I'm up to date again with invites (I think!) - and only 4 sleeps to go!!!!
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Scarlettheharlot
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 54
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Sexlightened
Heels, heels, heels - all about heels!! Doesn't necessarily have to be sky-scraper heels, lower ones can be good too - but for me it's the feeling of slight unbalance and precariousness (sp?) that wearing heels gives me.
Boots for the winter - Shoes or Sandals for the summer.
I do own flats, but very rarely will you catch me in them, prefer bare feet.
The biggest problem for me is whopping great size 9 feet, which is tough for a girlie when most shoe shops stop at a size 8 - but since discovered Transvestite websites have had no problems! lol. Also - some of my highest heels bring me up to about 6'4" - which for some reason men have in the past found intimidating!!!! not when I fall off them though.
Boots for the winter - Shoes or Sandals for the summer.
I do own flats, but very rarely will you catch me in them, prefer bare feet.
The biggest problem for me is whopping great size 9 feet, which is tough for a girlie when most shoe shops stop at a size 8 - but since discovered Transvestite websites have had no problems! lol. Also - some of my highest heels bring me up to about 6'4" - which for some reason men have in the past found intimidating!!!! not when I fall off them though.
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Quote by Cubes
How do you initiate something like that outside of the swinging lifetsyle?
I find accidentally bending over a little too far in front of them in a short skirt and stockings, or leaning forward in a low cut top, again accidentally rubbing my boobs against their arm as I pass them a pen - all those kind of things. Easily wriggled out of or can be laughed off, but most of the time I can tell from their eyes and reaction if they're up for it or not.
Definitely easier for women to get away with than men, although I've found the jack-the-lad flirty tradesmen types, are often the ones to run a mile if you show you're actually interested in them!!!
I've managed my binman and postman and working on the window cleaner, but he's a harder nut to crack it would seem!!!
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Invites all gone out - check your mailboxes and remember - don't discuss venue with anyone!!!!
My costume has arrived and I'm soooooooooooooo excited - going to be a great night!!!
love Scarlett xxxxxxxxxxxx
My costume has arrived and I'm soooooooooooooo excited - going to be a great night!!!
love Scarlett xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Quote by Tan--Kinky
Another question.........
Can I have 2 points for giving the British Gas man a blow job please???? He's not a swinger and it wasn't a "meet" as such - but he did enjoy the BJ!!!
lol - Scar xxxxxxxxxxx
Nah you should of fucked him to :lol2:
I would have done - but my parents were due at the house in 10 minutes!!! lol
Plenty of time then
*remembers pulling my jeans up as my mother walked in to the house once*
Okay okay - accepting I don't get the 2 points for BG man BJ - but if I then lose by 2 points I'm demanding a recount!! lol
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Wishing you the most super and wonderful of Birthdays Earthy.
love Scarlett xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
love Scarlett xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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You've all gone bold and been confirmed - email invites coming out this weekend.
THANK YOU - Scarlett xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
PS - how we all getting on with costumes???
THANK YOU - Scarlett xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
PS - how we all getting on with costumes???
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Quote by Tan--Kinky
Another question.........
Can I have 2 points for giving the British Gas man a blow job please???? He's not a swinger and it wasn't a "meet" as such - but he did enjoy the BJ!!!
lol - Scar xxxxxxxxxxx
Nah you should of fucked him to :lol2:
I would have done - but my parents were due at the house in 10 minutes!!! lol
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BenrumsOn and Mrs Bonedigger - thanks for your posts.
My name is Scarlett, and I suffer from depression (said in manner of AA meeting).
For me - meds definitely help, at least for now although do hope I won't need them forever, but if I do I'm gradually learning to accept the fact and that it doesn't mean I'm "mad". The mental block of admitting it was the hardest thing for me, within my working profession I come up against all sorts of prejudice against people with mental health issues, and didn't want to be labelled as one of "them"! However, I now find the more people I talk too about it, the more people tell me they've either had previous depressive episodes or know someone close to them who has - and really it's not something I need to be ashamed of as it's NOT MY FAULT! I post this, because it took me 5 very horrid months before I finally cracked and admitted there was something wrong and went to the doctors for help - with hindsight wish I'd done it SOOOOOOO much earlier.
With regards to swinging, it's not something that so far has been an issue - I tell people as and when I know them well enough that I think they'd be interested. I have my bad days still - but find I can cope with them (mostly) through exercise and other techniques I've learned through counselling.
My name is Scarlett, and I suffer from depression (said in manner of AA meeting).
For me - meds definitely help, at least for now although do hope I won't need them forever, but if I do I'm gradually learning to accept the fact and that it doesn't mean I'm "mad". The mental block of admitting it was the hardest thing for me, within my working profession I come up against all sorts of prejudice against people with mental health issues, and didn't want to be labelled as one of "them"! However, I now find the more people I talk too about it, the more people tell me they've either had previous depressive episodes or know someone close to them who has - and really it's not something I need to be ashamed of as it's NOT MY FAULT! I post this, because it took me 5 very horrid months before I finally cracked and admitted there was something wrong and went to the doctors for help - with hindsight wish I'd done it SOOOOOOO much earlier.
With regards to swinging, it's not something that so far has been an issue - I tell people as and when I know them well enough that I think they'd be interested. I have my bad days still - but find I can cope with them (mostly) through exercise and other techniques I've learned through counselling.
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Another question.........
Can I have 2 points for giving the British Gas man a blow job please???? He's not a swinger and it wasn't a "meet" as such - but he did enjoy the BJ!!!
lol - Scar xxxxxxxxxxx
Can I have 2 points for giving the British Gas man a blow job please???? He's not a swinger and it wasn't a "meet" as such - but he did enjoy the BJ!!!
lol - Scar xxxxxxxxxxx
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All up to date again - invites coming out next weekend and anyone who has not confirmed by this date will be removed from list.
Scar xxxxxxxxxx
Scar xxxxxxxxxx
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Respect Tan (lol), now why don't you take it easy in May? You know cups of tea, snoozing in the garden, that kind of thing???
Nahhhhhhhhhhh - bring on the fun in May!!!
Scarlett xxxxx
Nahhhhhhhhhhh - bring on the fun in May!!!
Scarlett xxxxx
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Once again - all confirmations now up to date. Do please spread the word though - need to get all those names bold, preferably before the 9th May when I hope to send out all invitations.
S xxxxxxxxxxxx
S xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Quote by Melting_pot
as for the debate, I doubt it would go anywhere with the admins either..which is why profile and ad have been restored
my interest is and was more in "how things are perceived"..
Can I just stick in a word for Admin here please (although of course I'm not one of them) - but I had a prob with an advert of mine recently that someone had reported as breaking the AUP - Admin contacted me about it, we exchanged a few messages in which I explained exactly why I had put what I'd put - and in the end it was all sorted out most amicably and my advert was able to stay. Of course - wasn't the same subject matter as yours or concerning a none-member of the site - but I just didn't want you to have the impression that things "don't go anwhere" when Admin are involved - as I found them to be quite charming and helpful.
As to how things are perceived, I'm always a tad suspicious of profiles where there is a 3rd party mentioned who is not on the ad (either the way you're talking about it - or have read female ones too where they talk about a male FB who can join them) - maybe cos I find it quite hard to get my head around the idea of an FB, as I'm a dead selfish girl who doesn't want the responsibility of worrying about anyone else - takes me all my time just to ensure that I have as much fun as possible!!
Best of luck though - maybe, as someone else suggested - you could mention it to one of the girlies you meet, if they show any interest at all in being bi-friendly/curious
Scarlett xxxx
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You're all confirmed and you're all wonderful for doing so and I've just had the BEST Monday ever - so everything in the world is lovely today!!!!
S xxxxxxxxx
S xxxxxxxxx
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Andy & Carol - wouldn't be the same without you two at a munch - and Carol, I've NEVER forgotton how you took care of me at my very first munch when I was all nervous and didn't dare talk to anyone (lol) - oh how times change!!! Delighted you're both on the list.
Everyone else added and I'm up to date again - at least for now.
Scarlett xxxxxxxxxxxx
Everyone else added and I'm up to date again - at least for now.
Scarlett xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Woo, Bo & Angel - very sorry you won't make it, hopefully for the next one.
Everyone else - you're confirmed and/or added to the list and my anticipation is growing by the day.
Don't know if I've done the link right - but could see you rocking this look!! (Might get a bit hot though!!! lol)
Too bloody right Missis - remember, I know where you live!!!! lol
Everyone else - you're confirmed and/or added to the list and my anticipation is growing by the day.
Quote by Cockforyourwife
Me I'll be there if i get an outfit ? Anyone any ideas and don't say odd job xxxxxx
Don't know if I've done the link right - but could see you rocking this look!! (Might get a bit hot though!!! lol)
Quote by Gillianthe1st
I guess I best confirm seen as I'm Scarlett's little helper
Gillian
Too bloody right Missis - remember, I know where you live!!!! lol
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The Dukes of Hazard - the original, not the movie remake.
Although I didn't have a clue at that age what 3sums were, I think somehow Bo & Luke got into my subconcious and still make it into my fantasies these days.
Oh - and me and my sis used to put shorts on over tights with our sandals and run about the garden pretending to be Daisy Duke!!!!
Scar xxxx
Although I didn't have a clue at that age what 3sums were, I think somehow Bo & Luke got into my subconcious and still make it into my fantasies these days.
Oh - and me and my sis used to put shorts on over tights with our sandals and run about the garden pretending to be Daisy Duke!!!!
Scar xxxx
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Tan you lovely woman, you are an inspiration to me - and it's thanks to your scores that I'm daring to enter this competition (lol)
Ms Scarlett xx
Ms Scarlett xx
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Thanks Dirtygirly - I'm just LOVING this!!
Making a mental note of the people I know who know where my secret squirting spot is - if I can just manage to crack the self-squirt thing I won't bother leaving the house in the month of May lol
S xxxxxx
Making a mental note of the people I know who know where my secret squirting spot is - if I can just manage to crack the self-squirt thing I won't bother leaving the house in the month of May lol
S xxxxxx
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Hellooooo - is this still going? Just found the thread and a friend and I are interested in adding up our scores to see which of us is the most pervy (could be a close run thing) - thanks to the lovely Angel Chat for the spreadsheet.
Can I ask a few questions please??
Do you get 5 points every time you gush/squirt? Even if it's in the same session?
Err - same for a few other categories really - if it's the same person but you do it more than once, with someone else in between if you get my drift?
Or are we taking this WAY too seriously? lol
thanks - Scar xxxxxxx
PS - and I'm organising a munch in May so 20points for that straight off!!
Can I ask a few questions please??
Do you get 5 points every time you gush/squirt? Even if it's in the same session?
Err - same for a few other categories really - if it's the same person but you do it more than once, with someone else in between if you get my drift?
Or are we taking this WAY too seriously? lol
thanks - Scar xxxxxxx
PS - and I'm organising a munch in May so 20points for that straight off!!
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It sure is Lola my dear - you and all others above, now confirmed, gone bold and will receive invite with details the week before.
TGI Friday
Scar xxxxxxxxxxxx
TGI Friday
Scar xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Sparky love,
Very much depends on the person who the hairy chest is attached too - and we've had many a conversation about your own (Lol).
For me - I think it's the idea of snuggling into a hairy chest, and my preference would be for softer hairs rather than wiry ones - but just feeling it all soft on my face and being able to stroke it and play with it (the HAIR the HAIR) is what does it for me.
Because I'm quite hairless myself - virtually none on my arms to the point people think I shave them, I sometimes like the contrast and find a nice hairy fella a fascinating thing.
So - when do I get that snuggle?????
Scar xxxxxxxx
Very much depends on the person who the hairy chest is attached too - and we've had many a conversation about your own (Lol).
For me - I think it's the idea of snuggling into a hairy chest, and my preference would be for softer hairs rather than wiry ones - but just feeling it all soft on my face and being able to stroke it and play with it (the HAIR the HAIR) is what does it for me.
Because I'm quite hairless myself - virtually none on my arms to the point people think I shave them, I sometimes like the contrast and find a nice hairy fella a fascinating thing.
So - when do I get that snuggle?????
Scar xxxxxxxx
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Thank you thank you - you're all ACE!!!!! All up to date as of right this second.
S xxxxxxxxxxxx
S xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Quote by penelope
I dropped my son off at school in my pj's yesterday simply because i'm on a week's holiday didn't feel like getting dressed. If he didn't like it he could walk lol. xxx
I'm hearing you Penelope - frequently do the school run in my pj's - although do add a nice pair of knee boots, a hat and some mascara as well, the other Mum's and teachers are quite used to my, shall we say, interesting dress sense. Daughter and I have done a full supermarket shop in Pj's also.
Although - having said that, I'm also with what DG said, tend to put my Pj's on once kids are in bed because they are comfy to wear of an evening, take em off so I can actually sleep naked, and then pop em back on again in the morning whilst I'm getting the kids sorted/making breakfast etc - cos If I don't they giggle at my boobs!!!!
Scarlett xxxxxxxxx
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John - absolutely fine to put you as plus one - only thing is, I need to check that your swinging buddy pal is a member of SH - as munch guidelines say that has to be for members only. If she prefers not to have her name on the list, that's fine just send me a PM letting me know who she is and I'll note it down privately.
Angel_chat darling - absolutely LOVE to have you on the list, and not a problem at all for you to let me know closer to the date if you can make it, would be super to get the chance to meet you.
I'm having SUCH a good day today - hope everyone else is
Scar xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Angel_chat darling - absolutely LOVE to have you on the list, and not a problem at all for you to let me know closer to the date if you can make it, would be super to get the chance to meet you.
I'm having SUCH a good day today - hope everyone else is
Scar xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Well thank you for pointing this out Mr North - and there was me thinking I'd studied the Munch guidelines to the point of memorisation!!! Good job I made a mistake with my numbers and don't have to put a cap on numbers at all - well, unless another 100 people sign up in the next 24 days!!
All added so far
Scar xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
All added so far
Scar xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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All above added to list. Made a mistake with the numbers (ooops) - but it was a good mistake, as means can actually fit more people in than I'd originally thought - so still time to sign up if you're interested - as of next week will start asking for confirmations. Don't forget to let me know if you need a hotel list, and to remind you once again that the James Bond dress up theme is OPTIONAL!!!! Having said that - still dying to see if anyone turns up in gold bodypaint, and I do have a thing for a man in a tux or a sharp suit, mmmmmmmmmmmm - must be all this lovely weather doing strange things to me!!!!!!
Happy Monday
Scarlett xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Happy Monday
Scarlett xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
