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3 Oct 2006

Quote by LadyFeeBee
Rainbows!!!
Are you still on your mission to turn all the straight women bi??? :lol:
It'll never work you know!
Fee
XX

Hello sexy silly

assionkiss:
Nah - it didn't work. Couldn't find any takers wink

Do you think Kiss and I should combined forces and make another attempt? :twisted:
Rsxx :color:

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3 Oct 2006

Quote by wild rose and the stag
and the people that sent pms calling her a slag are fair to are they?
of course as you say they are entitled to their opinion like you say!

No - that would be abusive and out of line. They should be reported.
I did not say I agreed with abusive behaviour Staggy. Disagreement is one thing. Abuse is another.
I am surprised that a man of your obvious intelligence would confuse the two.
RSxx :color:

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3 Oct 2006

Quote by Calista
Am I the only person to remember the tale of the lady who came on posting about her husband, meeting people off here behind her back and was tragically killed coming back from a meet! I was handled very well (IMO) by a mod but I've never forgotten the pain in her posts.

No you're not Calista. I remember it well as I was online at the time she posted. I remember that she thanked my and Lilttle Gem for telling him the same thing you are saying now. It is something I have never ever forgotten. I cried for a long time even though I had never met the man.
I hate the way threads like this turn into abuse of the person who points out that the poster is cheating. Yes - everyone has a right to do what they feel is right and within their own comfort zone, but you must remember what swinging is about. So many people confuse the words swingiing with sleezy and cheating (just as so many people used to confuse the words homsexual and ). I think Calista and Lilac Gem are right to stand up and say - "hope you get it sorted (which Calista did), but just be aware that you are on a swingers site - not a cheaters site".
I know I will get attacked for being judgemental. I am not being that. I am just pointing out that I do not agree with confusing the words cheating and swinging. They are two completely different things.
Rsxx :color:

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2 Oct 2006

Quote by corriefem
. Anyway I want to join the apprentices for Bi training. Like Missy as you know Rainbows I am straight but there must be a course to allow you the opportunity to try a taster and see if its for you. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: welcome back xxxxxxxxxxxx

CORRIE!!!!

assionkiss:
I'll be on the phone first thing to the LSC to see if they are planning any tasters in your area! Promise! :lol: :lol: I'll even offer to be a tutor :twisted:
Hey Mr Laird - how you doing gorgeous?! And the Lady? :passionkiss: :passionkiss:
And Cue - good to c ya.
Oh and Choon. I saw ya babe :passionkiss: .
:cheers: :cheers:
Oh and Missy - yes it was indelible I seem to remember having to explain to Mr and Mrs R why I had "Lick Here" and an arrow in black marker on my stomach :lol: redface

As for "take the pissy outta missy" - hey could be a new game! Better than ping pong wink

Rsxx :color:

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2 Oct 2006

Quote by pebb_bambam
Apparently Rainbows has cancelled her application for this particular occupation, she's far too busy with fish :cry:

:lol:
and other things wink

Leave my fish alone. They are cute cool

Rsxx :color:

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2 Oct 2006

Quote by Missy
- tipped the poor girl up at allsorts of angles looking for instructions ....... and all I could find was what translated to "cool wash, do not tumble dry" :shock:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Oh I remember that! lol

:lol: Kinda remember sending you diagramatical instructions too! :lol:
Manolishi, and anybody else who doesn't understand - I am sorry to post something that may be seen as a bit of an "in" joke. But you see - I don't come round here often enough - so I do have to kinda pick up where I left off wink

Please feel free to join in and embarass Missy bolt

RsXX :color:

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2 Oct 2006

Quote by Missy
Been trying to get bi'd Bows - ain't easy when yer a straight girl ..............

:lol: :lol: :lol:
Oh dear - I'm panting from all that running around going "Yeehaw - almost!" :lol: I'm with Shireen - You do crack me up Missy! biggrin

Quote by Missy
So you've done summer, does that mean we've got a cosy winter with you around these parts more??:

Kinda hope so. Gonna try see what I can do in between working full time (yup - back to that lark), setting up my website (the summer stuff just online), college and looking after 13 fish tanks. Umm - no don't ask - I'm still trying to explain the 13 fish tanks to Mr and Mrs R redface

But I DO intend to pop i n as much as I can - even if it is just to rush around after you begging for a snog wink

RsXX :color:

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2 Oct 2006

Missy, Missy, Missy wave

As you know I have been away working my butt off over summer*. Now I am back - can you tell me if you are bisexual yet? Or do I have to go away and come back in another year? wink

RSxx :color:
It was lovely seeing the few that popped by to say hello in Manchester biggrin

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2 Oct 2006

Quote by Sexy_couple1_06
We have been using the chatroom,

Whassat?

:dunno:
Oooh yes - I remember now - that'll be the place I ventured into one night in an attempt to do something daring for a change (like walking up a couple's front door alone isn't daring enough rolleyes

).. There were loads of words whizzing all over the page, and I coudn't keep up so I played, "click on the button and see what happens", at which point I suddenly had a pic of Staggy in bed, and he was telling me off for not saying hello. Yup - that'll be the place.
Nah - life is a lot less hectic in the forum!
Anyway - what was I saying? Oh yes - good luck. Can't see any problems with asking to meet people your own age, even if there are some damn sexy "oldies" out there. Have fun whatever you do wink

Rsxx :color:

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2 Oct 2006

Dammie,

I have always battled with monogomous relationships and never even got near to the stage of marriage or what I could now have in the form of a commitment ceremony. I always felt that no one person could fulfill all my needs, just as no one group of friends could fulfill the variety that I enjoy in my life.
For a short time swinging seemed to give me the answers, but I found that I just couldn't be "impersonal" enough (and I know that isn't the correct way to describe what I mean - but I can't find the correct words so please don't knock me for useing that one). I also wanted evenings in front of the TV with a bottle of wine, or just cuddling etc. Perhaps if I had been part a couple swinging it may have been different, but as a single person I still felt something lacking. But I knew that swinging provided me with part of what I looked for, and becuase I had read a bit about poly, I had an inkling that what I was was not a swinger but poly. I was lucky enough to meet Mr and Mrs R through this site, who weren't really swingers either. Mrs R was bisexualish (I love it! biggrin

), but they weren't sure that the swinging lifestlye was what they were after. When I broached the subject of Poly with Mrs R she immediately identified with what I was saying, and we have now been together for coming onto 2 years. No - not a long term monogomous relationship yet, but the longest relationship I have actually had in my life to date, and one which I could honestly see me being in for the rest of my life. It isn't easy sometimes, but that isn't through the relationship being lacking - that's just because society can't accept the relationship we have, so it has to remain in the closet.
I know this isn't about swinging - its about being poly - but I think what it comes down to is that we all have different needs in our lives. We all respond to different stimuli. And the one male/one female for the rest of your life "model" just doesn't fit everybody. Unfortunately I doubt there will ever be a day when society accepts that.
I just think the most important thing is to follow one's heart, and be oneself, becuase as long as you aren't hurting anyone, then fluck what society thinks.
Just my opinion on an interesting topic.
Rsxx :color:

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30 Sep 2006

Watching? Always nice! Well methinks so anyway :twisted:
Rsxx :color:

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30 Sep 2006

When meeting a couple, its really nice to have a glass or two of wine. Even better to skip down to the hottub at the bottom of the garden, have a few more glasses of wine, have a cuddle - maybe more wink

All very nice. But when walking back to house in the dark, do NOT step in dog poo and then spend the next 15mins in the bath with a shower attachment trying to clean yourself up redface

. It just kinda kills the evening!
Luckily it was Mr and Mrs R I was with!!! lol

I cannot imagine the embarassment if that happened on my first meet with them! surprised

ops:
Oh and hello everyone wave

Big kisses to all passionkiss

assionkiss:
Rs xx :color:

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29 Sep 2006

A cuppa coffee sounds just perfect before I head off to a meeting. Thanks Dawn. Strong one please.
Rs :color:

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23 Jun 2006

Gotta echo what the others have said. It can take months to find the right person for you, but it is worth taking that time to find someone you gel with, and who feels relaxed in your company.
I know it has already been said but a single bi fem needs to feel "right" abotu the coupel she is meeting. Try and put yourself in the shoes of the single bi fem, and get a feel for why she needs to get to know a couple and feel relaxed and safe before meeting them. If you can show that you are prepared to take take the time to get to know someone, and give them the space to feel safe and relaxed, and non pressured, then you're half way there.
Good luck - and be patient.
aRSexx :color:
btw - can someone please tell me why I suddenly dreamt of Freckledbird last night?! :shock:

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13 Jun 2006

You get off to bed Lampchop. And remember - we are all there for you. Loads of people here care about you.
:therethere: :therethere:
BIG HUGS
aRSexx :color:

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13 Jun 2006

Lambchop. Yes - I have felt that way - and yes I have tried. But you know what - I am glad I never made it. PM me if you need to chat. I'll give you my phone number if nec and will be here all night for you if you need it. Because it does help to talk. And no I won't patronise. Big hugs to you!!!!!!
aRSexx :color:
And don't apologise - you have nothing to apologise for!

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13 Jun 2006

Quote by the_Laird

(You want us to kiss that better now )

Oooh yes please :twisted: :twisted:
aRSexx :color:

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13 Jun 2006

I'm with Sassy on first times - but I gona get all soppy now, 'cos Mrs R does it for me everytime . and Mr R- well - I love him to bits - but man snogs just aren't the same for me as girlie ones redface

. Love you though darling xxx
aRSexx :color:

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13 Jun 2006

Quote by the_Laird
Yeah, and rubbed it in by phoning us at the time
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Shoulda planned it better - I know! Soz gorgeous and missus gorgeous passionkiss

aRSexx :color:

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13 Jun 2006

Quote by the_Laird
Well hello there gorgeous
Where ya been
xxxxxxx

LAIRD!!!!!!! :bounce: :bounce: Drove past you a couple of weeks ago! Made me all trembly it did!! Or was that the wheel coming off the van? wink

aRSexx :color:
(now known as whitevandyke)

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13 Jun 2006

Quote by westerross
I've been told that that's true if it is delivered properly!

you know - now that you mention it - I thinkI agree. The method of delivery is extremely important. Especially when dealing with tongue and groove products I find.
aRSexx :color:

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13 Jun 2006

Quote by corriefem
do they do new and used in forums lol lol

Depends who you talk to babe wink

Sometimes I log in here and really am not sure which category I fall into :shock: :wink:
Good to see ya passionkiss

Oh by the way - just a bit of advice - used condoms can be a bit iffy confused

aRSexx :color:

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13 Jun 2006

Quote by westerross
Well according to this place you should wait about 9 inches! But after that then it really is too long!!

Geez - that's kinda long :shock: . I thought 6 inches might be a bit more of a realistic time to wait? But some say that if the parcel is wider it can be a better buy. Would you agree with that?
aRSexx :color:

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13 Jun 2006

I spent all day forumming today. The witty sarcasm was there (just)- but the sexy avatars were well missing! Don't ever let me get lost on ebay forums again. Not one (no not even one*) post about whether size mattered :shock:
aRSexx :color:
* actually no I lie - I got excited by the "how long?" thread - but it turned out to be how long one should wait for an item confused

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13 Jun 2006

Quote by westerross
How're you sweetie? Long time no see!!

Loving the weather biggrin

. Good lord - it has been ages hasn't it!!

assionkiss: :passionkiss:
aRSexx :color:

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13 Jun 2006

Oooh - ooh - Am I too late to flirt with Jags????????
'cos I know that one day she will succcumb wink

aRSexx :color:

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13 Jun 2006

You see - I knew there was a reason for me to log on tonight. WELL DONE girl!!!!! biggrin

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
aRSexx :color:

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13 Jun 2006

Ooh goodie!! You interested in stamp collecting? Could really do with a stamp chat tonight!

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24 Mar 2006

Oh I hate this - as a temp, VERY hard up for cash, working for local govt at the moment, I shall have no option but to pass the picket line on Tuesday - and I will HATE every minute of it sad

:(. I agree with what the strike is about but I can't afford to lose a days pay!! SORRY
aRSe :color:

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24 Mar 2006

As someone who actually sells things I never do the 99p thing if I can help it, but when I get the "keep the change" comment - I am ever so grateful. But then I guess it makes a difference when you are a market trader trying to battle it out, rather than a large commercial concern.
As for those pennies I get from the 99p return. For sure I get them - and yes they do get cashed in eventually. My bank hates me!! :twisted:
aRSexx :color:

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