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Yo Bowz, how goez?:lol:
Chillin' man just chillin'. readin all yours posts man. Cool
This the place to be ya know. All you dudes jus chillin out like. 's cool man - dig? aRSe :color:
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Rainbows
Over 90 days ago
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assionkiss: :passionkiss: Well my view as a single is that I have to be interested in both for it to go any further so blanking one of a coupe would just not be within my remit! If I liked one person out of a couple, but not the other - then what would be the point? In a purely social setting , again - I think it would be downright rude to just show interest in one!
Just my POV.
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Just my POV.
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So...... being a tri national (Zimbabwean/Scottish/English) I donned the blue and thistle on Saturday. Ventured bravely into a house adorned with the Irish Flag. Bravely shouted for Scotland whilst being threatend with eviction - not least by the 82 year old sat in the corner! We lost.
Today I donned the red, white and blue - and hanged my head in shame whilst being jeered by at least one of the a forementioned Irish.
Next week I am donning the green and white of Zimbabwe. That way - I can't lose either way!!!!!
Rs xx :color:
Today I donned the red, white and blue - and hanged my head in shame whilst being jeered by at least one of the a forementioned Irish.
Next week I am donning the green and white of Zimbabwe. That way - I can't lose either way!!!!!
Rs xx :color:
Quote by VenusnMars
ello, room for one more?! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Oh hell - run everyone - Quick!!! There'll be another clicque thread soon! :shock: :shock:
And Sappho darling - congratulations once again. If the next 1, 2 or 3 are anything like the twins I am definitely coming over to pinch a couple! :inlove:
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Quote by little gem
I'm only a whee whipper snapper and apparently come across as quite innocent ...
Little gem - can you please send me a wet wipe for me screen. Just blew red wine all over it!!! INNOCENT. Yeah right - and I'm straight!!!
:lol: Wee whipper snapper I agree with
Freckly - wassup girl? You seem to have the patience of a teacher on speed! Need a hug? Cummon guys - if Fred wants to have a moan about his fave thread being un stickied - let him. You don't have to read or interact of you don't wanna!. Plenty of other threads to read and enjoy.
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Well - gotta give em credit - they changed it. But what waffle!!!! Lawyers at their best I say. Well done guys. I hope you pay your lawyers well!!!! 'cos they sure know the art of baffle!!! :shock: :shock:
What happened to the campaign for laymans language or whatever it was called?!!
So - reading between the legal lines - it's free to register...but if you wanna do anything else it's gonna cost you. But we won't charge you for adult minder - or whatever it's called.
Why don't you just list the costs and benefits out per grade?
aRSexx
What happened to the campaign for laymans language or whatever it was called?!!
So - reading between the legal lines - it's free to register...but if you wanna do anything else it's gonna cost you. But we won't charge you for adult minder - or whatever it's called.
Why don't you just list the costs and benefits out per grade?
aRSexx
Okay folks - here is your chance to stand up and debate for your side.
Currently signed up to this site we have the following : -
1...Swingers
2...Doggers
3...Quick shag seekees
So - I ask you - debate nicely and decently - what is the difference?
The tabloid media would have you believe that being a swinger means that you are just open to a quick shag.
The aforementioned media would have you believe that as a dogger you'll shag anything.
The swingers and doggers believe that those on here who beieve that they can get a quick shag out of either are grossly mistaken.
So - time to put your views forward in the Rainbows debate..........
aRSexx
Currently signed up to this site we have the following : -
1...Swingers
2...Doggers
3...Quick shag seekees
So - I ask you - debate nicely and decently - what is the difference?
The tabloid media would have you believe that being a swinger means that you are just open to a quick shag.
The aforementioned media would have you believe that as a dogger you'll shag anything.
The swingers and doggers believe that those on here who beieve that they can get a quick shag out of either are grossly mistaken.
So - time to put your views forward in the Rainbows debate..........
aRSexx
Quote by Martin_M
The gallery function was requested time and time again by members of this site as a feature that they wanted to see.
Sorry Martin - but may I ask if those members were the swinging members or the "quick shag - this is a sex site" new members? You still state in your "About Us" section that "Swinging Heaven is about you and about being a part of a friendly swinging community. Yes, it was started by us, and is now maintained by us, along with a lot of help from a few Moderators and chatroom OPs, but it's your site, and is only what it is because of YOU!". Yes - we all know these are old words - but as you still display them - then surely as members of a swinging community we have a right to complain when the site moves away from being a "friendly swinging community". I am sorry - but it just seems to me that you want this to be a quick shag site and will do everything to make it so - and as long as more and more people join up to a "quick shag site" you can claim that the majority want what you are doing.
It seems to me that you have no respect for what the swinging community wants!!
The sad thing, as far as I am concerned, is that you just need one tabloid journalist to log onto this site now and years of hard work on the part of the community goes down the drain. Hard work tryingto show that swining is not a seedy underworld of quick shags, but ana lternative lifestlye enjoyed by respectable people, doing no-one any harm. Log on here now and you coudl be excused for thinking differently. Thanks Martin!!!
aRSexx
I, personaly, am one of those that wants a fem/fem phone call first - and I would never agree to cam first. For a start I don't feel you can have a "real" conversatin on cam - but chatting on the phone can tell you a lot wihtout it ever being said. I can work out in a phone call if I am likely to click with someone much more than I would on cam. And as for being attractive - well no matter how hard I try I NEVER look attractive on cam!!
I agree with what the others say. You have your "rules" and others have theirs. Maybe a bit of compromise coud go a long way. For example - if I was having a phone chat that I felt was going well, then at the same time as having that chat I may agree to start chatting via cam. But if you really won't go with the phone call frist, well then, you'd probably be sent a "thanks a tonne, but no thanks" email. And vice versa would obviously be just as acceptable.
aRSexx :color:
I agree with what the others say. You have your "rules" and others have theirs. Maybe a bit of compromise coud go a long way. For example - if I was having a phone chat that I felt was going well, then at the same time as having that chat I may agree to start chatting via cam. But if you really won't go with the phone call frist, well then, you'd probably be sent a "thanks a tonne, but no thanks" email. And vice versa would obviously be just as acceptable.
aRSexx :color:
Quote by quimninja2003
thanks for your reply it took me to meet my hubby for me to admit that i was bi curious and i am glad i have i am looking forward to it just abit nervous.
Don't be nervous hun. My advice to you is to wait until you meet someone that you really click with rather than just do 'cos you can't wait. When you click with someone it will just feel so natural and all those nerves will go I can assure you
As for losing that immense feelign after the first time - nah - whoever said that was, in my opinion, doing it because they wanted it not becuase they click. One of my current partners was kinda bi-curious when we first met (she had had one experience before - that was all) and a year on things are still going great :twisted: Remember - the more you get to know someone the better the sex is. I do feel that is important with fem on fem, becuase I know, for me at least, it takes a while to find out all those little bits that really work. Not everyone is the same and experimenting is sooo much fun :twisted: .Good luck
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