I think cock rings are great fun, been using them for years. You must get the size right and that depends on if you are to sleep with it on as I have too (Dom Wife). A good size ID is 50mm and top quality crome steel or plastic. I’m not to sure what has been said before this post that I would agree with, but like all things if you keep it clean you will be fine. But one thing about cock rings, in order to get the right effect you need to get use to them, don’t just put them on thinking that’s it, it can take time for the body to get use to it.
I’ve have used cock rings for 6 years or more now and I’m still finding more fun ideas with it.
Hope this helps
Paul
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3 weeks ago
Bi-curious Male, 67
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You are so right Reece once in action then the world could watch me at it, or at least trying that is,,, to get my own cock in my own mouth lol I’m sure it would be the comedy show of the year. But when YOU have such a party peace (as you do) then you should charge an entrance fee lol. What’s the going rate?
That reminds me of the time that Rachel decided that she was going to wank me off into my own mouth. I had to put my back/ legs up the wall with my legs hanging over my head. With my arms holding me up and with my cock facing towards my mouth (my open mouth). She then started wanking me off until I cum. Her aim was terrible, the cum went all over my face and carpet. That’s a long time ago….
That reminds me of the time that Rachel decided that she was going to wank me off into my own mouth. I had to put my back/ legs up the wall with my legs hanging over my head. With my arms holding me up and with my cock facing towards my mouth (my open mouth). She then started wanking me off until I cum. Her aim was terrible, the cum went all over my face and carpet. That’s a long time ago….
Nimbus
You are right why not talk about it, which I do with Rachel, but it all comes at different stages of life doesn’t it. It was about 2 years ago that Rachel came out and said she would like to explore her Bi side. I’m becoming more curious as time goes by. I would have always said that I was straight but of late I’ve had the thought go through my mind of sucking a mans cock. I like to look at a man’s hard cock, something that I would have denied doing just a year ago. And would it just make more sense for me to keep the man happy while Rachel is having fun with his wife in a 4 some?
Vix
You enjoyed watching but how did Reece liked been watched? I am of the mind that a man would know what a man likes more that a women, I’m saying that because Rachel thinks that’s the way it is with girl on girl. I think that I could suck another mans cock better than Rachel could suck mine. I’m not saying that is the case with everybody else round here but in my house I think that is the case. But the other silly thing about it all is that I’m 6†away from being able to suck my own ‘dam’ I have tried.
Paul
You are right why not talk about it, which I do with Rachel, but it all comes at different stages of life doesn’t it. It was about 2 years ago that Rachel came out and said she would like to explore her Bi side. I’m becoming more curious as time goes by. I would have always said that I was straight but of late I’ve had the thought go through my mind of sucking a mans cock. I like to look at a man’s hard cock, something that I would have denied doing just a year ago. And would it just make more sense for me to keep the man happy while Rachel is having fun with his wife in a 4 some?
Vix
You enjoyed watching but how did Reece liked been watched? I am of the mind that a man would know what a man likes more that a women, I’m saying that because Rachel thinks that’s the way it is with girl on girl. I think that I could suck another mans cock better than Rachel could suck mine. I’m not saying that is the case with everybody else round here but in my house I think that is the case. But the other silly thing about it all is that I’m 6†away from being able to suck my own ‘dam’ I have tried.
Paul
Thank you all for your votes over the 3 polls.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/23427.html
My aim was to get a feel of the split between man and women to their Bi tendencies and more to the point how your partners would like your roll to be.
The interesting vote must be that women seem to want to watch their straight man with another man. When I asked Rachel she said she would like to see me on a man. Could I ask some of you to expand on why and to what end please? Is the poll right, is their more interest into 4 way Bi swinging? Or is it more of a fantasy. I would have said bi girl on girl would have topped the poll.
Rachel and I are as kinky as they come but we are still trying find what we are and what we are looking for.
Thank you all
Paul
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/23427.html
My aim was to get a feel of the split between man and women to their Bi tendencies and more to the point how your partners would like your roll to be.
The interesting vote must be that women seem to want to watch their straight man with another man. When I asked Rachel she said she would like to see me on a man. Could I ask some of you to expand on why and to what end please? Is the poll right, is their more interest into 4 way Bi swinging? Or is it more of a fantasy. I would have said bi girl on girl would have topped the poll.
Rachel and I are as kinky as they come but we are still trying find what we are and what we are looking for.
Thank you all
Paul
OK We have had the question/poll
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/23427.html
on swinging Bi or straight as couples but what is the balance between the Bi men and Bi women in a steady long term relationship. So to keep the singles involved but not confuse the poll I have included a singles option.
Have fun
Paul
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/23427.html
on swinging Bi or straight as couples but what is the balance between the Bi men and Bi women in a steady long term relationship. So to keep the singles involved but not confuse the poll I have included a singles option.
Have fun
Paul
It’s a shame when an interesting subject gets hijacked, but then it is a swinger’s site after all.
But please let me add to Calista’s interesting comments. I am sub to my wife Rachel but Rachel is more interested in exploring her bi side than being a Dom. I don’t feel too happy just having a one-sided femDom relationship; I want Rachel to have what she wants too. We are happy playing and enjoy our games very much but I feel that Rachel and I are in no mans land. She is not a swinger; we have been active in a swingers club once but that just confirmed Rachel’s needs for girl on girl is strong and she dose not want or need an other man. I think Calista is right it a difficult crossover from the BDSM scene to the swingers scene. The only thing I can see would suit us both is, if I was cuckolded by Rachel. But instead of Rachel being with a man she would be with a woman or couple where I would be made to service all 3 as a sub or if the other male was also a sub. But it is true that the sub learns to trust his own Dom. and only his own Dom. in which case all sorts of things could and would be made to happen by Rachel I'm sure, but only on my own Dom’s command. A good Dom. would look after her sub and know how to use him.
We haven’t tried a foursome with like minded people and have no idea if it’s the done thing but I would like to learn more from people in a similar situation as us. I’m happy to go to a swinger’s club but would not touch another woman unless ordered to by Rachel and that’s a case that I don’t need to be with another woman. Most men would think I’m made LOL
Regards,
Paul
But please let me add to Calista’s interesting comments. I am sub to my wife Rachel but Rachel is more interested in exploring her bi side than being a Dom. I don’t feel too happy just having a one-sided femDom relationship; I want Rachel to have what she wants too. We are happy playing and enjoy our games very much but I feel that Rachel and I are in no mans land. She is not a swinger; we have been active in a swingers club once but that just confirmed Rachel’s needs for girl on girl is strong and she dose not want or need an other man. I think Calista is right it a difficult crossover from the BDSM scene to the swingers scene. The only thing I can see would suit us both is, if I was cuckolded by Rachel. But instead of Rachel being with a man she would be with a woman or couple where I would be made to service all 3 as a sub or if the other male was also a sub. But it is true that the sub learns to trust his own Dom. and only his own Dom. in which case all sorts of things could and would be made to happen by Rachel I'm sure, but only on my own Dom’s command. A good Dom. would look after her sub and know how to use him.
We haven’t tried a foursome with like minded people and have no idea if it’s the done thing but I would like to learn more from people in a similar situation as us. I’m happy to go to a swinger’s club but would not touch another woman unless ordered to by Rachel and that’s a case that I don’t need to be with another woman. Most men would think I’m made LOL
Regards,
Paul
Well after considering the “giving†Rachel of a Bi-Night for losing weight I’ve decided that I will set Rachel with some weight lose targets then when she reaches each target I will take her to a club and let her free with the women. My thinking here is that going to a club cuts out the problems with being let down, we could arrange to meet people and if they let us down their will still be other people we can meet in the club.
We have only been to one club and that was Chameleons on a Saturday couples night so if anybody could advice us on our best night to find a woman or have any other ideas please let me know.
Thanks
Paul
We have only been to one club and that was Chameleons on a Saturday couples night so if anybody could advice us on our best night to find a woman or have any other ideas please let me know.
Thanks
Paul
Well put Andy and thanks for your response
It’s not a question of how I want Rachel to look it’s what Rachel wants that’s important. I only want to help Rachel with what she wants to do. When I go over a certain weight I start to feel bulky and tired, I think we all have a maximum weight we can carry and still feel fit, so you hit the nail on the head, we both want to feel better in our selves. And of cause this time of year weight comes to mind thinking how we want to look on the beach in the summer lol.
Thanks for that
Paul
It’s not a question of how I want Rachel to look it’s what Rachel wants that’s important. I only want to help Rachel with what she wants to do. When I go over a certain weight I start to feel bulky and tired, I think we all have a maximum weight we can carry and still feel fit, so you hit the nail on the head, we both want to feel better in our selves. And of cause this time of year weight comes to mind thinking how we want to look on the beach in the summer lol.
Thanks for that
Paul
Well it’s like this Joe Blow, when Rachel reads this thread she will react in one of two ways; Reply to this thread her self with her thoughts or just ignore me and the posts all together. But she won’t mind in the least that we are talking about weight and sex.
“My only concern is that nice rounded girls do not become an endangered species,- tastes do varyâ€. Well Joe Blow weight goes on easier than it comes off so don’t think you have too much to worry about on that score!
She likes to have fun and if we can all have fun together all the better. As for “Super idea, but you not really NOT going to be there are you?!†well has I’ve said before if anything dose come of this then it will be down to the other people involved, of cause I would love to be involved but understand I’m thinking that girls can help each other lose weight here.
Just throwing ideas around
Thanks for your replies
Paul
“My only concern is that nice rounded girls do not become an endangered species,- tastes do varyâ€. Well Joe Blow weight goes on easier than it comes off so don’t think you have too much to worry about on that score!
She likes to have fun and if we can all have fun together all the better. As for “Super idea, but you not really NOT going to be there are you?!†well has I’ve said before if anything dose come of this then it will be down to the other people involved, of cause I would love to be involved but understand I’m thinking that girls can help each other lose weight here.
Just throwing ideas around
Thanks for your replies
Paul
I guess it is a way of asking for girl on girl Sappho but in this case I’m not asking for anything for my self, I just want to help Rachel and anybody else in the same boat lose weight and let them enjoy the results of there efforts. But you do make a point Sappho it could just be another way to get girl on girl or for me to get my kinky ways. But no! The girls could completely exclude me/us men from being present if that’s want they want and as for Rachel, well’ she wont know about this post until she gets home from work tonight. She might like the idea and then she may not but she will appreciate my efforts in trying to help, after all I can’t force her to do anything.
I’m searching for ways to motivate someone that want’s to lose some weight, I have loads of ideas but this seems to be an ideal place to ask about any of the kinky ideas I have. Hope I’m not out of place.
All the best
I’m searching for ways to motivate someone that want’s to lose some weight, I have loads of ideas but this seems to be an ideal place to ask about any of the kinky ideas I have. Hope I’m not out of place.
All the best
Hi
I don’t see this as an advert at the moment more of a topic about using sex to assist in weight loses.
This is a bit of a wild idea I know but is there anybody in the midlands area that would let his wife have Bisexual sessions as reward for her losing weight?
My wife would love to enjoy playing with another woman but has not really had the opportunity. I would love to offer her a woman encounter as reward for reaching her targets as motivation.
I’m sure there must be other people that could play this type of “game†to help their wives lose weight. Of course this is not a today meeting but for me to say to Rachel my wife that if/when you lose X amount of weight you will be given a women to play with would motivate her no end. Could you imagine two women being told that when they lose X amount of weight they can have each other as they please?
I’m sure there is a way to do this with out going down the pro route.
Has anybody else have any ideas?
All the best
Paul
I don’t see this as an advert at the moment more of a topic about using sex to assist in weight loses.
This is a bit of a wild idea I know but is there anybody in the midlands area that would let his wife have Bisexual sessions as reward for her losing weight?
My wife would love to enjoy playing with another woman but has not really had the opportunity. I would love to offer her a woman encounter as reward for reaching her targets as motivation.
I’m sure there must be other people that could play this type of “game†to help their wives lose weight. Of course this is not a today meeting but for me to say to Rachel my wife that if/when you lose X amount of weight you will be given a women to play with would motivate her no end. Could you imagine two women being told that when they lose X amount of weight they can have each other as they please?
I’m sure there is a way to do this with out going down the pro route.
Has anybody else have any ideas?
All the best
Paul
Thanks Blue eyes
But how fare dose one have to go to be classed as a swinger may I ask. I mean dose walking thought the door at a club qualify you as a member of the swinging community. And will I be getting a badge or something to commemorate the occasion.
But in any case I know we will be in good company if we do qualify lol
Thanks again
Paul
But how fare dose one have to go to be classed as a swinger may I ask. I mean dose walking thought the door at a club qualify you as a member of the swinging community. And will I be getting a badge or something to commemorate the occasion.
But in any case I know we will be in good company if we do qualify lol
Thanks again
Paul
We listened to the programs Kilroy and radio 2 and we are not put off one little bit, in fact it has help us a lot. The way I see this ‘is’ some other people just don’t have the adventure as we have. It’s them who don’t know what they are missing. Rachel and I are swinging virgins at the moment and who knows that maybe the way we stay, but we are looking and that’s all that can be asked of us. We are the lucky ones by having the ability to explore our inner sexual feelings, fantasies. If we were asked the question on swinging the day we got married who knows what we would have said at that time. The world is full of people telling you what’s good for you, but just look at the state of the world. You just have to accept that our likes are not everybody’s cup of tea and get on with it or we would all be like the sad people trying to tell us what we should be doing.
Anyway it was just a free advert wasn’t it.
8 days to go to our first night at a club LOL
Paul
Anyway it was just a free advert wasn’t it.
8 days to go to our first night at a club LOL
Paul
Mmmmm,,, Mark I will have a look at it tonight. I will edit out all the other stuff and come back to you on file size. I have in the past issued radio broadcasts on the Internet myself with no problems at all, just can’t remember what I did at this very moment in time but it was not in mp3 way back then.
As they say leave it to me
Paul
As they say leave it to me
Paul
.Jane I guess that location has something to do with it, but time will pay in the long run I’m sure. Rachel and I are in the same boat, we are out for the first time trying to meet other people but I guess that living in Birmingham helps us by having a number of clubs around. It’s all about taking the first steps for us and not knowing what to expect but we have been contacted by people who want to help from this forum so give it time. It’s as much about making friends as it is having sex or living our fantasies to us, I hope that is the case in the scene anyway. The problem I have is knowing what I want, Rachel wants to go with other women while I watch them together (yes guys that’s what she wants me to do WATCH) I’m not sure where I fit in, so we are not sure if going to a swingers club will accommodate what we are looking for. We are open-minded but I don’t think Rachel wants another man, I/we could be wrong. So what do all these spare men do at these clubs while Rachel is with their wives?
We are going to a club in Darlaston on the 18th Oct so I guess we will find out LOL
We are going to a club in Darlaston on the 18th Oct so I guess we will find out LOL
