Course you aint! Gawd I'd be a monster right behind you if you were!
We all need time away and time together as adults without the kids is important too.
You've said you're taking them camping first so what's the problem? I organise stuff in termtime, as you have, to do on my own and then at least they are at school all day and there's just the evening to do.
Don't worry - I love my mum to bits and wouldn't have managed so well without her help, but I think they have a little button that they press inside that's marked 'yeah but don't have too good a time and remember to feel a little guilty it's only right.'
I was hauled over the coals at a family gathering by my wicked aunty last weekend where she accused me of 'always being away, and saying to me 'well what about the kids?' That's bull - I've given my all for those kids and now they are older I won't stay in and wait for things to come to me. I've always took them travelling with me too. I just like to go on me own sometimes. Anyway she hit a raw nerve and I kept my cool but her idle speculation upset me - just like you are doubting it now - it's because our little guilt button has been pressed and it's a natural feeling. Step over it and enjoy your break. Personally I think I'm going to always feel like that, it's cos the kids are part of ya, it's natural but it's important to remember yourself for you too.....
Pass the ginnnnnnn!!
Cathy x
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Quote by mattmoleman
Reminds me of that t'interweb story when a guy walks into a medical walkin center complaining that he can't get his contacts out. He says he that they were stuck and could only manage to get them half way, showing the doctor it became immediately apparent what was happening. The man didn't have them in and he was actually pulling at his cornea. Yuk.
I had them for a while but they gave me terrible headaches whenever I looked at computer scenes. They were the correcrt strength and all that so had no idea why this was the case. Just gave up in the end as I couldn't stand the pain while at work. Got used to me specs and I think I always will.
Does anybody know if Diabetics can have that lazer eye surgery yet? I know we can't but just checking incase there was a break through so to speak.
Dunno bout the laser eye surgery for diabetics - often thought it would be lovely to wake up and be able to see straight away (really badly short sighted) and at one time considered the laser option but then thought, well if something goes wrong (very rare I know) then I traded my sight for the inconvenience of putting me specs on in a morning -
computer says no!
On a different note I can't wear my contacts for computer work as they don't correct my site like glasses do plus find it very uncomfortable when there's air conditioning drying them out too. Great for going out! Wouldn't be without them!
Cathy x
Quote by DreamerHelen
If Wishy feels like being generous and letting me come after all then I might be able to make it......
Is there anyone that could come through South Woodford (close to Essex and near to the M25) and pick me up and drop me back on the Saturday night?
If not, I might be able to borrow a car....but I'd prefer a lift cause I get lost easily.....
If you can offer me a lift then please send me a PM....thanks
Wishy, I'm gonna send you a PM......
Why not borrow the car and essexlady will navigate??? She wants to come back on the Saturday night too.......
Just an idea xxx
Hope to see ya there!
Cathy x
Quote by DreamerHelen
auto erotic strangulation whilst having sex is as strange as ive seen
blooming dangerous too
There is a great film called 'Killing Me Softly' which has a sex scene in it where Heather Graham is being strangled by silk scarves...it's as sexy as hell......(BTW she doesn't die, she has a great time..LoL)
Erotic Strangulation is something I would like to try but only with someone that I trusted completely and if I had some sort of signal that meant he would stop if it were getting too much for me.....
Oh dear, does everyone think I'm weird now
God no course I don't!
Cathy x
Fetish my arse!
I just posted about a site similar on another thread and this one comes up here on a fetish thread!
The site is not what I would consider 'fetish' and it's not about beein prudish - my good friend in essex with the dungeon knows that, but the stuff on that site is sick not fetish - clearing up after goats and pit bulls? no thanks, keep that particular sickness ta.
Cathy x
I just posted about a site similar on another thread and this one comes up here on a fetish thread!
The site is not what I would consider 'fetish' and it's not about beein prudish - my good friend in essex with the dungeon knows that, but the stuff on that site is sick not fetish - clearing up after goats and pit bulls? no thanks, keep that particular sickness ta.
Cathy x
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Edit - I WANT the tata head big time!!!! Already got two light sabers - so much fun but sore knuckles after a sesh, ooch!
:D That's it ... will you marry me? :D :DFlutters eyelids - erm do you have the millenium falcon though? I just couldn't consider the offer without knowing that.........
Nice for a Wednesday innit?
Cathy x
:lol2: ... believe it or not but I do :bounce:
**!!**SWOON**!!
I got an old version but would love the new lights-n-everyfin version!
Anyway cough cough I am off to shop for pink bobbles
Cathy x
Quote by libertyseeker
The video can be found on the bbc news website. I think may have the full length version.
I remember clicking onto a link for another dreadful site like this by mistake from something someone sent me once.
Couldn't understand the need for it then and don't now
BBC link for me I think!
Big up to the lads over there - I have firm views that we shouldn't have gone to war like a lot of people, but the vid is harmless imho.
Cathy x
Quote by cc_7up
It's a pity i can't get them in bi that help me to see bi's easier? LoL
cc_7up
Groan
Although it does remind me of the time my mum went off to the opticians and realised half way through the appointment she'd been saying 'bisexual' lenses rather than bifocal lenses bless her!
Enjoy Clare! I love being able to switch between the two. Still being able to see things clearly at times when I would've had to take the gigs off (the hectic bits of rumpy pumpy/showers/general muckiness) and walking into a pub without yer glasses steaming up!
S'fab. Of course the glasses are still good for the dressin up times
Cathy x
Quote by hornyred and dinomust say i dont find it painful, but it takes a lot of practice(which is fun) and i have to be really horny and of course the right partner matters
If any one wants an audience then please invite us...
I''ve never experievced it - seems rather painful
Agreed! No good if you aren't in the right mood at all - relaxed and feelin feelthy is the best combination I find
Cathy x
(Oh and as Mal just pointed out - small hands help too :shock: )
Quote by J3diMast3r
I know what I am asking Santa to bring me for Christmas, one of these....
The WHOOSH Manâ„¢
Why wait till Xmas? There's a Storm-Tater coming up too ...
Quote by flapjackboy
Nah, much rather have one of these
Cheaper off eBay than through a shop ...
Company that makes all this stuff is a US one of course ... ... wish they'd stop making so much of the stuff ... it's costing me a damn fortune!!!
Quote by kbuk
Or you could be ultimately sad like I am and have both full sized, screen accurate, Darth Vader Helmet and stormtrooper helmets.
the above link goes to the site of the guy who makes the stormy helmets - he made the originals - so these are as close to originals as you can get..
kbuk
Saving up for one - but waiting for the 'Hero' version! Yup! I used to have a life too ...
Quote by tanglewood72
re - lightsabre prices.... just wait a month, ebay'll have them for 40 quid im sure!!
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Not always ... the Luke ROTJ which they no longer make quite often are reselling for over £120.
Quote by da69ve
Nah only kidding....got my tickets for Thursday morning in Leicester Square!
You beat me to it ... 5pm Leicester Square with my brother ...
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Edit - I WANT the tata head big time!!!! Already got two light sabers - so much fun but sore knuckles after a sesh, ooch!
:D :D That's it ... will you marry me? :D :D
Flutters eyelids - erm do you have the millenium falcon though? I just couldn't consider the offer without knowing that.........
Nice for a Wednesday innit?
Cathy x
Quote by essexlady
ust a small chance is anyone planning to drive to wishmasters party and back on sat night, that could fit one lady in from Essex at all please PM
I aint seen this woman in ages and I am getting withdrawl symptoms so if there is anyone coming up and can pick up the gorgeous gal, I for one would be sooooo pleased!!!!!
Come on get yer routes sorted............ pwetty pweese!!!!!
Cathy x
My bestest joke??????? Well only joke....
Ya ready?
Darth Vader: I know what Luke is getting for Christmas
Stormtrooper: Why Lord Vader how do you know this?
Darth Vader: I have felt his presents
Ooh I make meself chuckle with that :P
I know I know just indulge me occasionally
Cathy x
Edit - I WANT the tata head big time!!!! Already got two light sabers - so much fun but sore knuckles after a sesh, ooch!
Ya ready?
Darth Vader: I know what Luke is getting for Christmas
Stormtrooper: Why Lord Vader how do you know this?
Darth Vader: I have felt his presents
Ooh I make meself chuckle with that :P
I know I know just indulge me occasionally
Cathy x
Edit - I WANT the tata head big time!!!! Already got two light sabers - so much fun but sore knuckles after a sesh, ooch!
Quote by davidn48
So who's the daddy then?
great munch..thanks to nwc..even tho i didnt recognise her with her clothes on.....
great buffet.. took enough butties home with me to last all week at work.. and also enough packed lunches for my alleged "daughter" ffs.....yes she is still milking this for all its worth...
only one gripe..why do people put there name down for munches and then not turn up...without even the courtesy to ring or let you know.... ok gripe over...
But thanks to every one who turned up..in costume or not.. was a good night out...and big big thanks to nwc for all their efforts...."Dad" enjoyed himself FFS
David
xxxx
You da daddy David!
I did notice you had made an effort with costume too! Thumbs up to ya!
Bit sexy in that tie actually ......
Cathy x
Edit - any photos about yet anyone????
Quote by essexlady
I have just received a message telling me this:
U have inteligent lips ;-)
fell free to say some thing,,, i wil love to hear from U
got me thinking about chat up line and strange compliments........ Anyone else care to share any
Essexlady
:doh:
Oh EL what did you reply???????
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Cathy x
) :D :D :D :D :D :D Fantastic weekend......
Thanks NWC for the organising it was just fab - sorry I didn't get to meet you till I was leaving
Big big thanks Judy for letting me stay over and the lift - it was great to meet ya!
Rache
me nutty mate! Wot a laff eh? Ta for your company x (and yep shame about that bloody train :shock
Blue snogs for ya - made me laugh all evening! DundeeCpl - way to go, you two rock!
Mwah's to all the regs - Dammie, Sarah, David, Vicky, Muttleys, Steel, Genherts, was lovely to see y'all (will miss someone out I know.)
Great meeting fresh faces - Scandal, Neil, Gem, Leps and bloody hell no one told me that was Mal!
Ooch Angel you never let him do that did ya? Postie! soooo funny! You couldn't write that could ya? 13 years eeeekkkkkk!!!!!
Off to bed I think!
Right enjoyed meself I did!
Cathy x
