Quote by Geordiecpl2001

We have found that most men are pretty bad at trying to seduce Shel. Even at a swingers club, we might have been chatting to some guy for an hour or so, and still he doesn't understand that a some verbal foreplay will, if she fancies him, get Shel to invite him to join us in a room.

Yet, with some guys, it's a couple of minutes chat, he makes her laugh, gives her compliments, then next thing he knows, his face is between her legs !

Some guys are just so thick and just don’t get it.

Saying that, I was maybe a slow starter myself. But after joining the swinging seen, it becomes much easier to recognise.

I turn on the charm, and as you say, make them laugh and give compliments and you are halfway into their knickers.

Quote by bimalecoupleessex

We meet guys regularly in pubs and bars. We spend most of the night together, and then from about we go to a new bar. We go in separately, she mingles, I watch from a distance. Normally within 30 mins, she is being chatted up.

Both her and the guy have had a few drinks, so things flow fairly quickly.

After a lot of chatting and her seeing if she likes the guy, she explains the situation about me.

I never talk to them together in the bar.

I only watch now though, so she is talking about a him and her situation with me watching, which most guys are happy with.

She dresses sexy enough to attract guys, but not slutty.

This is the way to do it. I have met several couples like this.

But the poor wife’s have to do the dirty work and explain they are married and that hubby wants to watch 😂

I think most guys are happy to go along with this. I have never refused yet.

Quote by Shywifecouple

Send me a email and we will give somerhing to watcv

I got scammed as well 😂

Quote by HornyMarriedCpl2024

Similar ourside, we have a very specific fantasy but it’s less cuckold, and more someone coming to abuse my pussy fully for them/hubby. Literally cum dump and go

Years ago a married lady I met online wanted exactly that, but wanted to be blindfolded. Strange, very strange, but also sounded like fun.

I nervously went to her house and let myself in and locked the door behind me as instructed. She was blindfolded on her sofa and was playing with a toy.

So I just basically got in there and had her all over her sitting room and filled her up nicely.

I then left without her ever seeing me and I never saw her again. Only one message that said WOW and that was it 😂

Quote by justu811

I am also not into the humiliation, its more about being turned on watching her receive and give pleasure. Well the way I see it. We have tried a few times with other guys unforgettably barring 1 they all were asssholes treating my wife li89ke a piece of meat afterward, this has led her to feel ashamed. When we are naughty and being honest we both have really enjoin the encounters but what I have learnt we need someone or a couple who we are friends with 1st and happy if things develop at the right time and place.

I have met many couples and have yet to meet one husband who has been into humiliation and I really do not know if I could if that was what they wanted.

Like Grizzly I have the utmost respect for both and reassure them both that I am well aware that I am just the added extra for the bedroom.

If for example I was left alone with a wife for a short time and it was getting hot, I would shout on the husband to come and join us and make him feel included as much as possible.

Quote by Barfit

My Ex came home one night tipsy and randy, I went down on her not realising she had a full load in her! went on and cleaned her up ( Probably wouldn't have if I'd known beforehand) wow great tasty experience and she really enjoyed it as well !

An ex was the same. Came home and I was going to go down on her, but she said no no no, I don’t want oral tonight. Only when I slid into her did I notice she was full of sperm already as it slid in too easy.

I meet a few hot wife’s and if their husbands are not present they insist my cum is left inside so they can clean up later. I suppose it’s the least I can do 😂

When it comes to swinging, size and looks are not important to me. Personality, manners and a fun attitude are what counts.

I have also noticed that for some unknown reason, bigger ladies tend to give great blow jobs, probably the best.

I am friends with an older swingers couple. The lady is on the large side, but she is a lovely woman. She loves being naughty and playing and having fun.

So larger ladies are always welcome in my company.

A sexy short denim skirt. It’s nice when the female gives you a flash of what she has underneath. Any female I have been with knows I will be drooling and hard if she wears one and it’s only a matter of time before my hands wander for a feel.

Not for me. But I have been requested and have left my sperm in a few hot wife’s so their husbands could clean them up afterwards. I suppose it’s the least I could do lol.

Where specifically would you recommend?

Quote by Dave_Desert229

Is he mad? As long as poor hygiene isn't a factor, I love eating pussy. One of my favourite things to do. I've been told I'm very good at it, too.

Not that I noticed. She smells and tastes lovely. She now rides my face while he watches.

I recently met with a couple. The wife loves me licking her pussy and says her husband never goes down on her. He seemingly does not like the taste.

Aiden, what you need to remember is that you are the guest. You have to respect and fit in with the couple. Yes it can be very nerve wracking. But if you find a regular couple you will soon all be relaxed. You soon learn the do’s and don’t and likes and dislikes. Also, you will be wanting to do everything with the hot wife. But it’s important that the husband does not feel left out. So encourage him to join in and have fun.

Quote by Qui2345

Really is . Sometimes I tell her who’s been other times I don’t ! 

Love it. So she might speak to a mate when you are both out socially and not know he has fucked her?

Quote by Edbb96

Sound advice, not sure our meeting last night helped! Definitely one of the steamiest nights of my life but my head's all over the place now 😊

Not so good mate. If you can relax and just enjoy and realise you are only the guest you will have fun. Treat it any different and it’s sadly not for you. I had something similar happen when a hot wife of a couple I was playing with had a crush and wanted more from me. She wanted us to play behind her husbands back and go out together as a couple. I felt really bad about it and decided it was best that we no longer met up. As much as I loved fucking her, i did not want to be responsible for breaking her husbands trust or a marriage break up.

Quote by Edbb96

I've got my second meet with a gf/bf couple tomorrow, a bit younger than me. I'm going to write a story about it when I get back and I've been keeping a kind of diary this week. I'm just a bit worried that I'm getting obsessed with the girl, we've been talking all week since we met last weekend, but she's been amazing with the planning.

Do not become obsessed or you will spoil things for yourself. You are an invited No3 and must respect that they are a couple. Getting obsessed or / and attached is not an option.

Yes I would say it’s normal for myself and gf. In fact at least once, more times than not twice unless we have been drinking too much. In the morning she will wake me by sucking on my cock and then straddling me and fucking me until we both cum.

I flew across the Atlantic and back for a weekend shag.

I saw this survey …

Out of 100 men, only five would have a penis larger than 16 cm. Conversely, an erect penis measuring 10 cm ( inches) falls into the 5th percentile: Only five out of 100 men would have a penis smaller than 10 cm.

So I would say WE starts at 16 cm or 6.3 inches. I never have classed myself as well endowed, but seems I am 🤣 God only knows where VWE starts 😱

Quote by MrandMrsBad

We were looking at the same sort of thing last year..Not a blatant show for the punters, but a pub with cubicles..We found one near Manchester airport .She was going to wear a dress with a thin top half to show off her bra-less boobs and erect nipples .Stockings under the dress and heels..We had arranged a meet there for some under table fun..touching and so on. The guy bottled out in the end so we did not go.

I love doing this with couples. Love the hot wife to sit in the bar in between both guys and being discretely fondled, rubbed and fingered by both of us. It’s a great turn on and the hot wife gets very wet, very quickly.

Quote by York6677

We were blocked by a couple and we hadn't even looked at their profile let alone interacted with them. So it's not just single guys who get blocked

This is what I was trying to explain. I think there is something wrong with the system.

Quote by Gts

So, more thoughts on this - ok, fine block me without interaction. I accept any user can do the blocking if they so wish - it's the warning against harassment when I haven't do anything wrong! that I quite dislike.

This is happening to me more and more these days and I am convinced there is something wrong with the system, or admin are doing it for whatever reason. I have been on SH for many years and until recently have never been blocked by anyone. All of a sudden there is several profiles blocking me 🤔

These percentages are not right 🤔

Total is 116% 🙈

I’m not sure I could leave the ‘sexual’ part behind. I have been on many nude beaches and although I try to keep it to non sexual, my eyes wander and I start to get aroused. I’m not sure if other guys are the same, but when I see a sexy woman I want to look and do more if they are interested. So maybe this is not for me 🤣

I think I am very much like you. I met a couple recently and asked them what their fantasies were as I wanted to assist in accomplishing them if I could, as their pleasure would be my pleasure. Or as you say, you get off on them getting off. They loved it and said I was very considerate. But being the considerate people they are, they wanted to know what pleased me, so it was not all one sided.

I am single and in the past have been accused of being married or with someone. I tell the truth, but it’s not always believed. Recently I have met a married couple a few times and the woman has been trying to catch me out. It’s got to the stage I have actually told her that if I had a woman, I would be honest, but it’s really none of her business. I think the problem is that lots of guys lie and are not honest and say they have their wives approval when their wife is at home and none the wiser.

No! I have never touched another man’s cock and have no interest in doing so.

Usually in a threesome my only rule is that I do not wish to touch or be touched by the other male.

Quote by osemlover

Since when is expressing an opinion in a forum RAMMING anything down anyone's throat? You can choose to agree or not. You're the one who's getting all worked up.

Really? 🤣 so everyone else who has previously commented in the last six years should come on and express their strong views again? We heard you the first time.

And your point is my friend?

Quote by Gts

Does anyone find it a bit odd to be blocked by someone who you've never interacted with?? In my home screen, where you can see who has visited your profile, I clicked to return the view only to find I'm blocked and warned against harassment.

Seems a little harsh, especially since I don't recall having visited them first! Some people are strange.

I have had the same problem and was blocked by friends. They asked me why I no longer commented on their photos. I never questioned them at the time, but when asked I informed them that it appeared they had blocked me which they say they never.