions behind it. It was simple song (with no obcenities), no 'sampling', no electronics, just a vocalist (who could actually sing words you could here and understand) , a guitar (that was played melodically) and subtle backing.
It made me think that at my age I have been priviledged to be around when so many wonderful and innovating things first appeared as well as such varied music.
(btw I am not slating todays music but I do wish they would learn to write new songs instead of ruining other peoples by editing bits into their own)
Some of the things that I am thrilled to have witnessed are......
The 'Swinging Sixties' (nooooo - it wasn't that type of swinging). I was only young. But I can remember my parents taking me to Carnaby Street!!!! Wow it was unbelievable. I remember getting a purple crushed velvet jacket with gold embroidery from there.
The music - Elvis & the Jordanaires, Cliff & the Drifters (name had to be changed to the Shadows because of the American Drifters), the Stones, the Beatles, Hermans Hermits (Feeling Groovy etc), the Who, the Kinks, Fleetwood Mac, T Rex etc etc etc etc. I even remember Tommy Steele (Little White Bull) and Billy Fury (Halfway to Paradise).
The clothes.... mini skirts and hot pants. I remeber having a yellow satin mini dress which was so short it came with matching knickers! I used to wear that with white leather knee length boots. My other favourite outfit at the time was majenta suede hotpants and matching lace up waistcoat. I wore that to work occasionaly at my first job - Tax Officer in Altrincham Tax Office! Then came the time of the afgan coats. I had the cheaper version a cloth brocade one with wooley fur lining - I really loved it till one day I was in a pub and noticed the seats were covered in exactly the same brocade!!!! - I was gutted.
Then was the space race...
First orbit of the earth. I think this was Russian and had a dog called Leika on board.
First man in space - again Russion - Yuri Gregarin
First men on the moon - American Buzz Aldrin et al
Other technological advances.
The computer! These were only just starting to be used and what we have sitting on our desks now would then have taken up the whole floor of an office block!
My first job with computers was as a programmer on an ICL1904 - that was about the size of 2 sideboards and only had a 5mb fixed disk. The 80mb removable disk was about the size of a big hatbox.
For home enthustasts, then came Things like the Acorn Electron, Sinclair ZX80/81/spectrum.
Now PCs and networks are commonplace and where would we be without the internet
Cars.... I rember the first car we had at home was an old 'Sit up and beg' Ford Popular. That was in the days when you could have a car in any colour you liked, so long as it was black! It had 2 little square windows at the back, and the indicators were little plastic orange arrows which flicked out.
Well - I am supposed to be working so I should leave it at this.
These are just a small number of the things which I am proud to have been around for, in my (almost) half century on this planet.
Now this is really a thread only for the oldies on here.
What things can you remember and thought that you were 'glad to be alive when that happened'
Quote by jomu
shalt wear thine rubbers. Thou shalt adorn thine male organs with the finest sheaths of latex for the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy.
shalt not fornicate before innocents. Keep thine revelries from the eyes of children and unsuspecting passersby, and refrain from disturbing the peace and attracting attention.
shalt not block thine neighbor's view. Take care thou dost not obscure the sight of thy fellow dogger, and yield the right of way to them who arrived before you.
shalt look with thine eyes, not with thine hands, until invited. Layest not thine hands upon a person without their explicit verbal permission.
the sanctity of a woman's right to refuse. What part of "No" dost thou not understand, thou pushy bastard?
thy neighbor's anonymity. Thou shalt not expose, blackmail, or otherwise compromise the privacy of thine fellow doggers.
shalt not destroy public property nor trespass upon private property. The country parks, beauty spots, lovers' lanes and car parks of the land shall not be desecrated through vandalism or carelessness.
shalt covet thy neighbour's wife. Thou shalt swing and make merry with thine own mate and all other consenting parties.
shalt clean up after thine own self. Before thou departest, gather unto thee all of thine used condoms, torn wrappers, discarded tissues and other rubbish, and dispose of them in a bin.
shalt drive safely and honor the laws, both while motoring and parking. Thou shalt not engage in reckless behaviour while in a moving vehicle, and thou shall park legally and engage the parking brake when at rest.
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Agreed its a shame that the country side life is decided by city people who dont understand the way of life
:x :x :x :x Quote by lucyweebaps
Why do some..( not all ) Single men spit out the dummy when they are told NO SINGLE MALES! Is it a pride thing?
Is It not everyones perogative on whom they desire or wish to swing with? We are all entitled to have our own personal sexual desires! ..So what gets me is why some of them don't understand and seem to take it very personal when told thx but not thx..Should We have to explain why the interest is not there! Personally I don't believe anyone should have to explain their reason."No thx should be enough ! Everyone has their own boundaries and desires. and those boundaries/desires should be repected by others! Perhaps if guilty ones took a leaf out of some of the other guys book s, Get to know Couples well before pressuring them then maybe have a bit more luck!
Lucy xx
PS ..Plz Note ( Not All Single Guys) before I get lynched for this post
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Why left-handers still feel left out
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Quote by corriefem
Well I have been on the site for a little while and have still to get my head around the questions OK has asked. I have never been in love with a partner who would have allowed swinging to take place and that is how I was brought up. Not that we never had fantasies just acted them out together
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Please accept my profound appologies for giviing the wrong impression in my recent post. :color:
Quote by JudyTV
How can one equate love and Swinging? Love is for a special person only! swinging is just sex! isn't it?one cannot mix the two! can they? When one meets their soulmate and they fall deeply in love, they want to have sex with that person only! don't they? surely not go round shagging everone and anyone, what message does that send to other people?
I do not wish to take the moral high ground here, but the mixing of love and swinging, even together, is a contradiction in terms! isn't it? how can one love their partner I.E. husband/wife/companion, if they are having sex with someone else? perhaps I am too old ! or the moral standards I was taught as a child, just don't apply any more !!! maybe, I have stood still, while the World has moved along !!! Does that make me a Dinausour???
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"Love is for a special person only." Well, we're in disagreement already; people can love lots of others - parents, brothers, sisters, children, long time friends and so on. So I suppose that what you mean is 'sexual love'. Certainly that is a special bond between people who are married, and it's another way of sharing. However, a deep meaningful relationship is a lot more than sex, which is only part (though a very good part) of it.
Some, perhaps most, couples prefer to limit sexual activity with each other, and that's fine. However, we're all different, and our approaches to sex are also very individual, obviously. Sexual activity is a very enjoyable thing, but I don't particularly see why it should be limited in the way you suggest, *as long as* both partners are happy with it. I'd much rather be with my partner, and watching her having an enjoyable time in a sexual activity than to be apart from her while we were both engaged in other activities. For us, it's all about sharing, and enjoying the other person enjoying something.
As for messages to other people - to be honest, I think the world would be a much better place if people shared more and fought less. Many of our friends know what we do, and I can honestly say that it's never caused a problem for any of them, and indeed some have tried it themselves, and have had a great time. So I think far from giving a negative message, it's actually a very positive one.
You say that you don't want to take the moral high ground, but that's exactly what you *are* trying to do, IMO. If you don't like what others do - that's fine, and I have no problem with it, but really, that's not what you're doing here, is it? Given your attitude and approach I really do have to wonder slightly as to your motivation for posting, but perhaps I'm just slightly cynical?
However, back to the point - I think you're confusing love and sex, and trying to make them equate to each other. Sure, for some, that's what works for them, but it doesn't for everyone. Love and sex compliment each other, but they're certainly not the same thing.
Another point that you make is also worth commenting on, and that's regarding the moral standards you were taught as a child. Morality is not something that stands still, nor are particular morals universal, one only has to look at different countries to see that. If your moral approach is fine for you - more power to you. However, your morals are not mine, and you shouldn't expect them to be. That doesn't mean you're right and I'm wrong, or vice versa, it just means that we're different, that's all. So no, the moral standards you were taught as a child (or at least those relating to sexual behaviour) don't apply to me, or many of the other people posting here, and I don't think you should either expect them to, or be surprised when they don't.
