Quote by leprechaun
Does the fact that you do not cum / orgasm
A) make the person u are having fun with a failure
B) does this mean that u have not enjoyed yourself
Neither A nor B. Personally, I enjoy all of the activities the precede the male orgasm, but cumming itself is a bit of a let-down. While I'm able to maintain an erection afterwards, the sensation is just not as pronouced as with the activities that lead up to it. I've had some partners who have questioned this - or questioned themselves - feeling that they weren't able to provide me with adequate pleasure. On the contrary! It's the lead-up, and not the orgasm itself, that provides me with all the satisfaction I need for a consummately enjoyable experience. I count myself so fortunate that Vix (and a certain other partner) understand this with me, and don't feel bad or take it personally if I've not cum.
~Reese!
...and hope it wasn't Steve's & my banter that sent you off. Granted, things here sometimes work up into a heated debate, but this merely presents the opportunity for them to be resolved with understanding and acceptance. I feel that happened in this thread, and don't believe there are any ill feelings between Steve & myself. In fact, I searched desperately for an "olive branch" emoticon to offer him during my last post on this thread, but the only branchy one I could find was this...
They hacked two charity sites that were hosted on that server before I jumped in and thwarted them! :x :x Will have to reinstate my automatic script that checks for unauthorized FTP access every few seconds. Thanks so much to dazandlou for pointing this out quickly enough so I could deal with it before they hit the rest of the sites hosted there. :love:
Ooh! Pick me!! Pick me!!! 
) Feel bad for you single guys out there - xxxxxxx
