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Quote by H-x
I don't tend to go on cam but I've had as many unwanted whispers from couples as single guys and even single women, even though my profile says I'm not looking for them. Like I said, sensible room hosting is the best way to get rid of this, however kicking someone merely because they have a certain profile and before they've even put finger to keyboard is not entirely fair is it?
H.x

I am sure most people know the rules of using chat and will report anyone they feel has become a nuisance - and I have to agree with H-X - it is NOT always single males who whisper uninvited.
I have lost count of the times I have been in chat in my non op account, only to get whispers asking if I want to talk dirty with them/swap MSN details/go on cam etc etc - and probably at a ratio of 1 in 4 of such whispers are from couples accounts confused
So I, as I am sure have the other op's had first hand experience of this.
H-X also says about booting someone on account of their status not being fair - I agree - but it is also against the rules and anyone who is reported as doing so, will have the room logs checked by admin and receive an official warning or ban, depending on the severity of the situation.
Quote by bbw_lover
I think the Ops should make special note of this too. The idea that all single guys are automatically are problem is akin to saying all men are rapists.

This statement I do have a problem with and hope that it may be that I have taken it out of context.
It reads to me that the suggestion is that the op's are on the look out for single males causing problems - almost as if we are persecuting them, and perhaps not noticing any other account status which may also cause trouble? :shock: :?
If that is what is being inferred, I can only say how sad that makes me feel as a op sad
Every single one of us work bloody hard behind the scenes, and I can say in all honesty, there is not one single chat op that I would see as being as bigoted as to single out certain accounts types for special note as to their behaviour.
Day in, day out, we see problems arise involving ALL account types.
We treat them all the same - and single males certainly do NOT get treated more harshly than couples or fems.
My personal feeling is this - we only ever swing with single males - and we have met some fantastic guys from this site and have remained very close friends with many of them. Thus we know first hand that not all single guys are idiots.
However, when we go in to chat - that is what we do - chat.
I couldn't give a fiddler's fart if the guy I am talking to is a 3ft midget with one leg - no offense to midgets with one leg btw ;-)
Of if the couple have only one eye each in the middle of their forehead lol
We are there to CHAT!
I am personally not a fan of segregating rooms by account types, but since having couples only rooms was one of the most requested features for the new chat rooms, it is one that will be provided on a trial basis. As Dawn says, if it doesn't work out, then it will be removed.
Now can we all get back to chatting nicely again? biggrin
TJ
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Quote by de_sade
Or spend more time in the forums (the conversation is usually better anyway)

:shock: smackbottom
:evil2:
Unfortunately there is no way in the present chatrooms to block uninvited whispers.
Please report anyone is is persistent and we will have a quiet word in their ear ;-)
TJ
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Quote by woohoo
FFs you lot stop hijacking this poor guys post and leave us short ugly gits alone rolleyes
Woo

Where? Where?
Ooh! there you are ....................
all the way down there :giggle:
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Quote by woohoo
Aw Fi redface
You are a sweetiepie too xx

Which, roughly translated into English means "Fi giz a shag tha noo" :lol2:
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Quote by HannahnAlex
anyone help me out

Sure Hannah . . . . . . the door's over there > > > > >
:giggle:
Sorry can't be more help redface
TJ xxx
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Of all the times I ever saw Debb she was smiling and I had absolutely no idea she was ill. She was always happy, chatty and full of fun
My sincere condolences to her family and friends :therethere:
One of the bright lights has gone out of the BBW room sad
TJ xxx
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Quote by normanmounford
Kitty had greeted me many times as had the other regulars in the room had, so stupidly I thought she wouldn’t mind.

Quite apart from the fact that it clearly states in site rules that it is not permissible to copy or download site content, perhaps if you had bothered to ASK Kitty in the first place, whether she minded or not, this situation would never have arisen rolleyes
TJ
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http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/152721.html
Have a look at this thread for some tips for AOL users
TJ
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Have a look at this thread in the Cafe. It appears that the pic system is not working correctly at present.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/170792.html
TJ
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Quote by flower411
OH Crikey ....did I say it was a she ??? :giggle:

:shock: :shock: :shock:
Erm . . . . ok . . . I'll leave you to it then :grin:
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Quote by flower411
Trouble is, there now seems to be a bit of a rumour going about that said opp fancies me

Quick! Tell me who it was and I'll make an appointment for her at Specasvers :giggle:
Quote by flower411
So, all i can say is , thanks very much !! lol :lol: Doesn`t do my street cred any harm at all wink

No! but it might harm hers :evil2: innocent
TJ kiss
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Quote by Kiss
Yet another single male posing as a couple to find out info - or so it seems. wink

That maybe so, but is it absolutely necessary to have a dig every time? confused
Live and let live . . . .
TJ
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Quote by Kent_Gent50
This mornong I have tried to log into the chat room only to be told that the authourisation has failed because I am alredy logged in.
I logged out of Sh completeley for 10 mins tried again and got the same message.
Please help

Perhaps you are still in a room somewhere? Did you log out correctly last time you were on?
Not saying this is the case her, but some members do not log out correctly each time they leave the site and leave their account open and idle in chat.
In such cases you will not be able to get back into chat, unless an op goes in and boots you out. You would then be able to log in again.
I'll go and have a look around for you ;-)
TJ
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Quote by Rising
In particular Kidney transplant?

A friend of our youngest son had one of his kidney's removed when he was aged 4 years and donated to his cousin aged 3 years.
Their mother's are sisters and naturally one sister felt her son could help the other's - which was successful.
They are both now in early 20's and don't seem to have had any particular problems, apart from that neither of them can drink very much alcohol and become drunk on very little if not careful.
Aside from that, both healthy and my son's friend has two small children now too smile
TJ
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Quote by Kiss
If you are posting in the forum you aren't banned anywhere!

Actually that is incorrect. You can be banned from chatrooms, but still use the Forum.
It is only when you are banned from the site as a whole, that you can't post on the Forum ;-)
TJ
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My family have a very high incidence of cancer and my sisters and I are currently being evaluated for a genetic inheritance risk.
My younger sister had cervical cancer at age 19 years and still a virgin, so the sexual promiscuity factor was not relevant in her case at least.
Personally, if I had a daughter, I would definitely ask them if they wanted to have such a vaccination if it were available.
Cancer in all forms is a horrible disease, and in my opinion, anything that may lessen people's risk of getting it, can only be a good thing.
TJ
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Well Done Alex! :bounce: drinkies
How the heck you managed it with Dave around, I shall never know :lol2:
Goon on ya kiss
TJ & Jon xxxxxxxxxxx
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:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Oooh! Congrats to you both kiss
TJ & Jon
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Quote by Sgt Bilko
I can confirm that Mickey Mouse does indeed wear a GnV watch!!! cool 8-) 8-) lol :lol: :lol: wink

:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :evil2: :evil2:
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Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple

By far the worst thing, in our opinion, is those guys who come right up to the car, even before we've turned the engine off, wack out the old man and start wanking away as if their life depended on it - wtf?!

I know its not funny, but the last time we went out that happened to us. We parked up, window slightly open, the guy appeared at the side of the car, cock in hand, and within seconds, he made this almighty "OOhhhhhh" then walked off, got in his car and rove away. Poor guy had come, and I'd only taken the seat belt off:shock:
You were only wearing a seatbelt?!! :shock: . . . . :lol2: :twisted:
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Quote by jerryswinger
so you didnt let him put his salad cream on your chips then lol

Eeuuuuwwwwwwwwww :!: smackbottom
:silly: rotflmao :rotflmao:
TJ
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Quote by Heather
So, was I just unfortunate or have doggers lost any kind of knowledge of the way things are done?
Hxx

Nice to see you both back biggrin
I'm inclined to agree with you really.
In the four years we've been dogging, things have changed immensely - and not only in our local area - it seems all over the place sad
By far the worst thing, in our opinion, is those guys who come right up to the car, even before we've turned the engine off, wack out the old man and start wanking away as if their life depended on it - wtf?!
What if we were just out to eat a bag of chips or go for a moonlight stroll or something :shock:
Old style doggers seem to be few and far between now and the new breed that seem to be taking over often have the manners and respect of swamp life confused :? :?
Pity about your trip being spoiled, and lets hope it was just a one off ;-)
TJ xxx
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If you have a complaint, please contact one of the chatroom op's by pm and we can deal with it for you biggrin
TJ
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Quote by GnV
It certainly closes the credibility gap being hosted by Ops and can even give them a more "human" side.

:shock:
Awwwww! Doesn't everyone know we are only human already? Can't you all see that we're all fluffy and lovely really dunno :grin:
Flower! Tell them, go on! - You know how lovely we are don't you? :giggle:
TJ wink
Think I`ll pass on that one Red !!
Some people might start thinking I`m on your side !! rolleyes lol :roll: :lol: Or worse still that I want to join you !!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
:laughabove: :laughabove: rotflmao :rotflmao:
:scared:
smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Thats for both of you :grin:
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Quote by Dave__Notts
Dawnie smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
TJ :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
I am sure I read on the :small-print: that Mods (aka :evil2: ) should not disclose anything that may cause redface to the users. In the :small-print: it says any disclosure that causes surprisedops: has to be compensated by blast hump 69position and a double dose of :blast:
I am now waiting for my compensation :thrilled:
Dave_Notts

<<<< Puckering up for one biiiigggggggg loooonnnnnnggggggggg . . . . . TJ - BJ :rascal: :blast:
Now did you want, spit, swallow or gargle :twisted: :evil2:
Get ready to pucker Dawnie . . . . . there won't be a lot left by the time I've finished with him innocent
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Quote by Dawnie
One member took a break from this site for several months purely because they had forgotten the password to their account. They had to wait until they saw me to get it re-set, didn't you Dave rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
redface Sorry Dave! It's still as funny now, as it was back a couple of years
:evil2: :evil2: :evil2:
TJ ;-)
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Quote by Stormwalker
Walk in them!!! :huh:
I thought they were just for laying on a bed with
sillyhwoar:

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :silly:
Stormy beat me to it :lol2:
As someone who spends her working day in flat shoes, I find it very difficult to walk in heels over 4" anyway rolleyes
I do have a pair of 7" heels, but if anyone remembers the old Dick Emery character *Mandy* - that's me in my 7" heels - and not a lot better in the 4" ones :undecided: :grin:
TJ
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Quote by GnV
It certainly closes the credibility gap being hosted by Ops and can even give them a more "human" side.

:shock:
Awwwww! Doesn't everyone know we are only human already? Can't you all see that we're all fluffy and lovely really dunno :grin:
Flower! Tell them, go on! - You know how lovely we are don't you? :giggle:
TJ wink