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i vote to stand up to the bullies !!!
been there done that got the t shirt chesty ive been in the same situation about 9 yrs ago with a pub i had in colchester the local thug (aka idiot they werent brave enough to call him that to his face )he decided the friday in question was his night to start a fight with the bar staff and was throwen out by the doormen ohhh dont get me wrong he went only to arrive back at 3 in the morning with a present ie a brick straight threw the window i was on my own at the time with 3 young kids while he was hurling abuse outside and all the plant pots .
as usual the police were called and he was lifted i pressed charges against him until after the court case where he received a £150 fine and community service of 30 hrs of it was cleaning my beer garden to say i enjoyed every minute of him picking up all the shit that had collected there (especially the stuff i keep throwing all all over garden and bless even our dog helped out lol)mind u i do admit that i had a trusty freind MR BASEBALL BAT which i would have used if he had even thught about stepping out of line sumtimes its not easy to stand up to bullies but in this line of work u will meet them on a regular basis especially when the demon drink is involved ,this is this ladies home and her childrens death threats are usually made in vain yes there is alot of idiots in pubs but the good usually rule out the numptys dont let this man ruin ur liveyhood and ur good name push the police to install panic buttons and if need be make them do a pass by every hour as a publican u have that right if u are under threat of any sort and if they dont comply with this take it to the cheif of police and papers to be honest be a right pain in the arse they will get bored with u ringing the station and just start doing it to stop u ringing lol worked in my case :twisted: dont let this man ruin all uve worked for !!! good luck and stay strong xxxxxx
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Quote by Theladyisaminx
What are your views?
Do you have sex just for sexs sake?
I have done, it really does depend on the circumstances of the meet, I have had a few really raunchy and sexually intense ‘one night stands’ for want of a better description, but also had some fantastic experiences with women who I took time to get to know.
Do you like to meet a stranger and keep it that way?
Again, this all depends on the situation
Do you like me need to feel a connection before you have sex with someone?
Yes, but what’s your definition of ‘connection’ and are you including any sort of time span involved with it? I’ll try to explain, although I have answered your first question in the affirmative, there was always a feeling of connection, but one that was very quickly established over a short period of time, say a chance meeting in a restaurant or hotel, or even in the street. I remember one occasion where the mutual attraction / connection was almost instant with just one look across a crowded bar room we knew instantly that we were going to get it on that night. Cliché I know but true never the less.
Do you feel to build a friendship could risk your relationship?
Yes, without a doubt :lol2: sorry I shouldn’t laugh but I can see the funny side of it now. As a few of the old sweats on here will know, I was married for 30 years, we got into the lifestyle about 6 years ago and had a lot of great fun, then we met a guy, yes off this site with whom we became really friendly, well long story short I’ve been single for just over a year now, you can guess the rest.
Just thought I would ask as we all have our own ways of doing things. And I find the whole swinging scene fasinating by different peoples way of doing things!
I’m with you on this one, and love reading these kind of threads as it gives you a real insight into how people perceive the whole idea of swinging and partnerships. Good thread made interesting reading :thumbup:
Let me know your views!
Thanks
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Quote by splendid_
whichever way I look at this I can't do it.
unless there is a B + B close by that I can use for a sat night? I am going to put my thinking cap on.
Quote by Bonedigger
I ,love being talked really dirty to, when having sex, and to a lesser extent talking dirty to my partner
Quote by well_busty_babe
there is a young lady on here who is a bit upset on my msn that she never got any valentines message!
so to her...
a few words do not determine how loved you are, some people assume that you would already know how much they love you - so would not feel the need to tell you.
oh, and i luffs ya too!
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Quote by Mr-Powers
it seems to be a popular thing now for people turning their front gardens into driveways to park their cars but not getting the kerb lowered by the councils...if i see a parking space regardless of where it is...if the kerb isn't lowered i take the space simple as that...if they couldn't be bothered to get it lowered through the proper channels why should i care if they can't get in or out of their frontgarden.