Quote by fem_4_taboo
maybe the fear of going missing in action is making some members hold back on what they say?
parinoid?
the same quietness is happening in the chatrooms.
it could be said there times when people are not so active, but from my experience and what i have witnessed there is alot of fear in posting/chatting.
the rules are there for good reason, but there seems to be such discretion used. one person will do something and disapear other can blatently flout rules.
this inputs a fear or a "whats the point" attitude.
this is only my opinion and i can not talk for everyone.
if im not back in 24 hours, dont come looking for me , ill be another mia.
xx fem xx
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I remember this place when it was "proper live n kickin"
you could count the "users online in the forums" literally in the hundreds (been a long time since that happened)
Personally I blame the PC brigade that some how infiltrated the site, and before anyone says it, no I don't think it had anything to do with the takeover, the rot had set in way before then.
I have always maintained that to be a member of a swing site, you need a thick skin, that’s because by our very nature, we are unorthodox, slightly away from the mainstream
not quite fitting into the "normal" basket :crazy: not quite your local vicar material.I think what happened was that far too many of us, old school included, tried far too hard to prove otherwise.
Look, its as easy as this. WE ARE SWINGERS ……………..
what? We are ffs, get used to it, it does actually mean that in the main we are regarded / perceived as PERVERTS.
And I think that one of the main things that killed the forums, and is now starting to kill the chat rooms is that we are all trying ‘oh so hard’ to prove to the world that we aint.
Which is shit,
what we should be doing is standing up for what we believe in, and showing the world our lily white spotty arse (or ebony black spotty arse for that matter) and telling them, hey, this is the way it is ok? If you don’t like it, move on:
So yeah cummon, lets get back to some real debates, lets see some proper balls from admin, (you’ve been here long enough now to know how it really works guys) that we can shoot down in flames, and be flamed back without having to do the mysterious disappearing act :roll:
THIS IS A DEVIANT SITE FOR PPL WHO SOCIETY CLASSES AS DEVIANTS :roll: ffs stop trying to dress us up as anything else and lets get some proper debate going here.
Cat + pidgins =
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Bye everyone, been a blast
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:lol: :inlove:
now that really did give me a glow.