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30 Mar 2006

Quote by poshkate
i..theres a site u can go on to stop all the annoying phone calls.......can't remember what it is but will check and let you know tomorrow
xx

It's this one - The Telephone preference Service -

Stops sales calls to both land lines and mobiles as well as junk mail through the post etc.
Once registered, it takes about a month to take effect, but is very a very good service, but it won't stop you appearing on such sites as the one mentioned, as you would have to opt out of these on the next Electoral Registration form by ticking the appropriate box on the form of registration or by going ex-directory on your phone provider.
HTH
T-J

30 Mar 2006

Quote by DeviousLiasons
Excuse me if this has already been covered... but I only found out about it yesterday while at work. Have a look at.....

It must be some kind of electrol roll... where you can type in a surname and place and find people... It gives out address's and on some...even phone numbers!!!!
Dunno about you lot... But I'm not to chuffed with my details being on it... !!!!!
:shock:

Hmmm that site must be playing up now.... we just tried looking you up... put in "LilMiss" and "Blackpool".... says no records found!
:doh: I knew some wag would do that and of course it just *had* to be you

rotflmao

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
T-J xxx

30 Mar 2006

Quote by Lilmiss

Dunno about you lot... But I'm not to chuffed with my details being on it... !!!!!
:shock:

Sites such as this can make freely available anything such as Electoral Registers, Phone Directories etc which are in the public domain.
As from last year anyone can opt out of such publicly available registers, so although you would still have to be on the original, you can opt out of the one available to the general public.
However, sites such as that may still continue to use outdated registers or directories so details may still be available to those who want them.
Some of that site is out of date anyway. My own details are at least five or six years out of date as they show my oldest son's still living at home and they haven't been here for over sex years lol

lol

This site would not be covered under the same rules as this is a private site so in theory they would not publish personal details since they have not been gleaned from a publicly available source.
If they intended to do it however, they would have to inform members and at least give them the choice to remove details first.
I know everyone craves their personal freedom about their details, but what most people do not realise is the extent of publicly available details about our everyday lives.
Even the national indexes to births, marriages and deaths is now on line since this is also a public domain service and can be accessed by anyone in the world..
We don't have as much privacy as we think believe me, but it's no reason to become paranoid wink

wink

:lol:
Tracy-Jayne

27 Mar 2006

Quote by robinhood1983
Been a member for quite a while but never seem to see anything :cry:

:shock: There is lots going on in Bournemouth . . . . you've obviously been looking in the wrong places . . . . or not looking in the right ones wink

wink

Tracy-Jayne

27 Mar 2006

:twisted: Ooh! Fresh meat . . . . :twisted: wink

wink

Tracy-Jayne

24 Mar 2006

Quote by nwbigfella
I am out and about in my Van tonight, if anyone up for fun.
nwbigfella

You're not the guy someone posted about yesterday are you - the one with the Swingingheaven locations map pasted on the back doors of their van? :shock:
If you are smackbottom

smackbottom

. . . . . . . and if you're not have a good night and hope you find some fun wink

wink

:twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
No sugar in my coffee thanks :wink:

24 Mar 2006

Quote by easyease
besides if i was trying to rip them to shreds id name names.

:shock: Would you? What a wonderful guy you must be . . . . I thought naming names was not allowed on this site in any shape or form. Whether they had contacted you or not is irrelevant confused

confused

Hey ho! We live and learn . . .
T-J
Mike48 you can come out of the corner now . . . and bend yourself over my knee :twisted:

24 Mar 2006

Quote by NLondonJohn
Just a thought, but do you feel your nickname may tend to discourage people from meeting you in dark car parks?
Well, at least it's not "madaxeman"

My thoughts entirely :lol:
Tracy-Jayne

24 Mar 2006

Quote by easyease
another one from a male half of a couple "Prefer married guys, as more chance of being drug & disease free" yeah right a marriage license is instant safe sex

rolleyes

What's this - rip the piss out of other people's ads day?
So some ad's may leave a lot to be desired and we all know the same people will eventually come on here moaning that they didn't get instant gratification, but is that any reason to critise their ads in such a fashion?
A little constructive critisism may be helpful, but simply tearing them apart in jest is not the way to go IMO.
Perhaps next time you see such an ad, you could do what most of us do and simply pass it by without a second thought.
You probably spent more time constructing your post than they did on their ads . . . . it says a lot about both of you confused

confused

Tracy-Jayne

24 Mar 2006

biggrin

'Ello you! kiss

kiss

T-J

23 Mar 2006

Quote by teppic
dead...with you around......nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Exactly - they dead because I've not been out much recently :twisted: lol

lol

Hi btw

kiss

wink

T-J

23 Mar 2006

:bounce: Ooh! That date is better for us and means we won't have to miss the main party as we would on the first dates you had biggrin

biggrin

See you soon wink

wink

T-J & Jon

23 Mar 2006

Most of the Bournemouth area sites are quite dead at night lately, so I doubt there is much going on during the day, but good luck anyway lol

lol

Tracy-Jayne

21 Mar 2006

Quote by dpg230272
i suggest posting a pm saying what the problem is to either
the_laird
jo-annish
they are both chatroom ops and will both help sort your problem out
daz and jen xxxx

May I just point out here that Jo-annish is only an op wthin her own room, not across the whole chatroom.
The chatroom op's are
Ian_mids
Dawn_mids
Chesty_bird
Biwelsh-minx
the_laird
Jon
Shireen
Steve_mids
and me lol

lol

Feel free to pm any one of us for help or send a pm to one of the admin team
st3v3
Elliot
Noel
Martin_M
Please don't feel you have been conned because you are having a few teething problems with the chatroom. All good things come to those who wait and I'm sure you'll be in chat before you know it wink

wink

Tracy-Jayne

17 Mar 2006

:shock: :shock: Blimey! Over two years as a member and this is your first post :shock: lol

lol

Wonder if you hold the record for the longest time between joining and posting? :lol:
Tracy-Jayne

17 Mar 2006

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We can make the Fri night but sadly not the main party on Sat as that is our youngest son's 21st birthday.
However, he may be having his party on the Fri (subject to venue confirmation next week) so if he does, then if we're not too hungover we'll come Sat night instead lol

lol

T-J & Jon xxxxx
ps. Mike I don't believe your text - can it really be a combined party for your new house and
80th birthday? :shock: :twisted:

13 Mar 2006

:bounce: Happy Birthday! :bounce:
Hope you have a great day and don't work too hard wink

wink

T-J & Jon

kiss

8 Mar 2006

Fantastic news for you all biggrin

biggrin

I hope all continue's to go well for her. What an inspiration and a treasure she must be kiss

kiss

Tracy-Jayne

8 Mar 2006

If you were the only person in the room and then left it, the room would close automatically behind you. It only stays open if anyone is still in there smile

smile

T-J

4 Mar 2006

Quote by Darkfire
you didnt seriously pay Â£50 for that username did you??
:doh:

rotflmao

:rotflmao: My thoughts entirely!
Anyway, C4C you told me you were going to change your user name in pm the other day . . . . . .
I did warn you it wouldn't get you anywhere with the ladies on here rolleyes

rolleyes

wink

Tracy-Jayne

28 Feb 2006

Quote by firelizard
WELL!!! of all the places to bump into your MUM :shock:
Here we are minding our own business and all of your's of course when who should pop up, but celtic_passion, who turns out to be my Mum and her husband

:shock: :shock:

rotflmao

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Welcome to both of you . . . . Keeping it in the family . . . I see where your daughter gets it from . . . . or was it the other way around? innocent

innocent

bolt

Tracy-Jayne

26 Feb 2006

:shock: Def the theme tune from Dr Who and that swirly thing at the art of the show! :scared:
Even now if I hear it, it would make my flesh crawl, although I don't quite rush to hide behind the sofa as I did when I was little redface

redface

lol

CLOWNS! OMG! I was frightened at a circus when I was around 3 1/2 years old by a hugh clown with bright green and orange hair :shock: :eeek:
Sitting with my mother a couple of rows back from the front, he rushed over to us, swept me up into the air and ran around the circus ring with my held over his head :shock: :eeek:
I remember screaming my head off . . . . . and pissing myself in fright, which ran down his arms on onto his sleeves surprised

surprised

ops: :fuckinghell: :giveup:
I can still vividly remember how thick the white makeup was on his face. It was cracked and flaky, his lip makeup was quite grotesque and he had foul breath too confused

confused

So yup! Even 40 years later there is no way you'd get me asking Ronald McDonald for his autograph or buying one of his manky burgers either :scared: :scared: :scared: :lol:
Tracy-Jayne

26 Feb 2006

Quote by Darkfire
(Dark enters unchartered territory and steps into the Dogging section ....... :shock: )

/rubs hands together and wicked grin . . . . . "come over here my lovely into the darkest recess of the car park . . . . and let me sort you out" :twisted: lol

lol

T-J xx

26 Feb 2006

Quote by MOA
TAre we doing something wrong? we do approach and chat with other couples, admitedly Mrs Moa a bit aprehensive, just needs taking in hand by confident woman,

Maybe dogging is not the best way to go if you are after girl/girl action?
If Mrs MOA is apprehensive, perhaps you would be better forming a friendship with another couple first and see if that takes you down the road you want to try?
At least that way, Mrs MOA can decide if and when the time feels right for her to move on a step.
Just meeting up with a perfect stranger in a car park and getting down to it (along with no doubt at least a handful of eager dogging guys watching), may not really be what she is after, hence the apprehension?
Good luck!
Tracy-Jayne

24 Feb 2006

Quote by McCloggie
OK I have to ask
How on earth (no pun intended!) but how do you get a clit piercing to flash at all - let alone like a traffic light?
McC

Quite easily - you buy a flashing belly bar and wear that. It's a hoot wink

wink

Tracy-Jayne

24 Feb 2006

rolleyes

Well I'm sure the hotel in question would be pleased as punch to know they are getting free advertising on here confused

confused

T-J

22 Feb 2006

confused

Is it just me, or can no one else make head or tail of this one either? dunno

dunno

lol

Tracy-Jayne

22 Feb 2006

Well I have to say I DO wish people would cover up a bit more, especially in the summer.
Not saying we need to start covering the legs of tables as happened in Victorian times, but I think there i nothing worse than trying to battle your way around the shops on a busy summer Saturday afternoon and finding yourself being brushed past by sweaty heaving bodies, with very little clothing on them confused

confused

I mean what can possibly possess people to go to Tesco in their bikini or just a pair of shorts? The mind boggles it really does.
There is a time and place for scanty clothing and the High Street is not one of them IMHO lol

lol

Tracy-Jayne

22 Feb 2006

Quote by jakyladycple
but the naked walk over well i am not sure im up for that yet lol
jaky xxxxxxx

Well it wasn't actually totally naked . . . . I did have my stockings and sussies on . . . and a pair of shoes :lol2:
T-J

21 Feb 2006

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
However, they may say why are you out dogging if you dont want attention, but I think I understand were you are coming from, as there are a couple of guys at our regular place who we do not like being around us, just give me the creeps, so we just stop playing as soon as they turn up. If they dont get the message I tell them to sod off. Normally Mr NWC just shakes his head in disbelief at me

:P A girl after my own heart Mrs NWC :wink:
Jon will tell them sometimes, but usually I don't give him the chance lol

lol

We recently had a guy watching us from across the other side of a car park, sitting inside his car with a nightscope on his head rolleyes

rolleyes

When several doggers called across to him to turn it off because it was disturbing me and he refused, I marched naked across the car park and had a *quiet* word with him . . . .
He soon drove off in a hurry :wink:
No need to be rude or abusive. Most times, the guys will leave when asked to do so if you make it plain you don't want their attentions :wink:
T-J