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Scotchlander
6 hours ago
Straight Male, 60
Spain

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Quote by osemlover

We don't need to educate you to anything - you are an adult and make your own deicions. As you have stated, it's an opinion and we're entitled to ours as you are yours.

Yes of course and I actually agree with you. But you don’t need to ram it down people throat who disagree with you without any facts.

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Six years on and our answer is still no, never. It's not worth the risk.

Everyone has their own opinion. You have yours and others have theirs. If you feel so strongly you could maybe educate us on the risks you obviously feel are involved.

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I wonder how popular it would be getting a Plumbing & Heating Engineer out knowing that he enjoys the swinging lifestyle?!

This sounds interesting. So do you mean that females would phone you as a plumber, but you are really a sex machine in disguise? Neighbours would see plumbers van and not think any more about it and all the time you were indoors plumbing your cock into the woman?

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What I don't like is when single guys send messages to my hubby asking to join us, as if the decision is all his and I don't have a say! (Well I suppose I am just the wife hey) banghead
Needless to say, I am very polite in my response! evil

I would say he was showing respect to your husband, but can still understand how you were a bit miffed. But how would your husband feel if he only contacted you. I try to keep in touch with them both by creating a group chat. So that I am contacting them both instead of just the one.

Yes, I too would love to at least see one, but taking part would be better. Surely some sex clubs must have a greedy hot wifes night.

I love watching ladies play with themselves. I used to meet up with a couple and the lady would give us guys a show. We would wank while watching her and then fuck her when she was ready.

I was actually introduced to swinging by an ex girlfriend who was a Roman Catholic. But I believe they are possible taught that such things are bad and a sin. So many never venture into our world and become sexually frustrated and that’s maybe why so many priests end up committing sex crimes. I would suggest that you reassure her that there is nothing wrong with her enjoying herself with others and it does not make her a bad person. Maybe suggest watching another couple and initially taking baby steps. Good luck.

Not as much a vehicle, more the surroundings and location in the background of the photo. One couple posted photos and I recognised it as a few places around my town

I totally agree with Yorknudeguy. I treat it as an absolute honour to be invited also and the couple ‘both’ have my utmost respect and admiration. I do not forget that I am an invited guest and have to fit in with the couple. First and foremost I want to make sure the woman feels at ease and enjoys herself. I also like to make sure the male feels involved and not left out. It gives me pleasure to know I have enhanced a couples relationship and sex life. The biggest pleasure for me is seeing the wife orgasm while I am attending to her, while the husband maybe holds her hand and watches us while encouraging us both.

Well done you. You are my type of woman who knows how to enjoy herself. Wish I had been there.

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Loved it! 


Please tell us more. Did hubby fix up a visitor while you were blindfolded?

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I recently had a discussion with a guy and he was telling me his wife’s pussy was very loose and when they fucked there was very little feeling for both. So I asked if she would maybe fancy trying DP, but with both guys sliding their cocks into her pussy at he same time. Has anyone ever tried this? If the couple had lived closer, I’m sure we would have most certainly have tried this by now, as it’s something they really want to try. I do too and now on my bucket list lol.

Is a drive of a few hours not worth it if the end result is mutual enjoyment and satisfaction, 😉😜


Yes! Most certainly. But it would have been a ten hour flight to the States 🤣
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Hi would love to watch my fella bp anyone interested xx

Sounds interesting. But who is getting the by what ever that is? 

Where did you dig this one up from Lynn? 🤣 ..... very interesting. Unfortunately I worked in a predominantly male industry and females were few and far between. I did get to play with and shag one female co-worker (away from work) who was twenty years younger than me. But due to different shifts it only happened a couple of times and was not very exciting.

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 In those days yes 🤣 What a mess. I thought she would have been happy. How wrong could I be 🤣
 rotflmao

In all honesty - unless you were told not to and ignored her, it's a little mean that she didn't give you a second chance... or at least help you out with your aim! 

 Totally agree. We all have little accidents 🙈🤣

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 we never had sex again she was so annoyed. 
 You must be a pretty heavy cummer if she had that much of a reaction to it! icon_wink


 In those days yes 🤣 What a mess. I thought she would have been happy. How wrong could I be 🤣

Just had a flash back and a chuckle to myself 🤣 ... Many years ago I was having sex with a friend and shot my cum all over her hair. She was not happy. In fact we never had sex again she was so annoyed. I never knew it was such a big no no.

I’m very envious of you guys. I would love to have the jab, but now live in Spain and cannot see it happening anytime soon. In fact I do not know anyone who has had it yet and that includes people over 70 years old.

It sounds political. What a shame these governments are using this vaccine and their populations lives as a political pawn. If in their opinion, the vaccine is so bad, then why not send it to poorer countries that will accept it, rather than it going to waste.

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Any problems with those that had the Astra Zeneca? ... read about blood clots and find it worrying. Although the ‘company’ say it’s not associated with their vaccine, I would prefer to hear WHO say that than a biased company.
 The WHO have.

 Yes, just saw that on the news. Initially it was just the company. But now WHO and European regulators, which is a very welcome confidence boost.

Any problems with those that had the Astra Zeneca? ... read about blood clots and find it worrying. Although the ‘company’ say it’s not associated with their vaccine, I would prefer to hear WHO say that than a biased company.

Spanish and South American females speaking Spanish and their voices are a BIG turn on.

Si! Si! Si! 😜🤣

Very good advice above. Have a good chat together and go over different scenarios that you would both like and dislike, so you both have a good understanding. As already stated, you must have a very stable relationship prior to dabbling and also not be the jealous type. Suggest you meet an understanding couple to begin with, who will not be too heavy on you both. But above all, have fun!

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there is nothing like bars back

 Don’t worry. They will be open again soon 🤣

I tend to agree with you Peter. Too many are too quick to write off older people. But to be honest, I used to be the same. But after trying older ladies, I now realise I was so wrong. 

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Brilliant..good to hear it.. hopefully this Covid-19 nightmare will be over soon for all of us. 


Yes guys. Being single we are allowed one other single person as a friend to visit. Tonight I am again visiting this sexy woman with no underwear 😜🤣

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A friend with benefits I was meeting last week had never done this before. She is school teacher, so always wears underwear. So I suggested she try going without. She came to collect me in her car and I asked her straight away if she had remembered our plan. She said yes. So while she was driving I had a feel to make sure. No underwear 😜 ... she loved it. That day I was able to get good access to her pussy at every opportunity and it was a BIG turn on for us both.
 I hope she's in your Covid-19 bubble meeting wise.


Yes of course 😎 Rules are different here in Spain though. But i know where you are coming from and vey cautious. We wear masks everywhere in public. Walking along the street and on the beach 😷 If we get caught without we are heavily fined.

A friend with benefits I was meeting last week had never done this before. She is school teacher, so always wears underwear. So I suggested she try going without. She came to collect me in her car and I asked her straight away if she had remembered our plan. She said yes. So while she was driving I had a feel to make sure. No underwear 😜 ... she loved it. That day I was able to get good access to her pussy at every opportunity and it was a BIG turn on for us both.